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how can i be more girly?
whenever im with a bunch of friends i dont feeel girly at all because all the girls are like flirting and being crazy and stuff and i just feel awkward.
what should i do to just open up?
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Why should you feel awkward? If you aren't a girly girl, then you aren't. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that- it's who you are.
I'm not a girly girl, either. I wouldn't be happy if I tried to be.
Just be yourself. You don't have to be all flirty and crazy to open up. Don't allow yourself to feel awkward, be proud of who you are, because it is your awkward feelings that keep you from opening up.
Pound it into your head that you are you, and being you is great. Everyone else can take it or leave it.
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dress more girly and wear makeup and play with your hair. You will feel more girly. When you really feel girly the flirting will come naturally.
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Flirting comes naturally. You can't force yourself to flirt. It's easier to flirt when you're flirting with someone that you know a little bit. Next time you're with a guy, don't be slutty and think that hanging all over him is going to get you the same results. Just plan your moves, think about how much you can smile or laugh or be playful or be touchy. It's all about thinking what your next move can be. Don't be all out there and obvious, because then he'll know you're insecure about it. Just give a little and take some back, gradually flirt. And if your with a usual group of guys, wear A LITTLE bit of makeup and fix your hair up, so they notice a difference of appearance and a new attitude. Although it might feel awkward at first, once the conversation is flowing it becomes easier. Just make sure you don't overdo it. That applies to the makeup and the flirting. You don't want to put on a false front, you just want to change it up a bit so they notice.
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you can try to stand out like look girly, wear make-up but not too much...only wear enough to make it look natural, and you can flirt too
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