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I have become really close with a good friend were both guys and we are 13 we started watching gay porn and we were getting horny and he ask me if he could touch my penis i was a little nervous, but i was feeling horny so i let him pull my pants down and he jerked me off then last weekend i went around to his house he was alone and we got naked we jerked each other off it felt great i really like being sexual with him there's nothing wrong with what were doing? (link)
No not at all I'm bi and I love me some gay porn and I actually wish I have a friend lil that. There I nothing wrong with wanting to be satisfied. I'm 14 btw and don't let others know they will judge. This is cool but bad because it can ruin your friendship because its hard to think of an old friend as a friend when he jerked you.


Hi. I'm 21 and i think I've been fingering too much. More like 2 to 3x a day. Is it normal? Will there be problem if I don't stop? Any suggestions on how to stop it? I've tried to do distract myself but I still end up doing it before sleeping. I've had sex before with a woman but we didn't touch our *yknow* just kissing and stuffs. (link)
Omg me too I can't stop whacking 1-5 times a day and I'm only 14😭 lol I need help and you do to so I say surround your self with a non-sexual environment.


I am thirteen years old . I have developed feelings for my guy friend. He is very kind and smart. He is very talented in many ways too. I have liked him for almost 3 years. Then I have been recently been informed that I had cancer. it wasn't severe but if not treated it would develop rapidly and will increase the chances of me dying at my teen years. I didn't come to school for a few weeks. Now, I am back. I planned to tell him that I like him but all those weeks I was gone he and one of my best friend started dating. I was happy for them but there was a feeling lingering in my mind and heart to give up on him and on life. What should I do? (link)
Listen I want you to live on I am 14 I what doesn't kill you makes you stronger you fight and find someone better for you, someone that I good enough for you. And if he does become available go for it because middle school relationships don't last long and yolo(you only live once) but I hope reincarnation is s thing.


so I've started developing feelings for my step bro,our age gap is 6 years and he's in army now while I'm still a student. it all started on a plane flight last year. he sat with me and i was by the windows. i tried leaning against him but he pushed me away however in the middle of the flight, i woke up lying on his chest. moments later, he stood up and went to the washroom but before that he placed a pillow near my head, [ps he didn't actually knew that he woke me up]when he was back. i tried leaning against him again and my hair was all in my face and he gentlyplace it behind my ear.few hours later,i woke up & requested if i could lie on his lap and there was no objection from him and so i. i lied on and tried to shift to a better position however i applied a little too much pressure. soon, he told me to get up as he needs to use the bathroom again. when he was back his hand was blocking his crotch and sat down placing a pillow above it. i was curious but didnt ask much and laid down however it wasn't really comfortable thus i removed the cushion, it might be a little gross to say this but i could actually feel his penis standing upright.just to state that he have no girlfriends before despite living for 18 years.
we reached our destination and we sat beside each other throughout the whole journey, i would say. in one of the days, we were visiting a tourist attraction, i was cold and he offered me his winter jacket. next day, he fell sick. however like i mentioned he sat with me throughout the whole journey, he was so sick that he cuddled himself like a ball sitting beside the window, all of a sudden he just played on my lap and started sleeping. i took out my jacket and placed it over him, he tossed around and he was sooooooo adorable. soon when he recovered, he didn't really lie on my lap however for fun, its my turn... I'm a pretty photogenic person but he's not and he hardly takes pictures and never helps to take pictures even if his biological siblings requested him too however for this time without pleading,he agreed in a second and boast how photogenic he is haha .
however when we were back from our holidays, things get a little different over time, whenever the sisters are around he will not really respond to me however when they are away for something he would answer all my questions that i was curious about...
few weeks later... he's entering army and before he left i reminded him to get a red box from my room, in it , it contains 263 notes for him to read every weekend as he will not be able to bring it into camp. few months later, we are having a family gathering (having bbq) which was held 2 days ago, our cousins were all there and were chatting while eating when he suddenly asked if i want to compete skate boarding with him and of course i agreed. after eating we want up to their houses to chill and we were all discussing about the latest pop drama's main character song joong ki hahaha.. just to say that I've told my cousin's girlfriend who is the same age as him about our issues and she kept it a secret but tried to help, she told me to move in closer to him because there were no more seats and the area was very cramp, i looked into her eyes for a moment and my step bro waved his hand and told me to move in,my friend who was the same age was him showed him some ladies photos, he leaned in towards me with his cap touching my face. However he did not compliment any of them.. sooner or later all our cousins were in a room when we realised that we were the only ones outside the living room with our parents and a few adults. we then moved in and sat down, we were having body contacts and all.. if you are reading this, thanks for spending so much time, please share with me your opinion and it really matters a lot to me. (link)
I realm don't know what to say what are u asking exactly. No disrespect just asking, help me so I can help u 😁.


How do I know when I'm having an orgasm or when I'm about to have one? When my boyfriend is eating me out, I have this super tingly feeling. (link)
Oh you'll know its a good numbness around your body that feels amazing and for a couple of seconds u can't open your eyes. That's how it feels for me. I'm a 14 year old boy btw hope this helps.


