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first kiss?
ok im 14..and ive gone out with tons of guys..but i havent had my first kiss yet..a bunch of my other friends have though..im currently dating this really nive really hot guy, and he seems to like me a lot, but hasent shown any sign of wanting to kiss me..i dont want to make him kiss me and send the wrong message..is that weird? what should i do?
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make the move if he wont.take control.maybe hes afraid
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Well, if you don't want to make him, you can't force him. Go to a movie with him, or watch one at home. Be alone if you can. I have doubts that any guy wouldn't try. It'll come sooner than you expect! Good Luck!
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Don't worry about it. Your first kiss will come soon enough. You're just a kid and this isn't something you should rush. You wouldn't want to remember your first kiss as something disgusting, just plain wrong or awkward would you? You're probably picturing the perfect kiss with someone you really like and care about. Well wait for someone that cares about you the same way! If this boy you are dating now doesn't feel the way you feel about him, then just wait until he does, or find someone new. Just enjoy your childhood/teenhood lol and have fun, without the drama of a first kiss. Good luck =)
♥ Rachel
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well like ya talked to him and stuff about it but it just happens like say if you 2 are alone or something and you guys are like all over eachother or something just go in there to make the move on him im sure he will kiss you back trust me im a guy and most guys do so when you are ready just make the move and im sure when your done you will be happy
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you should aks him about it! you are pretty young to be doing that stuff but just try asking him. you never know. if you think he likes you A LOT. then why not ask him. you wont be sending hi ma wrong message. you'd just be asking the truth. if you really wnat a kiss... ask him! follow your heart sweetie! goodluck! hope my advice helps.
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Dear Troubled Love,
I can relate to your situation. For I am your age, and never have been kissed. Yet went out with a ton of guys. He seems to like you alot and you like him. A first kiss can lead some guys on to them wanting more. I say choose wisely. If he doesn't show any sign of kissing you, I say maybe he's nervous. Guys think the same way as girls sometime. He doesn't want to kiss you and send you the wrong message. If you feel for him the same way he feels for you, he doesn't have to make the first move. You can. But approach him slowly. Don't want the guy to get freaked out! It's not wierd at all. You don't have to kiss a guy right now if you don't want to. You can wait until you really feel like it with the guy you like the most. Giving up your first kiss could be important, or maybe just fun for some girls. If you're not sure if he wants to kiss you or not, I say go for it or talk to him about it first. Afterall, he may feel like you do in this situation.
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i think you should just try and kiss him and see what happens
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