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heartbroken....im sorry this is so long... but please listen
well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken
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Listen if he doesn't like you the way you are then he is no good for you. I know you don't want to here it but you really do have to get over him. And you know why you can't get over him, it's because you don't want to get over him. I went trough the same thing you did I was in love with a guy name Michael. I liked him for about 3 years and 1 month. I told my friend to ask him a couple of things. But I went trough worse because he said "I don't want to go out with her not even if you gave me a 100 dollars" I wouldn't stop crying. But I got over him little by little saying to myself "Well if he doesn't like who I am then he can go to hell, because he is not worth my affections.
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i think you should give him a break.let go of him.stop going online and talking to him as as different person.also if you do go on as erin ask y he would never go out with you.then live him alone please.give others who care about you a chance. his a loser .
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i get my friends to tell guy's i like them all the time... sometimes it works and sometimes it dosen't. ok i get that ur like tottaly in love with him, so what i'd do is go on erin's sn (that jus happens to be my name 2, lol) and say like "so y don't you like her?" keep getting info that could help you out... like ask what kinda girls he likes and stuff like that.
i really hope this works out for you, i have gotten in to situations like this myself... if you evaa need anything please let me kno... i really wanta kno how it turned out so drop one in my box!
hope i helped
esoccer1717
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well just go up to him and talk to him about it i no it is going to be hard because he said he would never go out with you but i go throw that alot and when i mean alot i mean i like alot of girls and then they say they dont like me but anyway i mean just talk to him about it tell him that it was you on the s/n and you read everything he wrote and say like tell him how you feel i mean it might be hard and stuff but really because if you tell him how you feel and stuff he will maybe start to like you and if he dont like you because you are over weighted that is the retardest thing i have ever heard i mean i go out with girls that are over weighted and stuff so just tell him and if you need more help im me my s/n is hockeybob3166
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Dear Heartbroken,
Rejection feels bad.. Trust me. Since you don't want me to tell you " get over him" I won't. Don't EVER blame yourself for a guy not liking you. It's his fault. He see's something in you or on you he doesn't like. How is that your problem? Who cares if your a little overweight? so am I!! or make too many jokes ( alot of people do ) That's just who you are. You shouldn't try to convince him to like you... you can't make someone like you. I suggest that you stay who you are.. or if you want him that badly.. ask him or let a friend ask him what kind of girls is he interested in, personality or look wise if thats the case. He answers, you analyze the kind of chick you are and compare it to the kind of chick he wants. You shouldn't have to change yourself to get a guy to like you. But if you're in love, let nothing stop you! He should accept u and like you for who you are. Find the difference in the girl you are from the girl traits he's interested in... AND BECOME THAT TYPE OF GIRL HE'D BE INTERESTED IN. Improve yourself. Show him you got what it takes to be his love! but remember. keep your characteristics and personality traits so you don't lose your true self over a guy.
~ Laydee Aki
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Dear Heartbroken,
First of all...DONT BLAME IT ON YOURSELF! And I'm not going to say "Get Over Him"..well, at least not yet. If I was in your postion, this is what I'd do. Tomorrow, go on Erin's screename and if he is on, start the conversation normaly you know "Hey, Whats up?" "how have you been?" "did you catch that show last night?" typical "friendly" questions...remember your on Erin's screename. Just ask him "why wouldnt you ever go out with her?" if he says something like, "because of what she looks like" or "she dresses weird" I really wouldnt bother..I know you'd be heartbroken I mean, I've gone through the same thing, but if he dosen't like your style you shouldnt have to change it for anyone...
if he says something like "i dont know her too well" or "it wouldnt work out"...go on <b>your</b> screename and start to talk to him..get to know him better...maybe he'll change his mind.
I hope I helped, if you need anything else IM me on ixi l0v3 y0u x0o .
~Best Wishes; xOxo
alexxa marie
[PS..on your addition information] Thats good..whatever way you feel like asking him. xOxo
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