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be a good christian
hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it?
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I admire you for what you want to stand up for. Some people are put off when people speak about religion. They come across as preachy or they overdo it. Some people are embarrassed to talk about God I don't know why. Just take it slowly with your friends. If more people discussed religion and God and Jesus I think more people would believe in God. Good luck
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You should go to church and do some service. You can ask Priest there how you can help spread love of God.
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I'm sorry I haven't been online but listen the lord loves you anyway. Don't let anyone else change that. I've had athius at my school almost persuade me but I had questions they couldn't answer.the point is you can spread the gospel if you want. The haters make you stronger remember that. Btw most people know he is real but don't wanna believe it because of all the bad things they have done
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Hey! I also believe in God, but it's a touchy subject to some people. It's really difficult for me to give you advice because of this. A lot of people get angry when people try to spread the word of God, I guess they feel that others are pushing religion on them. My best advice is (assuming you go to church) start there! Maybe ask your preacher if he will allow you to preach God's word occasionally. I think that'd be the best way to start. By doing this you'll be fulfilling your wishes, as well as, not having to worry if you're going to offend someone who may have different beliefs. I hope this helps and you're able to make an impact on other individuals! Good luck (:
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You are 15. Most people are twice your age, if not more. The Good News of Jesus Christ may be news to you, but there's no-one within thousands of miles of you that isn't either already a Christian or sick to death of hearing "You have sinned, so God has to send you to hell, but he's cool with someone else subbing in so he sent his son Jesus to go to hell for 3 days instead. Aren't you grateful?"
Sorry man. Maybe back in the day the whole world needed to be told about this new religion, but its been 2000 years and the world has heard it all by now.
My advice - lift weights, watch your diet, and do not marry a girl who had had sex with a non-christian.
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That can be difficult, but God is with you. When you pray, ask for wisdom. The Bible tells us he loves granting that to those who ask. Pray for the wisdom to see opportunities he's given you as they arise, and wisdom to know how to handle those opportunities. Pray for the courage to actually use the opportunities.
Also, try talking to people you already know are fellow Christians as well. Ask people in your church how they spread His word. If you can get comfortable having a conversation about God with them, it will make it easier to do so with others. It takes practice, just like anything else.
God Bless.
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Thank you for entrusting me with your question :). I became a Christian about 2 and half years ago. The best thing you could do is pray and read the Bible to get to know God better. Find a good church in your area. Join a youth group so that you can meet other people your age that share your faith. This website is fairly helpful in answering bible questions: got questions.org/
God bless :)
Cristy
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I would suggest that you check out this video is called zeitgeist the movie, is on you tube. It helped me make my decision.
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If you want to start talking about god, start in church. Talk with people who are like minded. But be aware, there are people who are only going on Sunday to feel like they are redeemed for whatever sins they confessed. They are more than likely not devout and aren't willing to talk outside of church.
Depending on what denomination your parents brought you up as, or what denomination you chose to follow, would determine how you would disseminate "the word".
Generally speaking, religion is supposed to be private practice. That's why the most devout christians become members of the church and take vows of silence, like monks.
To be a better christian is to be a better person. Care about others and nature just as much as you care about yourself. Have and feel sympathy and empathy for everything going on in the world.
You honestly don't need religion and a man written book to tell you right from wrong. Or to make you fear for an essence that you were gifted with by the universe to burn in hell for you being human. You don't need to fear for other's souls being sent to hell for them being human either. It's presumtious, rude and egotisically selfish to take on the role of "saving" someone in the name of religion.
Right from wrong is common sense teaching.
Right is believing whatever you want, being happy, helping those in need, and treating everyone as equals without being preachy. Being humble in your helping makes you selfless.
Wrong is taking your belief to others, knocking on other's doors at an ungodly hour in the morning (or any hour of the day really) shoving it down their throats, saying guilt tripping phrases about that belief that harmed so many over 2000 years ago and has harmed people throughout history.
