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Spice it up...
So i am a girl (22), and i have a girlfriend, yes we are lesbians.
So we have been together a really long time and we are trying to think of ways to "spice up" our sex life... we were thinking some sort of games or something, although most out there are made for heterosexual couples. does anyone have any ideas?
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Unfortunately, not only are most sex games pretty hetero-centric, but most are also terrible.
If you are set on games, try greatsexgames.com. The Sex is Fun game is designed for a M/F couple, but is a REALLY good game, and with a little imagination could easily work for a same sex couple.
I would suggest an old school approach, though. Both you and your partner write out, in as best detail as each can manage, one of your hottest fantasies. Then, trade them. Discuss and consider ideas to fulfill those fantasies through role-play or whatnot. Sharing your fantasies is one of the best ways to keep a hot sex life in a long-term relationship!
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Lesbianism is a great things in terms of sex, because you can have it all! The question is, of course, what you and your girlfriend fancy.
While ready made games often do favour heterosexual couples, specialist stores you can find online may offer lesbian-friendly versions. Alternatively, you can make up your own game...
One good stop is often a women's only sex shop (these tend to be a bit less sleazy and a bit more fun!). Some couples are happy to buy things to help spice things up, and these stores can supply a huge range of things you might never have thought of. Again, there are excellent online suppliers if you don't want to go in person.
Finally, simply changing the location or time of day you have sex can be a simple but easy way to help bring some freshness into your relationship. A nice evening away at a hotel never hurts!
Good luck to you both...sex lives can become very static when you've been with someone a long time - this is normal. But with love and a willingness to keep things going, I'm sure you guys will manage just fine!
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You guys should try that game where you roll dice and each number represents something; fingering, licking, massaging, toys, etc.. One of you rolls and if you get a 5 and that stands for rubbing, the person that rolled gets to pick the spot and you do that for five or ten minutes, then the other person rolls.
You could also try role playing, tying each other up, spanking, toys, or whatever else you're into. Ask her about any fantasies she's had and tell her any that you've had.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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okay, well my suggestion is to go to like a store where they sell things that have to do with sex. For example in the town i live in there is something called spencers. They have different games, and toys and things like that. See if there is one in your area. maybe not a spencers, but any store like that.....
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