ok..my guy friend tells me he kinda likes me.. and i had secretley kinda been crushin on him too.. so i told him..then he started talkin bout how we have a lot of things in common..and i thought he was gunna ask me out..but he still hasnt..i noe hes shy but he also noes that i think the guy should ask the grl.. i still like him and i think he still likes me but he jus wont ask me out..and like i said i still think the guy should ask the grl...help!!
xoxSaMxox answered Saturday August 21 2004, 5:59 pm: well they same exact thing happened to me kinda. the guy i had a crush on kept bugging me for about a week asking me who i like but i wouldnt tell him. finally i did. and then my friends told me that the day before i told him, they found out that he liked me. so then the next week i was expecting him to ask me out but he didnt. so i made the move (in a note) and he said yes. and now we've been going out ever since. so i think YOU should make the move and ask him out. if you keep waiting he might never ask you out and you'll lose your chance. so act now! you dont wanna lose your chance! [ xoxSaMxox's advice column | Ask xoxSaMxox A Question ]
beautifulsoul answered Saturday August 21 2004, 4:54 pm: If you really want to ask him out, ask him out yourself! If he really likes you, he will be grateful that you have taken the weight off of his shoulders. There is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. :) [ beautifulsoul's advice column | Ask beautifulsoul A Question ]
Steph2 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 4:09 pm: be the brave one and ask him!! itll work if he likes ya..dont worry hun...cuz guys think its pretty cool when the girl asks the guy, so its all good..dont worry, ull get the hang of it, and it might seem odd, but its a lot easier than u think..i no ppl who have asked the guy
good luck i hope this helped!!
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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:36 pm: the guy doesnt have to ask the girl!! theres nothing that sayz that!! i asked my boyfriend out and now weve been together for 2 yearz !!:)
i think hez just veryy shy and nervous about asking you out, even if he knowz yu say yes..itz a very hard thing to do for some ppl and you have to give him time..or maybe talk to him about it so that neither one has to ask eachother out..it can be a mutual thing..
hope i helped!!
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