I've had my boyfriend for about 2 weeks now. In the beging, we could never get enough of each other. We would sit by each other constantly, at lunch and everything, and now we don't even sit by each other at lunch.
I went to a movie today, I tried to get close but all he did was put his foot closed to mine. Though I was greatful for that.
He sometimes seems to be annoyed with some of the stuff I do, but then later it seems like he's happy with me again. And he gives me hugs and stuff all the time, (we're too young to kiss, even though we have! lol)
Well, I think I need to give him his space. We see each other in 5 of our classes, and we spent the whole weekend together the other weekend, and we call each other/talk online constantly. I think we're getting into a little too much of each others buisness.
So my question is, do you think I should give him his space, or do you think something else is wrong? Thank you.
Lasag69 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 2:42 am: I think you should definatly give him his space. It appears that you have gone into this relationship to fast, you've only been together for 2 weeks and it seems like your spending TOO much time with each other, and your probably to young for a relationship that intense. So back off from each other a little, give each other a bit of space, and you'll end up fine.
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MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 12:55 am: I think you should definitely give him some space!! If you think something alse is wrong, you two should talk it over and see whats up. Otherwise back off a little bit. [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday September 17 2004, 9:22 pm: Wow, this has "communication issues" written alllllllllll over it.
I think you should talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he wants. Ask him "Do you want space? Is something else wrong?" Point out to him that you never sit together at lunch, and all that.
You'll never know what's wrong unless you ASK him. So, if I were you, I would.
Communication is key. KEY. Lack of communication can destroy relationships like a snap. It's so bad, but it happens so often.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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