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bases
my boyfriend says he would like to go to 2nd base..maybe even 3rd. the problem is..i know people have so many ideas of what the bases are that i don't know exactly what he means. could someone please clear this up for me? also, we have been going out for three and a half months..is it too early for me too go that far with him?
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1st-Kissing
2nd-Touching like hand jobs and fingering and feeling up and everything like that.
3rd-Blow job..eating out.
Home-Sex.
Its your desicion if you want to do it, and if i were you, i would! have some fun for yourself if you both feel comfortable doing it!
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DONT DO IT. BOYS ARE HAZARDOUS TO YOUR HEALTH. second base is closer to home than first is..so maybe you should stay on first..just to be safe. but remember, always wrap it up!
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hmmmm... well to answer your first question the bases are 1st-kiss make-out 2nd-touchy feely, fingering, hand job 3rd- head, eating out...and to answer your second question i mean 3 1/2 months is a small amount of time me and my bf didnt go to 3rd base till we had been together for almost a year...but it's your choice wat ever you feel comfortable with...if you wanna then go for it! well hope i helped need anything ask*
Caitlin♥
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He wants sex. Yeah that's what he means. But it's up to you if you want to or not. It's really for you to decide if you're ready or not. No one should force you into making this decision but you. And only you. Just look within and do what you want to and what you think is best . Just ask yourself, is this step what I want to do. And ask yourself , am I ready for this. Think about it.
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"Getting Up to the Plate" is your first date or getting to know each other.
"First Base" is kissing (french kissing/heavy)
"Second Base" is heavy petting and genital groping
"Third Base" is orgasm (non intercourse), or all clothes on the floor
"Home Plate/Home Run" is full on intercourse and everything else
"Grand Slam" is a home run with runners on base -- sex with multiple partners
"Bunt" is sacrificing your happiness for your friends
"Steal a base" is getting to the next base without consent (warning: you can get thrown out while attempting to steal)
"Strike out" you never make it to 1st base, take a seat.
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1rst base is kissing, 2nd base is above the chest, 3rd base is pretty much everything else, and i think you know what home base is.
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This Really just depends on WHO you ask. It seems that everyone has formed their own opinion on this. I view them as:
1st- Kissing.
2nd- Mutual Masturbation [fingering, handjob].
3rd- Oral Sex.
Home- Sexual Intercourse.
Hopefully that clarifies?
And as for if it's "too early" for you to engage in such activities with him.. well, that really *is something only you can answer. Just do what you're comfortable with. Be firm in your morals, and never be afraid to say no!!
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not if your ready. if your ready then go for it. 1st base is kissing, 2nd base is touching feeling hand job etc., 3rd base is oral sex, and obviously you know what home is.
hope i helped
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