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okay..im like totally confused right now..and well anyway heres my problem...theres this boy..lets call him..john..okay..john and i have been friends since we were like 8..were neighbors..and in the same grade and everything..so well ever since i was 8 ive liked him..and now i KNOW i love him..but last year..7th grade..i asked him out..and he said no..i was okay with that though cuz we were still friends..so anyway..skool started like a month ago and im in english class with one of my other guy friends..lets call him mike..so mike and me kinda flirt.ALOT.and one of the girls who sits in front of me whispered to me she thinks he likes me..well i didnt believe her cuz were just friends..but then the next day in homeroom..mike is in my homeroom..another girl told me the same thing..then later that day ANOTHER girl told me that..and now im starting to like him cuz whenever we look at eachother we both just smile for no reason at all..but this is were the problem comes in..before all this flirting..i asked john to be friends with benefits with me..and he said yea..we havnt like kissed or anything yet..but idk if i should cuz i kinda like this mike kid..but then i feel like ive waited since i was 8 to do this with him and i dont wanna blow my chance..so as you can see i am really confused...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!SORRY THIS IS LONG!!xoxo
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wow. dont worry bout it being too long..i have homework to do but i don't feel like doing it..heh..im so naughty. lol. okay. so then, onto your problem. you really like "John" but he turned you down. so now you like "John" and "Mike". so the way i see it, i think that if Mike asks you out, see what John's opinion is, and if he says well i dont care, go for it ((if he says i dont care, then he mite like you, thats just wut guys say..its like a translation lol)) if he says no, then say "then if you don't think i should say yes, then are you going to go out with me?" and then if he says no, just be like "you know what? screw you." jp lol. then i think you should go for Mike, cause i think John missed his chance. he'll realize he lost someone who is a fabulous person, and he mite not get you back..unless he does something spontaneous..or just something. lol. if he says yes, then go with him obviously. but i say only go out with Mike if he asks you out. if he doesn't then i would forget about it and him. and if you really as you say "KNOW you love him" then i would just completely forget about Mike altogether..unless you know you cant be with John. so you should probably ask John if you two have a chance at all. like..next time you two can talk personally..since you're neighbors n all. hope that wasn't confusing or anything. lol. good luck! i hope it works out and everything! if you need more advice, IM me or just drop one in the inbox. let me know how it turns out!
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