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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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Sorry I might be late on this but I think you should stay friends. I mean even though it hurt he rejected you technically he didn't really do anything wrong he was just being honest and you know sometimes the truth hurts. But obviously if he was a good enough person for you to have a crush on and he hasn't done anything to ruin that reputation as a good person then I think you should tell him that at least you have him buy something in your life instead of the awkwardmess of nothing. Yes he may have hurt but either way it's going to hurt and if you just drop somebody for not feeling the same way about you and being honest about it it's not gonna do you any good and is not going to heal any quicker. You need to take some time and realize that maybe it's not gonna work and maybe it will work Monday because technically he didn't say he was into you he was just focus on more important things in his life. Maybe if you become friends and you can show him that you can be a part of that list of important things I think you should continue the friendship and if he questioned you just say how you feel so you thought it through and you realize that you still want him in your life even though it wasn't how you had planned in your head
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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woah woah woah okay dont give him any grief over his dead girlfriend. hes never gonna stop loving her. its like you losing your grandma your never gonna get over it. maybe hes not ready to date yet just let him know that if he isnt ready you understand and ull be here for him no matter what happens and that you understand what hes going through and youll be there when hes ready to date.
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I really like a boy but i dont know if i should ask him out because my parents said no dating till im 16 but im 12!! (link)
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sweetie you dont need a boyfriend when your 12. im not much older than you and i regret dating boys back then because it makes your relationships when your older awkward i understand if you like him but you dont need to go out with him just become closer as friends and try to talk to him. boys are stupid. they never mature. dont get your heart broken. i know this seems stupid but trust me i was like you and i regret it. be a kid. have fun. dont worry about boys. in the future he wont even matter
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If a guy gets a girl pregent n then waits for 24 hours to have sex again n cums in the girl can the same guy sperm kill the other sperm
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no it cant kill other sperm
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It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable to essentially be viewing foreplay without consent. There were children in line, too. Some people seem to get a sexual thrill out of people seeing their pda and that just seems sick and self centered. It makes me understand why there are countries that ban it. (link)
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There will always be people out there like that, youll have to learn to ignore it, no one knows why people do it, i dont even know why i do it but usually people who do are in their own little world not thinking about anyone around them, put yourself in that place, i mean your being a bit extreme some people dont give a fuck and will do anything, most of the time not to show off but to prove to their partner that you dont care what other people think, im not so sure about countries banning PDA thats like banning kissing anywhere but your house..
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Hi,
I'm usually pretty good at giving advice, but this I can't help myself with. I'm 13 and I just got transferred to a new place. I've been here for two months now. As many people here are teens they love to act all grown up and I'm not comfortable with the kind of things they do and the language they use, so I'm not friends with anyone, I tried to adjust and get used to them but without a friend I just can't manage. I'm kind of shy but I can make friends easily, but no one is like me (a little kiddish and crazy) everyone loves to act all grown up. I'm having a tough time making friends, please give me some advice on how I can adjust or I'll end up a lonely girl who talks to herself (link)
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Okay before i even finish reading your question im gonna tell you ive been to 3 diff schools in the past 4 years and 7 my entire life. Okay so maybe you can prove to them that you can be grown up to just a bit. Im kinda with them on the mature side but when u get to know me i act 2 years old. You dont have to do the things they do or talk the way they talk but not everyone is going to be the way you want to and your gonna have to learn to accept that. Once one person thinks your cool to talk to everyone will youll just kinda have to put urself out there a bit. thats all i got for now but if you wanna talk more email me bellastar92000@yahoo.com or kik me at briellabella13 :)
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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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Okay so i am not much of a god worshiping person. I think you should find a little group of friends from your church or somethnig like that, and if u dont go to church find one and take those classes and you are almost guarenteed to find atleast one person to talk about god and your beliefes with. Sorry i couldn't do much here i wish i knew more specific things about this. You could also maybe start a page on instagram or social media and find online friends and maybe group chat with them. I do stuff like that with clothes and i have a bunch of online friends.
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I am 13 years old and I weigh about 155 pounds, and I have really bad stretch marks all over my lower belly. I try to lose weight by exercising every day, and not eating that much, but nothing works! I am thinking about starving myself, because nothing else works! I can't take it anymore! I just want to be skinny, and get rid of my stretch marks. Please help me!
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Get any special cream for the stretch marks. Every girl has them trust me. But starving yourself isnt going to do anything. My answer is more about helping the weight losing thing. Look up diet plans and see the types of food ideas they have for eating through out the day. Constantly eat fruit and protien. Make sure to exercise as well. You really have to want this. use some sort of motivation method. Make sure to eat at least 3 times a day, even make like a fruit smoothie in the morning for yourself. If you want more help oln this i can help you make up a literal diet plan for yourself. I used to be 165 pounds and after 5 months im around 110 which is normal for my age. But for any further concerns ask me direct questions or e mail me. :)
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If i had sex in ass but my sperm have reached her vagina can she be pregnant? (link)
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sperm cant reach the vagina from the ass. if you didnt know that maybe you shouldnt be having sex...
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After a lot of baby name searching, your brain gets foggy. Are these names that we chose for our twins normal?
Boy: Dean Harvey
Girl: Spencer Guin (link)
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Aww dean and spencer are such cute names. The middle names are very unique which is interesting :) (not in a bad way) i would say stick with the names, although the middle names are a little out of the ordinary and depending on their personalities they may be emberassed of the middle name but everyone is, i got lucky and dont even have a middle name but its very cute so stick with them both!