Christianity is the most well known religion around the world. Aside from its bloody historical past, which it likes to keep hidden. It is a passed on belief from parents to children or something that was forced unto people under penalty of death. It is also something that people, in their own personal crisis, turn to for answers when they are at a loss for ideas on how to make their crisis better.
It has its ups and downs, but it's all on how the human interprets it for themselves. If you want to spread the word of christianity, keep it in the church. Become part of your church procession. Later in life become a preacher but preach in church. Be proud of your religion, but don't feel the need to inject it into regular conversation outside church. Most people don't care to hear it because they have their own beliefs that aren't the same as yours. And most that do are taken aback and offended when you preach to them. Just like with you asking this question to me. I could have been offended because I'm Pagan and the christian religion did everything it could to steal and stamp out what I believe in. But I'm not because you are young and asking for advice on how to direct your life. And I'm not easily offended. :) Also, I believe that we as humans of many religions can coexist peacefully, if we'd only learn to be kind and help one another without having a deity take credit for what the human did to help his fellow human.
It doesn't matter what religion you claim to have faith in, just look inside yourself. Ask yourself questions about everything. Educate yourself on anything you have a personal crisis with. If you need advice I will be here, but I do not have all the answers and will never boast that I do. Just be a good and helpful human. If you choose to preach, preach about good will and helpfulness towards each other. But keep it in church. Those that want to follow will flock to congregation.
Blessed be. Be well and be good.
P.S. Watch George Carlin skits and Dogma. They're really good if you listen beyond the comedy.
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I think you should think about the things that made you love god so much,what inspired you,was it a church group, club? Maybe a book you read,a movie you saw? I think just finding a way for you to be yourself and show your love through that. It'll draws people attention to you. I hope this helps. Sirry for the wait.
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Honey,
You are doing the right thing by wanting to do God's will. I think you should speak to the leader of a church or someone that goes to your church because they would know what to tell you to help you move forward in this direction.
Just pray to God for Guidance, he will help you.
Your are a very smart young man. Kuddos to you my friend.
p.s can I please get a rating?
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Hey there.
Well, I'm agnostic. But I have a few ideas for spreading the good news around in a lot of different ways, my young friend.
You're young. You probably use your computer a lot, and enjoy surfing the internet. You could use all these skills for spreading god's word. I've heard the best way to reach people's hearts is by using a personal story, a testimony. I think a good idea would be to start a blog. A blog about being a young, male, christian in a world where christian values are being lost every day.
Another good idea would be starting groups at school. How about instead of talking to people you know, you reach out to people who you think may need the help? Kids with problems often need a helping hand and you can talk to them about your experience with god and how he's helped you, the things he can do for these kids.
I think it's admirable what you're doing. Best of luck.
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I am not a Christian but I do believe in service to those who are around you. I understand the desire to spread the word for God too. Please just understand, when you're trying to spread God's messages, don't condemn other people's beliefs. People on a whole are inspired not entirely by God but by the meaning of those messages. Almost every religion, not only the words of Christianity, teaches its disciples to be good people, and to serve others wholeheartedly. If you can preach those messages, I can assure you, you will feel like you are doing the right thing. Make your life an example for people to follow. With such motivation at a young age, you can be an inspiration to a lot. Always remember to consider yourself and your happiness when helping others too. Good luck in your mission.
