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Getting off and getting off quick
Okay so there is two questions here
first one is Me and this guy has been having sex since like october but then we took a brake and we started having sex again but then he was like fuck...and i was like and he was like you make me cum to fast. SO like is that a good thing my friends say it is but is it?
2nd one is
When me and him have sex i don't get off is that like a normal thing like when women have sex all the time with a man and don't get off is there somthing wrong or yeah
his the first person i have splet with
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Not sure how old you are, but lots of younger guys have difficulty with something called 'premature ejaculation.' This basically means they cum too fast.
It's nice that he is turned on by you and enjoys the sex, but in reality things could be a lot better if he was able to make it last longer. He shouldn't be blaming you for his problem!!
When a guy cums too quickly, a big side effect is just what you mention - the girl doesn't often have an orgasm. While it can be common for women to have difficulty orgasming though intercourse alone, that doesn't make it okay.
There are plenty of other ways he can help you get off, and if he isn't doing them then I would question the balance in your sex life. You deserve to have an orgasm just as much as the guy does!
I wish you the best.
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first question: yes its a good thing. i mean, it may begin to irritate you at times but you have to remember this is the first person youve slept with, therefore, you are "tight" down there and that makes a guy cum very quickly. Through time, you will loosen up a bit (not bad! and not alot!), just enough so he can get used to your body and not cum so quick......therefore, making sex funner and longer!!
second question: i have actually heard of a lot of girls never being able to get off from intercourse. they will be able to through other sexual acts, but not sex itself. some girls are like this all the time, no matter how much experience theyve had, and this is perfectly 100% normal!..on the other hand, after getting used to things a bit sexually, you may begin to get off from it. either way, its perfectly normal!
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Okay, first question: Yeah, it's a good thing. It just means that you turn him on a lot and you're good in bed. But if he's getting off too quickly, try taking things a bit slower.
Second question: It's fairly normal since it's the first guy you've been with. You guys probably just don't know your triggers yet. If you don't already, try having him rub your clit while you're having sex.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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