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21st birthday My boyfriend is turning 21 on sunday. I can not think of a single thing to get for him. ive even asked him and he says he doesnt want anything...im really desperate for some ideas. ive already looked for concert tickets & sports game tickets & theres no thing really that he would be interested in...he has a nice watch..im really just drawing a blank...please help!
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My answer to your question would to buy a cute or hot outfit and wear it for a special night between the two of you ]
I would get him a nice meaningful card and a few fun drinking gifts...that's what i did for my boyfriend's 21st. You could also include a gift card for a mall or his favorite store. ]
a male perspective: the two of you can have a romantic time any day, that sort of gift is more appropriate for you, not him.
you only turn 21 once: it should be something memorable. Some fun suggestions that all cost about $50-$75:
1) send a singing telegram to him sung by a mascot, or cavewoman or something equally outrageous at work with balloons and a cake to share with his co-workers. You get to make up the song with all sorts of personal knowledge of him. trust me, it is a hoot.
2) if he is a sports fan, buy a jersey of his favorite team with the number 21 on it and take it down to their offices to get it signed by players and/or coaches. teams do this for people all the time.
3) send a limo to pick him up with champagne or his favorite booze in it. take him to a favorite bar where you and/or friends are waiting to party, or even to a hotel wher just you are waiting (wink, wink). You can also have fun with this one if you engage the driver to drive him to a few false starts and park outside for a minute before moving on to the actual location (e.g. gay bar, massage parlor, tattoo shop).
4) get some of his buddies to set up a picture scavenger hunt for him where each place he goes he will get a small gift from you. for example, he has to get a picture of a liquor store to get a bottle of his favorite libation...
the key is to make it different, not something he can get or do any other day of the year. ]
If he doesn't want anyTHING, just spend time together. Either go out and do something exciting (like something CRAZY exciting, new for both of you.) or stay in and watch a movie, chill together, etc. ]
Well you sound like you really like him and want to make his birthday the best.If I were you I will spend the day hanging out with him.Go to the park have a picnic under the beautiful trees and just give him the feeling that his very important in your life.Also you can go to the beach and both of you dress white and have a romantic dinner under the sunset.Or have you thought of making a birthday surprise and give a perfume of his taste,its something that he can use everyday and remember how special it is cuz you gave it to him!When you make your decision let me know what you choose plzzz!!!Good Luck!:) ]
Hi :)
Perhaps you shouldn't give him something materialistic...
Maybe give him a nice night out. I'm not sure if you guys live together, but maybe you should spend the night out, or in! Share a couple of drinks, laugh the night away. And surprise him with things you haven't done before, if you know what I mean. Doesn't necessarily have to be sexual lol, seeing that a lot of people don't do things after only 4 months. Just bring in the element of surprise, mystery, and sexy. Good luck, and Happy early birthday to him!
Uniq :) ]
best buy gift cards, a bottle of patron (or his favorite liquor), beer mugs with his name engraved (www.thingsremembered.com), or you could take him shopping and tell him to pick something ]
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