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a boy who I like is going out with my friend
I like a boy he is goring out with my friend how do I tell him how I feel or if I like him its really really hard
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To be honest i wouldn't tell him at all because you have a chance of losing your bestfriend. It would be worse if he felt the same way about you because boys are stupid. We all know this. Girls aren't any better but they don't realize girls get attatched too and if she finds out that your the reason they brke up it could hurt what really matters. Boys don't last forever. Me being probably around your age, i know. But if i were you i would have a talk about it with your friend. Slowly bring up the topic don;t jsut throw it at her. Give her some space. Make sure she doesnt feel pressure to break up with him over you. At times she may get suspicious when you are around him but it'll stop as long as you two don't act suspicious as well. But dont sweat it. If she gets mad at you obviously she isn't as good of a friend as you had thought. And maybe they won't work out but make sure if you guys do end up with a chance of dating that she is OKAY with it. Secretly no girl would ever be okay with it but eventually a new boy will come along. Trust me you'll be liking and dating a lot of boys before you find the right one. And losing a best friend isnt worth it because they are the ones who have been there and who need you most. So just talk it out with her and see what happens, plan for future responses maybe :) hope this helps a bit!!
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You'll just have to trust us or learn the hard way that boyfriend stealing is not okay among females. If a guy they liked breaks up with them and he's actually single now, you would think then its okay. Depends on who broke up with whom. If he broke it off, she'll be hurting and it hurts worse if he starts dating her best friend. Let it be a lesson in life, that if theres a guy you have a serious crush on, don't wait too long to befriend him and if he likes being friends, than asking what he thinks if you two were to try being bf gf since you get along so great as friends. Thats the easiest least awkward way to ask. If you wait for a guy to ask first, he might not ask you. For now, you'll have to wait until he or your girlfriend decide to stop dating and then just give your girlfriend a heads up to know you're going to ask him out. If you ask if its okay with her and it isn't, you're in an awkward spot as she has no claims on him in reality even tho her heart may still feel it, to be able to give permission to begin with. Good luck.
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If they seem to be getting along, its probably best if you don't say anything to either one of them.
If you tell him, he will probably go to your friend, ask her whats up with you telling him that & then they are both mad at you.
If you tell her she will probably also get mad at you. You can tell if they get along or not. It will be hard to do but I think you will be happier in the end if you just wait & see how things work out with them. If they break up, wait a while and then talk to him or her about your feelings.
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Uh well that could get really messy. I suggest telling your friend about it before you go begins their back and tell their boyfriend. See how that goes, and what she says and feels. But definitely talk with your friend first, and then see what can be done after that.
Hope this helps~
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