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how to get rid of feelings
okay so my boyfriend ended up breaking up with me after everything because he said that he loved one of my best friends at school and that he has ever since the beginning of last year and so basically he dated me three times while being "in love" with her and playing me thinking that he loved me. but nope i got played. and well i dont know what to do. i am fine in a way because well he has his own feelings and i understand... but well me and him are friends and me and my friend is.. but the feeling is still there
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If i were you i would of punched him in the face for doing that to you. Thats just heartless and unexceptable. And your bestfriend shouldnt really go out with him. thats just wrong after having that happen to you. You have alot more control that i do because me and him wouldnt be friends if i were you. You dont deserve that at all. Get you a man that treats you good and respects you and likes you for you.
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wow i feel you i'm going through something like dis hehe. first of all thanks for letting him go. he's a big boy and should learn to make decisions and honest ones too. secondly those feelings will fade away little by little, and if they dont then you probably loved him alot. i dont blame you for still having those feelings and its mature of you to not get rid of both thier friendships. just lay low for now let things cool off and hopefully those feelings will go away or he will realize you were his one. hope i helped
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That's a little heartless of him, but he can't helps the way he feels and neither can you. You can't just rush those kind of feelings out the door. You have to take time. So many girls try to get over guys by hooking up the next day or talking shit about their ex's. The truth is you just gotta let it all out. If you wanna cry, cry. If you wanna yell, yell. You can't bottle it all up. And as for the two of you being friends. I know, every guy/girl says "Well we can still be friends" but honestly we know that's never the case. Maybe you should just take a month with no communication whatsoever with him, no talking, messaging, not even eye contact. I know that sounds extreme, but after the feelings have died down a little, it's gonna be easier to be friends. It's gonna be hard if you still have feelings for him and you're around him all the time. You have to get over him before you can befriend him.
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girl, if i were you i would have:
a. slapped him accross the face
b. said wow, thats a coincidence because i like your best friend too...
so i give you MAJOR props for sticking it out and staying calm. You need to think, any guy that has the disrespect to do that to a girl, has not been brought up properly and so DOES NOT DESERVE YOU. no offense or anything, because i know you had menchoned how you two are still friends :-]
but just try not to think about it, and just hang with your friends alot (it helps ALOT)
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
if you need to chat, ill be here!
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