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Well this is fabulous! I'm so excited about this question because not many people have that want to be a better Christian or to help others. This is great, I think you are already on the right track and you are so young to and have so much time to do great things and help many people. Okay so first off, you should read the Bible and pray often. Pray for guidance and understanding of what you are reading and what you are supposed to do. Surround yourself with positive people, things, thoughts, quotes, etc. Take yourself away from situations where you might not make the best decisions like partying, drinking, having sex, etc. These things can take away from focusing on what you really need to be doing. And as for what you should do, dont be nervous about it. Pray and ask God about how to fulfill His Will and to have the wisdom and guidance you need in order to do so. God will take you places and to people when you least expect it and youll be lead to them to help them and for them to help you and grow. And God will give you all the right words and will lead you to do all you need to do. You could start sharing what you know with others and help each other learn and grow through your faith. Not everyone will agree with your beliefs tho and you might get resistance but you could also open someone elses eyes to the great things He has done and that would be amazing. You could start bringing it up to friends or family asking what their beliefs are and if they were ever interested in being Christian or being a better Christian. And you could go from there. Or bring up all the great things He has done in your life and someone could be interested in it..but if someone disagrees with you theres not point in fighting about it or trying to force it on them..trust me.but yeah I hope that helped. Theres so much more I could say though ah. If you ever need more help or want to talk about your faith and spirituality then im deff will be here to help or talk. Im a 17/f and a Christian and im trying to grow in my faith as well and better myself and I think what youre doing is great and yeah good luck!
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Well I think it's great that you're passionate about something and want to devote your life to it. I would suggest maybe making videos on YouTube or something, or maybe even creating a website devoted to your cause. And maybe starting a club so you'll have help. If you're up for it maybe you could do an assembly at school. There's loads of ways to go about it, whatever you're comfortable with. And remember, you don't have to have millions of people hearing your views to make a difference, I wish you could luck. :)
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Thats great! I would definitely get in touch with one of the ministries in your church. I'm sure they have one focused in helping spread the word in shelters, prisons, rough neighborhoods or probably even the mall! You can even talk to your youth pastor and let him know how you feel and he can give you a better insight of how to go about it.
Good luck on getting the word out there!
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you can start with your family. but the thing i believe about religion is that, you should never force it on people. your religious faith should govern only your own thoughts, behavior and moral ethics, not the people around you.
i think its wonderful to see a youth with good intentions spreading the word of the Lord. but be prepared for rejections or hostility.
i suggest starting low key. just tell people your own testimonials and tell them why you love God and what makes you passionate about christianity. Let them be awed and inspired first by your reasons. Most importantly, dont forcefully push them to be closer to God and listen to His words.
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God is very importnant , and i think you should go from door to door knocking on the door and read god's word to them. read the bible everyday, and go to church every sunday. you can go to school and talk bout god . god's word is also importnant he died on the cross for us for our sins. memorize your favorite verse in the bible listen to christian music . pray to god every morning night and day . he will listen and answer your prayers . God is the man we call on when we need him. always follow his commandments , remember them the ten commandments . god will always be there for u when in need . you can sit down and talk to him and talk to your parents about him they will listen and help you too. god can do alot of things to be in your life if you let him in . its a big commintment. so i should stick with it too .
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Do you go to church or belong to an organized religious community of some sort? Do you have a pastor, preacher, bishop, minister or some type of church leader in your area? I'm sure your local church leader would love to help you find a way to talk to people about god. You should ask them.
If you want to talk about god outside your immediate community, try using google to find some sort of on line community. Perhaps a blog or website? I don't know specifically what doctrine you follow but it may already have a live and thriving online community. Here is a website for christians to find ways to volunteer. Maybe it can give you some ideas of the type of things you'd like to be involved in?
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Good luck
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Well, I'm going to be honest with you - I do not know much about being a good Christian, at least not from personal experience. However, I do know many devoutly religious people of all faiths who feel fulfilled by volunteering at their place of worship.
I think that this would be a good way to begin your journey. Your church can also offer you resources to help you bring other people closer to God, while also giving you a support system to do so. Many churches spread the word as a group, which will probably make you less nervous.
Just remember not to pressure or push your non-practicing friends, especially if they aren't Christian. While it's great that you have such a close relationship to God and love your faith, it's also important to respect others.
I hope I've been able to help!
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Well, the first thing I learned is that there's always someone right around you that you could be affecting in a positive way with your Faith.
