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i think its over
13/f, Me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone last night and then i just randomly said, do you like another girl? Then he HUNG up!!, then i tried calling him the next morning and never got a hold of him so i messaged him saying do you like another girl or not? Then he messaged me back saying i cant believe you thought i liked susie[exgirlfriend]!! And then he goes. i guess its over then. the thing is i dont want it to be over, we have been going out for 7 months and im scared to loose him, what do i say to tell him i dont want it to be over?
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Tell him how much you love him and you never want to lose him you just go so afraid that you m ight lose him that you started thinking crazy thoughts like him liking someone else. Then say sorry and say you'll never let your mind wonder like that again.
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Talk to him. Tell him you dont want it to be over. And just tell him you were worried that he liked some other girl and you were sorry you asked him (even if you werent) Just talk to him about this, dont let it end fight for your relationship. Just talk to him about it and if he doesnt wanna do it. Then forget him hes not worth it anyways! Hope I helped ! leave one in my inbox if you need any help!
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Ohkay,well maybe he does,but if his been dating you for that long than he must really like you. But just talk to him about and be like Hey w/e his name is, I really like you and I was just wondering becuz i like you so much i don't want to get hurt, I don't want it be over at all. I just wish you trusted me enough to tell me that. I like you a lot and I don't want to end but if you must be with her than fine.
Bcuz if his going to dump you for her he wasn't worth the time,yakno? but if you care this much a bout him do what your heart says[as gay as that sounds]
but yeah.
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Sorry i may have got this wrong but...Did you actually say 'do you like susie?' ?? If you didn't then he might like her if he's brought her name up without you even mentioning it. Guys get touchy when you accuse them of this kind of thing (just like us i suppose lol). Before you say anything just think to yourself, do you really want to get back together..
1) He's ended it for such a tiny issue even though you've been going out for 7 months..If he hiding something?
2) Do you really want a relationship where you don't feel secure with him(As you think he likes another girl)?
Just stop and think before you get back together, as i found out after a one year relationship (we broke up over the same sort of thing as you), sometimes it's a blessing to let them go, i just feel if they're genuine they would make more of an effort to stay together. I know it feels like your world is caving in but after a while it's okay, they hardest part is when it's just ended.
Okay...If you've done that and you still want to get back together with him, you need to talk to him. You haven't got anything to lose really, if you don't try your best you're going to lose him anyway. Tell him how you feel and that you only asked because you love him and you're a bit insecure about him as you don't understand how you can have someone as nice as him, just tell him how you feel:) Mine probably sounds stupid to you lol but you can make your own up:)
I hope it goes okay:)
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You need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. If he wants to play childish games by ignoring you thats on him and he is not worth it. If he refuses to talk to you, move on and forget about him. It isn't that easy trust me I know but there are plenty more fish in the sea.
Good Luck!!!
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