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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles.


I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!


I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.

I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.


I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.


I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!




♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥

advice

(Rating: 5) Thank you very much!
(Rating: 5) thank youu.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much. I plan to stay with my current boyfriend, he's just so much nicer and my family adores him and everything is fine. however, my ex is still bothering me to take him back. he says the reason why he broke up with me is because he had a lot to think about and he wanted to be alone...but he never said that until now. i was clueless. He is cleaning up his life now, and straightening things out. he got a job today, and he thinks once he gets a vehicle and an apartment and a job, i'll take him back. he thinks thats the only reason i like my current boyfriend is because he is stable and can afford to spoil me. but i'd still like him even if he was dirt poor. hes a sweetheart. i have tried telling my ex that we should just be friends, but its hard to tell him no when he asks to hang out. so, we have hung out a few times, and it never fails, he always tries to kiss me... grr.... but thanks for the advice =)
(Rating: 5) thanksss(:
(Rating: 5) thanks! do you know how much it would cost to get it fix at best buy?
(Rating: 5) thanx 4 the advice u really helped me put my priorities in check
(Rating: 5) That is probably the best advice I've gotten so far. Such a cute opening. Thank you SO much!!! :) I'll try to remember to send it to you.
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(Rating: 5) lol i feel so bad, sorry i took forever again...I just looked at my old questions and couldent believe that I didnt rate people =)
(Rating: 5) Just rating you a 5 for a question answered a long time ago, sorry I didnt rate you before haha
(Rating: 5) thanks so much!!!
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(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH YOU HELPED ME ALOT WHEN I NEED GREAT ADDVICE I WILL KNOW WHO TO GO TO :)thnx for everythin *!*HugS n KiSsEs*!*
(Rating: 5) thankx 4 ur reply, i should be goin if i convince my dad, or even tell him lol, but i hope he wopnt be nastey about it, he was my first... u think he may be mean? wb to that pls xxx thankx xx
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot i found some really great tips on those. Thank you a lot.
(Rating: 5) Thank you soo much sweetie! =)
(Rating: 5) Yeah I know about not being able to force the baby to stay awake but I finish babysitting at quater to 7 they just want me to keep her awake till then because her bedtime is 7, if I let her sleep she'll wake up and won't go back to bed. Thanks though <3
(Rating: 4) I appreciate your advice, but my mother despises the idea of going into a rest home. (As do I) I'n not sure what I can do for her. My guardians say that I can't get a job until Summer, and even then, I can only get a minimum wage job... I really need help!
(Rating: 5) true true..... yeah ill TRY to get back to you if i can but you should read the answers on this... some guys have pretty good opinions on this! you should go to assuager<< his was the best unfortunatly< how ever u spell it
(Rating: 5) thnxz! everyone keeps tellin me i should talk to him and see wht he feels like. But i am just so confused right now and i dont know what to do. I think im gonna try to get over him, and if i cant tehn ill talk to him about it later on.
(Rating: 5) iight thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks you really helped!
(Rating: 5) thanx much.. i can see u understand about the whole "18 and 15" thing. Thanx
(Rating: 5) thanks babe that helped!
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 4) thanks
(Rating: 5) thnx!
(Rating: 5) So far its going really well. I have the last show to do today, and i feel really confident. Thanks for the help! And also, why are you spelling your name like ashlea? It's spelled Ashlee...or so I thought. :0
(Rating: 5) Thanks that website helped a lot
(Rating: 5) thanx, i'll do that
(Rating: 4) tnxs
(Rating: 5) tHaNx aLot!
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) thanx
(Rating: 5) Thank you-you're so right.
(Rating: 5) Thanks ash it was great..lol he liked it! well loved it..and i hope the best for u keep in touch! thanks a bunch again btw do u have msn?! thanks:)! Kilee Kae
(Rating: 5) ok thanx
(Rating: 5) thanks ;)
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!that was awesome advice! :)
(Rating: 5) thx a bunch :-)
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot ;]
(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch. it helped a lot :-)
(Rating: 5) thanksss ashh!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks SO much for the advice.I'm still stay in contact with her , she's my family and i love her, just like the new baby.I saw her yesterday and held it together really well it's something i think will go away after i know everything will be ok for sure.Thanks so much for the advice again.
(Rating: 5) i no wut ur talkin about but i feel love lonely hear have my Aol crazyprincesse27 and yahoo pinkprincess542000 (THANK YOU)
(Rating: 5) thanks u helped a whole lot :) awesome grl
(Rating: 5) thanx lots and lots, ash! Alissa-marie
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot... lol I figured it out
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the help once again lol kennyscowgirl
(Rating: 5) Great information.
(Rating: 4) Sorry, its not 5 material,u understand right?
(Rating: 5) thanks. and it is his baby.and he doesnt have to cheat on me... you're right about that.
(Rating: 4) thanx
(Rating: 5) Oh my gosh! Wow! That was great advice!!!!! Thank you so much for taking the time out to do that! You rock!
(Rating: 5) Thanks For the Advice*
(Rating: 5) thanks so much. if you ever have a question...ask me? =)
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