By living out your Faith in front of friends and family, you are making an impact. When I first became a Christian, I first even considered going to church because of an encounter with God's Grace first. But second, I remembered other people in my family going to church every Sunday, and one time my Grandmother sent me a book of Prayers when I was in college. I was sad at the time and I really liked them. It was a full 9 years or more before I actually went to church on purpose to decide if this was really the path to God. (Incidentally, because I wasn't raised in Christ, I tried out all the major faiths up until this point without finding what I felt was the Truth).
However, because of that example, it didn't feel unnatural to, "check church out," when the time came.
It was never anything they said interestingly enough. Just those two things she did actually became part of my initial decision.
Next, look around your home again. What kinder things should you be doing when it comes to younger siblings or other family members or neighbors. Do you spend Saturday playing video games in your room when you could be taking a little brother or sister to a cool museum downtown? Are you watching music videos or reality shows when you could be playing Monopoly with other family members? etc. People are surprised usually. Their first thought is find a mission field. However, before you do that, God has already given you a mission that's right around you usually, that most people don't realize.
Next, find a place to volunteer on a regular basis. Make sure it's something that your parents approve of. Start there, make that regular commitment to one or two places throughout the week. You'll start to learn your strengths and talents that God has given you. Are you a good listener? Do you like to build or work with your hands? Can you tutor or help with complicated subject matter? Are you a pastor? Are you best at street evangelism? By the time you're 18, you'll have an idea of where God wants you to be in His Kingdom and what steps to take next. It might be a mission field in the jungle or down the street from your house. So it's important to keep that in mind.
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Okay so i am not much of a god worshiping person. I think you should find a little group of friends from your church or somethnig like that, and if u dont go to church find one and take those classes and you are almost guarenteed to find atleast one person to talk about god and your beliefes with. Sorry i couldn't do much here i wish i knew more specific things about this. You could also maybe start a page on instagram or social media and find online friends and maybe group chat with them. I do stuff like that with clothes and i have a bunch of online friends.
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I'm so glad that there are people in the world like you! The best way for you to spread God's word and portray his love is simply by being real with people! Everyone has a testimony, and testimonies is something that really appeals to people because it's real life. It's real struggles that people have overcome by the grace of God. So i suggest you should spread the word of God by realizing what he's done in your life and what he's saved you from and sharing that with people. People will feel compelled to listen if you are real with them. Also reading God's word and retaining those scriptures can help when people have questions about salvation. I hoped that I could help and I hope you have a blessed day. God loves you and is pleased with what you're doing!
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Being the devoted christian you are, I'm gonna assume that you are a big part of the youth with your church. Often, it's best to turn to your youth pastor and leader and he can help steer you in the right direction. Sometimes at people's hardest hour they are willing to try anything, so if you see someone struggling with a need, it may be easier for you to reach out to them. You may have someone in mind, and if so, like say a friend or family member, then ask if they would like to do something with you that day and see if they will come to your church and afterwards do an activity. Try to do what you can to make it appeal to them. If it's a friend, you can ask if they want to sleep over and join an activity with your youth. This has actually worked with me. Before getting comfortable with the people, my best friend hated going to church, but wanted to sleep over and went along with it. Find what would get them interested in the first place, like a friend you think they will like, an activity you think they will enjoy with the church, or whatever it is you have to do. Say that if they come with you, you'll do something they want to do. I know it may seem like your bribing them or something, but nothing can start until they get their foot in the door and can hear the truth. Also, I'm gonna say this because I've seen it happen, but if you talk about God, be sure to do so without offending them. I've actually been to dollar general and their was people having a huge argument about religion. I wasn't there when it started and it was still going on when I left, and those ladies were offending those men by coming straight out saying their beliefs are wrong. I've seen stuff like this happen, so just be very careful how you go about it, or you could offend someone. and be sure to show that you love them no matter what they choose to believe. My youth pastor used to be an unsaved alcoholic before one person showed God's love to him. He is now one of the most loved men in the church and the two are happily married. That just goes to show how much being a friend to someone can save their soul. I really hope I was a help in any kind of way
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I'd say start talking about it within your group of friends, the ones the aren't Christians. Then talk to you classmates and teachers. If you are a very observant person then try to find people that you know are struggling, maybe they are going to lose their home, or they come from a broken home, or don't have enough money for food. Tell them about God and give them some hope and strength to make it through the storm. Even if they don't end up believing in him and deny his existence, the point of trying is enough. It may also not seem like it will get through to them at the time but may at another time. You can also do some community service and incorporate the Word into what your doing. Start off doing something small and work your way up. Remember to God nothing is too hard to accomplish, and never deny the lord or use his name in vain. I hope this helped you and Good Luck.
