well let's see: i havee ben dating the same person for a little over 2 years.ever sencee like the endd of 6th gradee&&know were in 9th and everything has completletlyy changed. I know i lovee him w/ alll my heartt&&so muchh more..butt he doesntt show anything what soo ever.we dont go out nott and it really hurtss but we might workk thingss out. He sayys he lovess me but i know deep downn he doesnt..&&i cant seem to lett goo..Annd im soo confusedd
Additional info, added Wednesday November 23 2005, 1:09 pm: he is 14 and im 14 almost 15
he semi cheatedd once
He is nicee whenn ppl arnt around
but a jerkk when his friendss are. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Monday November 21 2005, 8:00 pm: You have to find out what is going on here. You can't just decide for yourself that he just doesn't love you anymore if you havn't hung out with him for a while. You have to put in some effort.
Here are the possibilities for why you two may not be going out anymore:
-One of you are no longer interested in the other
-Something in his life may be going on right now that you aren't aware of thats withdrawing him
-You both have just stopped making plans and expect the other one to call and plan a date.
Take in these choices. You need to explain these feelings before you decide what to do. Tell him that you feel like things are starting to fall apart and ask him if he agrees, and then discuss what you can do to fix it.
MissIiVannaH answered Monday November 21 2005, 7:36 pm: You should talk to him about this because if you don't then how does he know he's doing something wrong. If you don't want to tell him then just give him slight hints but not to make him feel like he bad or anything.
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