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I need Advice!
Hi!I am 15 years old and am a female. You might be thinking 15 years old? Ridiculous. But please i am not the average pathetic 15 year old! I really need help, i'm almost stuck in a love triangle. I met this guy Mike and he is super nice, very polite, and cute and only one year older than me. But he seems to just be wanting to have sex. I've only known him for about a week and i am on my period so its delaying everything thank god! But than there's this guy Steve. He's 4 years older than me but he's really nice, funny, but ugly. Which i do mind a little, but in all honesty looks are not my all! And Steve says that if I keep associating with Mike he will not talk to me any more and things. I like them both but i am scared Mike will hurt me or more like use me for Sex, and Steve well, i see him more as a really good friend but he does not seem to understand that. Just a little advice please, or what you think i should do. Thank You so Much!
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Ok first things first, if you think, or better yet know, that Mike is only going to use you for sex, drop him. You will get nowhere with him and you WILL end up getting hurt. You will develop feelings for him and he, on the other hand, will be interested in something completely different. Mike, in my opinion, seems like a dead end. Steve seems to like you, and while his looks may not be what you would like, take it from me, as you get older you will realize that being treated right and being happy is so much more important than how someone looks. At the end of the day, however, a little attraction to someone never hurt anyone either. Steve seems to be looking out for you and he seems to feel something toward you that Mike does not. I know it may be difficult to push off a guy that wants sex, like Mike. He may push harder to be with you and tell you how much he cares for you, but, keep in mind that all of those sweet nothings are just simply efforts to get into your pants. Simple as that. If I were you, I would give it a shot with Steve. He seems to be your safest bet here, and if it doesn't work out, so be it. At least you tried. Hope I helped!! Write back if you have any other questions!!
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