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Trying to get people to follow Christ can be tricky business. Often you offend people and can maybe turn them even further away from it. A lot of people are just too ignorant and closed minded, in my opinion. So that is why I suggest the subtle approach. I'm guessing you go to a church, and if so, they have a youth group that does different events and such. Invite some people you know to some events that your youth group does. That can get them closer. You could be one of those people that just messaged random people like "hey you know Jesus?" But that isn't always the best thing to do. I believe that you can see someone's Christianity through their actions and the way they act. If you are super caring, loving, non-judgemental and stuff to the people around you, they can wonder what makes you such a good person, and you can tell them it is your religion. So I definitely suggest trying to be the best version of yourself to people, and invite them to your church/youth group and gradually work your way through them.
Hope this helps~
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hey would love to help you with this but im not christain so not sure what the christian view is on how to go about this. but i commend you for wanting to do this and goodluck!
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Hi there, I can see how enthusiastic you are about pursuing this goal and before I start I just want to say that there is a high possibility you would get discouraged at your age but you have to still keep the faith. I personally think you should start with close friends telling them your views on how good God is and how they too can experience the joy and love you get from God. It's a small start but it can surely carry you somewhere.
You may come across some people who will judge you but that's all apart of the journey you are willing take. When you get nervous just think about it like this.... Will I allow what others think about me stop God's purpose?
Hope I helped
You will surely be in my prayers.
Latoline ^_^
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Well that's awesome you want to spread the word of God. I'm a ChristIan myself and I will tell you being a ChristIan is definitely a great thing but at the same time people have different beliefs about religion so I would say if you want to spread the word of God go to your church and join a youth group and get to know people who have your same beliefs. If you truly enjoy loving to spread the word of God think about studying to become a pastor in the future. I have two cousins who spread the word of God every day by giving sermons and they absolutely love it. Also you could join charities or do community service all these things will help spread the word of God. Hope this helps sweetheart
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As someone who is agnostic but leans more to the side of evolution, I don't know what to say. I think people take the whole "spreading the word of god" thing a little too far to the point of trying to shove it down people's throats.
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You see, if you love God truly, that alone would give you the key to heaven, but of course we always feel unworthy and want to do more for Him. I get what you mean, maybe you dont want to be a priest or a pastor, but that's ok. My advice is you find the nearest Youth For Christ organization in your area, and ask if you can join them. YFC is not like the solemn scary parts of being a priest or a pastor, we can still be kids here, play games, pull pranks, and go to concerts, with a little twist though, we do it all for God. So, that's my advice, enter Youth For Christ :-)
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God bless you! The Way of the Master is a great technique for witnessing. Check it out here:
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God will opens door for you...Mark 16:15
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This can be tough, I think you should go with your gut but maybe start off with those you trust, and know. I do know that if you do this there will be more than many who will reject you. Can you deal with rejection? If you can then, go for it! Do what enlightens you.
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I think the best way to begin life as a Christian/Catholic is to be baptized at your church. Going every Sunday, and thanking God for his blessings and for forgiveness is a must for all Christians--as this will shape your faith in to its best form. Thank God for every day that you get to live and make the best of, for all your loved ones in your life, and for your strength.
