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Friend's Moving
my best mate moved yesturday and it is kinda really borin wid out him and everyone seems to be deppressed and i dunno why but i am too yet i know he is still ma best mate he is likea brother to me and for the last 1 and half years i have spoke to him evry mornin when he was walking his dog and i need help on how i can deal with the changes to my rutine and social life please reply as it is important
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hey, well it can be hard when someone that is really close to you moves away! try to understad it and move on. missing him wont help you! try meeting some new ppl, and of course still keep in touch with him!! well hope i help!
xoxo brit
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Dear Asker, Its always hard when a close friend moves away. My best friend moved to another city and we thought it would be the end of the world. But it`s not, you get by and make other friends. You can still be friends with him, you know; letters, mail, IM, phonecalls. If you want to make new friends, just start hanging around people who share the same interests and i`m sure you`ll become friends. Hope I helped. Best Wishes; xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]
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Being in changes that make your life seem unfair well I had friends who would move out,I never seen them again which got me sad but then I was able to meet other people,and if I can so can you.Dealing with it will make you stronger,make new friends with classmates or neighbors,find ones that are not bad people,who seem like real friends,as for your rountine keep it organized so you don't get mixed up with your plans have a planner or have a schedule for your daily rountine.You should also make plans ahead,always check it before you start to make some changes.Remember you,your best mate will always be friends wherever he is at long distance does not mean you too are no longer friends you should keep in touch with him and when you do tell him how much you missed him which will show him you are a true friend who cares.
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ya i no you may miss him alot and stuff and things will no be the same it will be hard but just call him on the phone in the morning and stuff and trust me it will be the same the only thing what would be weird if like you cant han out with him at all and stuff but you will get used to it but its going to be hard to get over
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Moves are really tough, and for the first month or two, it may feel strange not having your friend around. BUT, don't let that feeling last longer than that. Just think, if he's really your friend, he'd want you to not be depressed, whether he's around or not, right? So, for the first month or two, maybe you guys can create a calling schedule. Like, he calls you Saturday & Sunday mornings and you call him Wednesday & Thursday nights? Then, you'll BOTH have something to look forward to, cause trust me, he's going through the same thing as YOU, if not, worse. He has to make all NEW friends. So, talk to him, and think about how YOU met him. What did you say? It obviously worked. And also, help him out with making new friends. Remind him that he's a great guy & there's probably plenty of people just waiting to befriend him. Good luck!! ---PLEASE rate mee---
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Hopefully you can learn to understand in life, change just happens. It's not one of those things we can dodge, or hide in a corner for. We have to battle it out like all the other complicated things in this world! I can suggest for you to maybe talk to him on the phone every day, or email, so you still feel like your getting that morningly talk in. Try and stay in touch, and if you start to get really sad from missing him, try and get it off your mind, turn on the t.v., go on the computer, or start your hw.
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