Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 11:02 pm
Ok, so Ive known this guy for a long time. And hes been one of my best friends for almost as long as Ive known him. I can tell him anything and he can tell me anything. And so back in april he told me he liked me and I liked him. And so he broke up with his girlfriend because he liked me and we were....officially un-offical. If you know what I mean. But last week we hung out, and he was acting like everything was fine, when my friend pulled me aside and told me I wasnt the only girl. So later that night I asked him about it, and he said that he liked this other girl....we'll call her Ali. so I got pretty hurt. Ali goes away for boarding school in a few days...and I dont know what to do about the guy. Even if he stops liking Ali, Im still not sure if I should get involved with him again because people say he can sometimes flirt a lot. Will someone please help me out with what to do? Ill rate youu. Thanks <3
Additional info, added Thursday September 1 2005, 11:05 pm: when I said he flirts a lot, I ment that he can sometimes flirt a lot with other girls.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hockeybob3166 answered Friday September 2 2005, 6:58 am: ok if you been friends for a while and stuff and he likes you but he likes ali to i mean he might like you since she is gone and stuff but like you got to think like do you wanna go out with him and stuff and like if you break up or something will it be the same after like will you guys still be really good friends and will you guys still tell eachother stuff and will he tell you stuff and stuff like that so you got to think what you want well if you need anymore help im me at hockeybob3166 [ hockeybob3166's advice column | Ask hockeybob3166 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:55 pm: I think, in your case, it's going to be better and less painful to break your heart now, and call the whole relationship-to-be thing off, then getting hurt later. If he asks you about it, just tell him you still have feelings, but you don't know if it would work with him. This way, when things are less shaky and Ali's gone, and you can get a feel for what you want to do, and take a breath, then you can take it up from there. But trust me, if you rush into this, it might turn out to be a mess. So just hang in there for the time being, and see what happens! [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
HowYouDooin answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:16 pm: hhhmmm... it seems to me that since you are friends for a while and you have developed this "friendship bond" and now that he edmited that he liked you or loved you nothing has changed becouse you probobly still have the same relationship.
he proly just doozed off and started liking another girl becouse you two saying that didnt make much change in his life or behavior.
but thats just my opinion, just wait and see what happens.
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