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Am I wrong?
Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
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You can make plans with them and I would be mad to if they left me out try and make new friends in the school you are going to now cause your friends in a different school you never talk to them and they dont even bother to invite you. Talk to her boyfriend if you want its her ex and she left you out before.
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Hecksters yes you should! dude you are free to think whatever you want too! ESPECALLY if they are leaving you out! Why not find a new group of friends, that dont leave you out?
hope this helps!
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When in doubt find out. You need to find out if something is happening here. Odds are it is not. These two just became friends and perhaps are trying to get to know one another. Maybe they have no idea you feel left out. Friends from school do not around your age hang out all the time with one another like they used to.
I think what you should do is talk to them both. Tell them "I really like you guys. I feel left out as you haven't been hanging around lately. I miss you." See where that gets you. If they have ditched you permanently than that is your problem. You have to find out for yourself from the horse's mouth.
If they bring up something you did that bothered them hash it out. You really will not know why you are the odd man or girl out without going to these people and subtly asking these kinds of questions to get answers. We here cannot tell you why as we're not them and do not know what you may have said or did. I hope this helps.
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No you're definitly not in the wrong! but don't get mad, just 3-way with your friends on the phone or...see them in person and tell them thta you feel as if they've been leaving you out..and you dont want you guys to grow apart. Don't act as if your mad, b/c if you do your friends might get defensive and it'll just make it worse. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Before you jump to conclusions, you have to explain to your friend that you won't let this guy get in between as you said. Your friends jumped to conclusions too if they went and ditched you because you told one of them that you liked her ex boyfriend.
I think the biggest reason you all are spread apart is because of the separate schools. School was a huge part of your friendship with these girls. Thats what kept you updated with each other and kept you making plans on the weekend. So this might be just you thinking that they are ditching you, I may be wrong, but school changing is a huge deal. Your friendship won't be like it was with different schools. But again, before you decide to feel mad and just shut out, call that friend and tell her that you felt like you needed to tell her and that you didn't know that she would be sensative to it. You were being a friend by telling her. Don't give up on working this friendship out. It sounds worth trying for.
As for the friendship, you should start asking them about their weekend plans and then asking to tag along with them. You don't want to throw this away, make a girls night.
-TheTeenGirl
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wow, i can see how this would turn out, only go out with this guy if you think that you truly love him and that he is the one, but yes you are part right, don't let a boy get in between you and your friends, but i don't think your friends should be leaving you out like this, you should tlk to them about it, maybe they could just be mad at you, who knows, i would like to help you further with this, you should go to my coulumn and e mail me, i would like to hear how everything turns out,
Jasmine,
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