I am 15 male and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months, the last couple of weeks we have started doing sexual stuff, it has just happened quickly and lately we have been jerking each other off and given each other blowjobs I do like it he makes me cum but this has happened quickly is it too soon does he want sex? (link)
Lists if he really likes u he will. The time u have sex is the mo.Ent of truth.


Help please I dont know what to do. I'm being blackmailed. I am a 19yr old male and she said she was 20yrs. I sent a nude picture of myself with my face in it to a girl on Kik and she said if I don't pay her money she would post it on Ellen show website and try to have her show it on CNN or something like. And ruin my life. She wants me to pay her $100 and if I do she said she would delete the picture. Im scared that she will post it and ruin my life. I can't tell my family because they would be upset at me and cause more issues. Please someone help me I don't know what to do. (link)
Give her the money or let her because Ellen is gay and she won't submit it and CNN won't either so you okay bud. Just no more dick pics. I'm 14 btw


I have invited another woman to have sex with my husband while I watch. She and I have meet and I like her, she is just the type I wanted for this experience.

She and my husband have not meet and won't until the night of the event. She is coming to our home where we will enjoy drinks and conversation first.

I'm looking for ideas on how to make the transition between conversation and sexy time smooth and less awkward. She and I have talked about bondage and restraint being part of the evening.

Ideas? Suggestions?

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Hey I just 14 I don't think I the right person to ask this I know about sex alot about it I just don't know about this. I'm sorry. Think you should just bring up sex and it will happen. I don't know how to put it I sorry ask someone else.


Give advice ? (link)
I understand. I'm an American but I understand, its because of our new urban grammar we often come out with new ways to da things. Like Netflix and chill means to watch Netflix and have sex. I don't know why they made that up. But we have many new ways of saying thing so if u get confused take English classes and if someone says something you have never heard like turn up or I'm dead look it up at www.urban dictionary.com hope I assisted you in a good way.


My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:

I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day

I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
Yes you are a virgin unless you have done vaginal sex.


am 18 from lagos,my boyfrnd always finger me nd i do release,does that mean am been disvirgin and secondly how does a hymen look like (link)
Not unless he broke your sexuall
barrier


is there any way for boys to "finger" themselves? (link)
In the ass hole but I don't advise doing b4 washing. Eww 😝 # shit on hands. Yea the only way is up yer ass


Okay, I'm 18/m and I was just curious if there is an average with the amount of times a guy can cum before losing hardness. For example, i read a lot of comics and magazines and books where the guy cums 3 or four times but I've only managed 2 without stopping. I know people are gonna say something like "don't always believe what you read" cuz I've heard it. So, is there a certain number of times a guy can cum in a row before he's completely done?

Thanks o^-^o (link)
Lol that face tho. Well depending on how strong you are sexually depends. Some men take pills tho.but I don't advise that you never know if there are side-effects. Like having a 10 hour orgasm or random cum shots lol. I'm 14 btw and I've seen some guys go for 6 shots and then lose their hard on. I don't watch them I watch the girls btw. 😂


23/F

So basically I'll start off with I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and when we broke up in June I felt so sad i have always had depression and self harmed myself but no one knew Fourth of July weekend I felt the saddest I have ever felt and looked at my medicine cabinet and said what am I going to take to kill myself I thought about death every day and thought it was normal. I talked to my doctor and she put me on zoloft. I have never felt better until yesterday. I met this new guy and I finally moved on to my ex we had sex twice both with condoms. The only skin on skin action was us in the shower but we never physically did it until after with a condom. The next day I had an outrageous yeast infection and I found out yesterday I have Herpes. I have only been with 2 people and this is what happens...the guy I slept with is in denial and said he doesn't have anything but maybe he does now because I gave it to him! He was with his ex for 2 years and he said they are both fine. I just don't understand how this happened to me and now I am back in my hole where I don't want to live anymore. I feel broken and sad and nobody is going to want me. (link)
Oh I am so sorry I'm only a 14 year old team who whacks off in the bathroom. Oh my god this is a fucked up situation. Okay listen I sorry about the herpies I realm am and if he isn't a dick he wont tell anyone. What you have to do is apologize and move on. Find someone ho realm loves you despite your herpies. And remember sex ain't better than love make love not sex because sex is sex just loveless hard-core but satisfying sex. Once again in sorry and I tried my best.


Hello!

As the headline says, im trying to be a better man, and being able to do some self defense is never bad idea. I heared that some martial arts are tied with some sort of philosophy and through it teaching other things for life then just "beating people" (because beating people is NOT my desire in the first place). I will be most grateful if you give me any suggestions i could follow.

Thank you! (link)
you should take a more defensive martial art instead of attacking. i believe your a good gut and you wil make the right choice. only attack if your pushed to that point. i suggest taikwondo.