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I know this may sound crazy, but I made up this person up in my head and I want to be her. I really can't be her because it is impossible. I love to think about her going on adventures and stuff,but I want to be this person so bad that I get depressed when I think about her. I try to stop but at random times if I am bored or just any time actually, I find myself thinking about her. Please help, am I going crazy, or is this just normal? Btw I am 13. (link)
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Trust me theres a lot of people just like you, including me. I actually catfished the boy i liked with this really pretty girl, i literally wanted to be her. She was like perfect. Then i realized im still not fully grown i have chances to fix myself and to get prettier, I learned to only be self concious about very few things after thinking about it a lot. I realized that everyone is different and there will always be that group of people who think you are beautiful and that group of people who call you ugly. Only focus on the people who cal you beautiful for you, getting mad because you want to be or look like someone else is normal. You will learn to accept yourself :)
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so I'm 24 ex is 23 we were together for 3 years. I broke up with him cause he wasn't make an effort to come see me or talk to me or spend the weekends with me. The only time we'd ever talk is through text and while he was working I had to ask every night if he was planning on coming over and at least calling to talk and he always had something more important to do. Then the weekends would come and I'd hardly hear from him only a few text or so. He just wasn't putting in the effort I needed him to. But somehow that was "my fault"... Everything was always somehow my fault. Well anyway we broke up on Saturday cause it was my birthday last week and I had to ask HIM if he planned on spending it with me and when I made him feel guilty he did but then the weekend came and I asked if he was coming out with some friends and me and he refused he wanted to play games. So I broke up with him I had enough. Well since Sunday he won't stop texting:calling so finally I answered last night to tell him to stop and he was like "ok fine sorry I even bothered trying" like really?!?! A few phone calls doesn't count as trying... I'm just over the whole thing am I wrong to be mad that he considered that as him trying?! I've been trying to get him to spend time with me for months and I get nothing but excuses (link)
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Okay you are no where in the wrong at all. I had a boyfriend of 8 months, we were long distance and we never had met in person (long story) i really thought i loved this guy. Around 5/6 months in i stopped having so much interest in him. He always had an excuse not to skype me he constantly only wanted to text. He would get so mad and jealous when i hung out with friends, even if they were girls. It's bad to say but i kinda dealed with him for another 3 months until i had literally had enough. I broke up with him and he was so mentally attatched that he tried to commit suicide over me to guilt me into dating him. I told him it was too much. Anyway i think u should tell him that you want the attention, who wouldn't and not being able to see him or constantly being stood up hurts you, let him know exactly how you feel. You cant waste your life on this one guy if he won't do "anything and everything" for you. it seems as if he just doesnt wanna be alone. he wants to be able to say he has a girlfriend to fill in some of those empty pieces. i could be wrong but you jsut gotta let him know how you feel just flat out say it and if he deosnt like it then oh well, what are you gonna do about it? You really cant do anything at all.
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My classmate's friend ask for my number but i didn't give my number for a reason that i'm only have landline and replying would be too expensive. After that I still see my classmate's friend but he didn't approach or talk to me. 3 weeks or so.. he added me on facebook and i accepted it... but again, after that he didn't bother to message me.... few days past he likes one of my photo albums. but until now.. he still don't talk or approach me. His friends seems to know about me 'coz they tease him to me. I'm confused and don't want to be played anymore. Please help me.. what should I do? what is he really up to? Does he like or want to be in a relationship with but shy? or he's just playing me? Thank you. (link)
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If i were you i would make the first move. Talk to him, if you see hes pushing himself away from you a bit maybe that shows he's not interested. What i would do is get one of my obnoxious friends to ask his friends and see what they say. Sometimes it's hard to read people. Maybe he wants to be friends or maybe it's just like those times where someone just wants to show you hints that they know you exist but don't really want to be in your life so much so that you become close. Just talk to him think of something to talk about. I don't think so much that he's playing you but don't think about it so much. And if your scared to make the first move then see what he does. Usually if a guys friends tease them it's cuz he likes you or they think he likes you, same for girls, SO really jsut calm down don't obsess or think about it too much because you'll just get yourself worked up.
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I like a boy he is goring out with my friend how do I tell him how I feel or if I like him its really really hard (link)
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To be honest i wouldn't tell him at all because you have a chance of losing your bestfriend. It would be worse if he felt the same way about you because boys are stupid. We all know this. Girls aren't any better but they don't realize girls get attatched too and if she finds out that your the reason they brke up it could hurt what really matters. Boys don't last forever. Me being probably around your age, i know. But if i were you i would have a talk about it with your friend. Slowly bring up the topic don;t jsut throw it at her. Give her some space. Make sure she doesnt feel pressure to break up with him over you. At times she may get suspicious when you are around him but it'll stop as long as you two don't act suspicious as well. But dont sweat it. If she gets mad at you obviously she isn't as good of a friend as you had thought. And maybe they won't work out but make sure if you guys do end up with a chance of dating that she is OKAY with it. Secretly no girl would ever be okay with it but eventually a new boy will come along. Trust me you'll be liking and dating a lot of boys before you find the right one. And losing a best friend isnt worth it because they are the ones who have been there and who need you most. So just talk it out with her and see what happens, plan for future responses maybe :) hope this helps a bit!!
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