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Bi-Sexxual-Ness
Ok well i have a boyfriend of over a year and i have been attracted to guys my whole life. i still love guys. but i think i also like girls too. like sometimes i will look of porno mags. of girls boobs and of them masturbating and i get horney, but i have never done anything with a girl except make out when i was drunk one time. my bf told me he likes bi girls and for some reason i just cant come right out and tell him i am...I just wanted to know if i could be bi or am i just going thru a faze? 16/f
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Looking at porno that are naked women doesn't mean your bisexual. Are you attracted to women? Are you sexually attracted to women? If it is, then there's a possibility that you are. However if it's a no, then your not and like I said, porno mags of girl boobs doesn't say much. Good luck!
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You could be bi or you could be going through a phase, though what you tell your boyfriend is entirely up to you... I don't know much about your boyfriend, but it might make him unsettled if you tell him you're bi - then he may wonder who else you are attracted to!
For now, I guess you're either bisexual or bicurious; you don't have to really decide what you "are" now or ever. For now, enjoy hanging out with your boyfriend, and if you end up being in a relationship with a girl right now, you enjoy them as well =].
As you're not yet an "adult", your sexual preferences may shift around before you are really mature enough to find out what you "are," so don't sweat it.
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Every person questions their sexual orientation. You have nothing to be ashamed of. There's no harm in looking at that kind of stuff. Hormones are raging, and this is the point in adolescence when curiosity levels are high. I can almost guarantee that a of girls have gone through the exact same thing. Even if they deny it and say ewww thats gross, the truth is that at one point or another the "what if's" of being bisexual or gay have crossed their minds. Mostly it's just a curiosity about what it would be like to be with the same sex. I think what you're going through is perfectly normal and that although you're boyfriend says he likes bisexual girls, maybe this isn't something you should share with him until you're 100% sure. Just in case things get around. These are the kind of things that can be kept to oneself, if you know what I mean. I'm not saying bisexuality is something to be ashamed of, I'm just saying you don't want all these rumors to be spreading when this was just a small phase. But, if these feelings continue and get stronger, I would spend a little more time with girls just to get the feel for it and then make a declaration. There's nothing wrong with testing the waters.
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there's no way to know if it's just a phase. if it's been happening for awhile, it's probably not a phase. however, preferences can always change. ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not you are bisexual, but at this point youre definitely bi-curious
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