okay.. i like this guy.. and me and him have been flirting since school started.. well.. i found out the other day he wants to go out with me and im totally happy.. and i was going to.. but then i got on my bus and i asked my friend if she knew him.. so that she could help with the hook up.. and she was like.. "oh.. hes my ex.. do you talk to him?" and i was like.. "yea... i met him this year.." and she was like.. "but you dont like him right?" and i casualy changed the subject but i do.. and then she asked me to ask him why he broke up with her.. and to hook them back up.. i dont know what i should do.. because i liked him before i knew that my friend did.. pLeAsE help!
Steph2 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:05 am: ugh. thats a horrible situation to put you in. but your friend had her chance, now its yours. if he likes you and you like him, go for it!!! your friend needs to learn how to deal with this stuff. good luck!!
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Lasag69 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:37 am: Don't worry about your friend, if you like him and he likes you then get together, if your friend can't handle that then she isnt much of a friend. She'll be happy for you, jealous, but happy. If she still doesn't accept it just admit that he liked you, not her, and thats the way it is. Hope it all turns out good for you.
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MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:14 am: I feel for you on this one. If the guy doesn't like her your friend will get over it and maybe you could try to hook her up with someone else.If not, you should respect your friends wishes. [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
Karen answered Friday September 17 2004, 9:44 pm: If you and this guy both like each other, then ask him out!! Go for it girl lol!! Your friend will get over it eventually. If I was in your position, I would go ask him out. He can't control that he likes you instead of his ex-girlfriend, which is your friend. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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