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Dilemma
Hi, me and my bf have been dating for 2 years but since the past six months he's been less than caring and a total fake. He's been really selfish too. During this time, I started feeling something for his best friend Dan. I somehow feel that Dan liked me but he obviously wont tell. And I can never tell him how i feel coz you know, he will never hurt his best friend. And recently one of my best frenz leaked it to his frenz about this so he might be knowing it. The main problem is that I'm leaving for university (2022 miles away from him) and more than anyone I'm hurt that i'm leaving him. I really want him to know this. But my bf (who doesnt know) told me that Dan's got back with his ex (could be a lie). I am obviously burning in jealousy. But I'm frustrated because I think I love him and his shiny brown eyes, and the way he looks at me gives me shivers and........OK Help!!!
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Before doing anything, I would talk to your boyfriend about as to why he was acting differently over the past few months and find out first. I would also see whether Dan really is going out with his ex, because there is no point in breaking up with your boyfriend and then finding out that Dan really is going out with somebody else.
I would also ask Dan as to what he feels for you, because there really is no point in breaking up with your boyfriend and find that Dan doesn't feel the same way about you. True, you said that you somehow feel that Dan likes you, but he may not. The problem is that you will need to tell him how you feel for him, if you ever want to go out with him, then you will need to tell him.
I hope this helped,
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I think going away to university will be the answer to your problems. You should def break up with ur current BF before you go though, and then you are basically starting a new life. I think the thought of Dan sounds much more appealing than it would be if you werent stuck in such an unhappy relationship. Once you make the break from your current BF and you move away, after a few months you will have met a whole new crowd and both guys will seem like a distant memory.
Good luck!
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first of all... you need to break up with your boyfriend. you obviously don't have feelings for him anymore and things just aren't the same between you too, and its not okay to continue to lead him on. if the chemistry is gone... its gone. then the whole Dan problem... you need to tell him. if you don't, you will regret it later on in life. so tell him how you feel, and if he doesnt feel the same.. at least you gave it a try. i really hope that he does though!
good lluck :)
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