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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?
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Well...really thats kinda sad and its really hard to do sometimes but well anyways u just gotta tell her how u feel and like say that u just want to b friends and stuff well it would b better if ya have one of your friends tell her because its really kinda sad for the girl...believe me i know.
wel i hope i could help ya!.. =]
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move to candna w/out telling here and then call her on the phone or u can do it in a public place
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Say it nice. Just say you wanna be friends. It would be meaner to stay with her wen you dnt really like her.
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Well, you really cant, but i suggest you say what u feel, like you dont want to hurt her feelings, but it wasnt meant to be. Dating for a year isnt sad if you really like each other!
good luck
~*~*Jess*~*~
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Um thats tough..... imma gurl and i kno how i would take it... its gunna hurt her no matter what but maybe juss say "I dont feel things between us clicking any more... i dont want you to be mad at me im juss saying.... can we be good friends?" maybe shell be relived maybe shell be mad.... but give her time n shell get over it.
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well.... u could tell her that you need some space and you need to concentrate on school.(if ur still in school). well hope i helped!
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if u break up w/ som1 ull be hurtn their feelings...especially if u dated ehr for a year/
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i think that you should just tell her..that its been a year...and you think that you should c other people for awhile...and tell her ur sorry..and u dont want to hurt her
Hope I Helped
xO amberino Ox
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you really have a problem... well just talk to her and tell her that you think that ya'll should just be friends and that you still want to be her friend because things are not goin so good for you and and her, then just talk to her little by little each day and then she well get the point and just stop talkin to you
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Well theres no way to not hurt her feelings but just tell her that you still want to be friends and you hope it wont effect your friendship. If she really cares about you, she should be understanding.
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She's going to get hurt if she really did like her. But, that's sweet that you care about her and don't want to hurt her. But, just tell her something like "I know it's been a year and I'm not trying to hurt you, that would be the last thing that I would want to do, so I'm trying real hard here, but I just think we would be better off as just friends. I mean I'm not going to just leave you like that, I want you to know, that I'm still here for you, I'll be you friend still, I just think it would be better as friends than a relationship..." Just say something like that. Something sweet and honest. Just break it to her easy. It was a year and it will be hard on her. Just tell her you'll still be there for her though, you'll be her friend, but there's just no more of the relationship anymore. I hope this helps and good luck hun. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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what i do is i say 'i had a really good time going out with you but i feel like we have more of a friend-type relationship.' except i am a gurl and i dump guys that way...but its ok with most gurls too i think.
hope i helped and let me know how it goes.
~Jen
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A punch to the face usually works really well.
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Ouch. Sorry to say, but breaking up will always hurt someone, even if you don't want them to get hurt. That's real sweet though. You just have to be honest with her. Break up with her face to face, not over msn, aol, yahoo, or the phone. After a year of dating, are you sure you want to break up? Do you guys have something you don't agree on? If it's anything that can be fixed try working it out first. If you just don't have feelings anymore. Tell her the truth. The truth hurts sometimes, but it has to come out. Tell her you want to be friends?
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you cant if you both rly liked eachtother enough to stay with them for a yr!
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it depends on why you want to break up with her....tell her the reason and still try to be friends
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first of all, how is that sad that you have been going out with someone for a year? i think that shows good commitment. are you sure you want to break up with her? think of the reasons why, and you be the judge of whether it's really worth giving her up. if you really feel you want to break up with her, say something like: "hey baby i dont think this is working, i think we should break up" no matter how you put it she will be upset, but you can try to put it as nicely as you can. i hope you make the right decision here.
[[laura]]
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tell her that u guys can still be really good friends
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ok just say that ur soOOoOooOoo sorry its just yu wannah b friends and your better off as just friends..and that mabe itll work out in the fueature just not right now..and u reallly wannah still b friends...idk wht else to say i jus got dumped and it wasnt a goOd feeling so all ikan say is do it nicly...itll b better that way!..hope i helped!..
-xO Jessie!
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