Above all, always be open with him. He's always listening, wherever you are, whether you're having a good day or bad day. Speak from the heart. If there's anyone who won't stop loving you--it's God himself.
Ask, and you shall receive.
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I am not one to ask about religion. I do apologize. However, I would suggest asking family or friends you trust about their religion and feel free to explore and have fun!
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I think you sound like a good person, looking for the right place to do good. The world needs more people like you!
Not knowing where you live makes it hard to suggest where you can go and what you can do. In general, I think that if you look around your local community, you'll see people who need help, whatever age they are. Older people often appreciate all sorts of help, especially if they can also chat about the old days. Children also might need help. Where I live in Britain, there are groups of children, called guides or scouts, needing leaders to organise learning activities and games for their spare time.
So,look around you to find something that suits you.
I wouldn't emphasise the religious side of your life too much. Many people find this off-putting. After all, actions speak louder than words, if you devote yourself to doing good for other people, your example may well lead others to do the same. Your corner of the world could become a brighter, better place to be.
Good luck and best wishes. Hope this helps you a bit!
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Have confidence. Our Lord has commissioned each of us to share the Good News and "seek the lost." He said: "Go and make disciples of all nations"; and "Go into all the world and preach the good news to all creation" (Matthew 28:19; Mark 16:15). It's our greatest calling, then, to share the love and forgiveness He has given us with those who have never received Him as their Savior and Lord.
Witnessing to friends and family members isn't easy; but it's absolutely necessary. Swallow your fears and love them more than you love yourself. Be wise in your presentation. Pray in preparation and wait for the right opportunity to speak to them. Then, present the law and the gospel with humility, honesty, respect, patience, kindness and love. Trust the Sovereign Lord in your efforts.
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I remember the name of an organized group worldwide, its called YWAM or Youth With A Mission.
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You can find them at this link but you'd have to search for the local chapter in your area. They organize some short term, one week up to 2 yr involvements based in your own community, another state or even in other countries. You dont need another country to see all the needs out there.
Much of it is based on doing as Jesus did, meet peoples needs first. Then they may be more open to asking you about your faith. Don't try to be the one who gets into the practice of behaving like a head hunter to increase the number of bodies present in church. Thats a turn off to people.
Lastly ask your pastor or Youth pastor. Good luck.
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Just start out small, the Bible says to start off in your home. Talk to your parents, your neighbors, friends, and family. Even if you get scared, start off by talking to animals and plants. Trust me, they can hear you. Just be positive and pray to Jesus and ask him to protect you and inspire you as you go on about your way.
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I find your question challenging, because as an Atheist, I am completely unable to relate! I don't know what you are burning to say, but I know what I might ask you. And if there is anything worthwhile and Christ like, it would be entirely to put away robotic regurgitation of litany, and instead to ferret out and understand what others are concerned with. -Not even to speak from ones heart, but to speak to the hearts of others whom God crosses your path. Forget about egotistically pronouncing the word of God. Listening is the art. In the words of Simone Wiel: "Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." But that demands engagement with them, for in the words of Agnes Repplier: “A man who listens because he has nothing to say can hardly be a source of inspiration.”
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Well im not a real religious person so im probably not the right person here to answer this but ill tell you a few things that may help you along the way.
If you are apart of a church currently, you could take part in or start a TEEN or preteen program at your church where kids of the same age group can come once a week and talk about whats going on in their lives and you can preach to them about it.
((if you dont have one already that is))
The thing about talking to people about religion is you cant push it on them, you have to get them to want to take part in it or else your just being annoying and no one will want to take part.
your best bet is to maybe talk to victims of abuse or domestic violence groups when ever they have their meetings in order to get them interested you need to get them to feel like they can relate to the material.
like "even though you went through so much suffering, you must still be here for a reason because it was gods will and there is light at the end of the tunnel if your still here walking this earth and breathing"
things like that will get people of abuse or who have suffered alot to hear you out. then you can work that into your speech. ; )
good luck
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