I have strong feelings for a friend of mine we are both 14 male and we have been spending a lot of tine together, so one day we started fooling around we
got naked and we touched each other it felt good a bd the last couple of weeks when we are alone we jerk each other off and I let him finger me it feels so good we both like each other a lot and even though we are friends we both want to keep jerking each other off and maybe do more is that normal to be sexual as friends. (link)
sorry for a late answer. your lucky you have a guy your age who shares your same desires. and will do this with you. i just turned 14 and i'm bi-sexual and id love to experience that your lucky. by the way it is very normal that's how marriage and beneficial friendships start. id love to join but I my parents would kill me my uncle is gay so he'd understand. (my parents aren't homophobes they just don't want me to do that yet. but i'm ready i jerk daily now. but its your choice if u wanna take it farther. remember wear a condom.


Hi. So in the fall, I'll be going into 7th grade. But this will also be at a new school. So there are 2 middle schools in my town, and all of my friends are at the smaller one, and I'll be moving to the bigger one. Technically this will be my first year of real middle school though, because last year in 6th grade, I was actually homeschooled. This will not change my level of work at school this year, because I am a very extraordinary student anyway, although I am worried about middle school itself. I'm a newbie, AND it's my first year of middle school when everyone else started last year. I won't know my way around, I'll be late for classes, I don't even know how their systems work and everything. I'll be the new clueless yet smart girl that everyone pities. I'm smaller and an easy target for bullies, but I can come back with extremely witty comebacks that makes them want to wish they were dead in a ditch, if that helps. But I need to know some important things that will help me. I already know how to unlock lockers and stuff, so yeah. Thanks for your time. (link)
Everything will be ok trust me dude. I'm 13 going into high school I know. Be the silent type to get work done listen to the teacher get your work done. I advise this because I didn't do this and I paid more attention to my social life instead of educational and fell under. Don't do what I did. Also If you don't want to get bullied don't stand out much socially. But excel in school find good friends and if you want find a special somebody for your self. But take it slow. 😊 if you need anything else just message me.


i'm a 15 year old guy and i really think i'm gay i watch gay porn a lot and i have been attracted to guys for a while now i don't know anyone who is gay but i really want to have sex with a guy i have this feeling for awhile now that's not weird is it? i'm not sure where to look to find out which guys are gay where do i start? (link)
I understand plus its not word. Nobody's sexuallity is weird. I find boys and girls attractive I've watched gay porn and normal porn. The truth is I like gay porn better. Plus I'm 13 and I have the same urges. Like I really want to have sex but I can't because I'm 13, girl or boy it wouldn't matter. I feel like I'm bi but there is nothing wrong with that. And you feel kik your gay there is nothing wrong with that. But you have to know your sexuallity and be ready to accept it. My uncle is gay and he knew it ever since he was 5 and was afraid but now in today's world gay is accepted so don't be ashamed. And try to look somebody up online or at school because in high school that's where you find your sexuallity. Keep the relationship a secret because most popular kids make fun of gays which isn't cool. But find a way I know you can.


I'm 15 and I reccently began to masterbate. I started by fingering myself but it really gave me no pleasure. I stopped for a long period after that and then looked up techniques but I'm not sure if I've ever orgasmed or cummed. What I did tonight, I will never forget that feeling. It was my first time masterbating in about 6 months and I went and had a warm shower and sat on the floor while the water stream was directed at my genitals. I grabbed an electric toothbrush and used it as a vibrator since I cannot obviously buy sex toys. Anyways, I warmed up and loosened my body with my fingers. Then, I used the electric toothbrush and placed it in different spots around my vaginal region. Never inside my vagina though because that could cause infection right? But I kept moving it around and finally found a spot I assumed to be my clitoris (above my vagina), and pushed the toothbrush harder against it and the feeling is hard to describe but I'll try. When I found 'the spot', I found that my whole body was tending up and my mouth dropped wide open. It was hard to breathe and I felt like I was gasping for air. Then, something warm came out of my vagina I think and when i took away the toothbrush , my vagina was tingling for about 30 min. Is that cum or like an orgasm? And what does either feel like? Also, is that a good feeling to have or a bad one? I found it very pleasurable but I couldn't breathe which scared me.. Please help! (link)
Have you played with the lips of your vigina? You might wanna consider it. Imma a 13 year old dude and I masterbate too. I knew at a early age how girls and boys orgasm. Don't continue that way if your scared 😓 I don't want you to quit masterbation because of fear because its the best thing in the world. A guy even wrote a famous song about it called "I gotta feeling". U should play with your nipples and your vigina. But listen if you don't stick something I your sexuall viginal hole you wont cum. Which is the most amazing feeling in your life. To a man you'll feel num all over except for your penis and you can't opens your eyes. I'm guessing its the same for a girl. Also if you can get a partner to do it for you because you wont anticipate what is coming and you'll orgasm faster because you'd stop but they wont until you cum. You'll know when your gonna cum trust me. It's a feeling you haven't had in your life.


How do I make my dad understand how much he's mentally hurting me by taking away my iPod permanently until he can block chat sites? When he takes it away and blocks the chat sites, I can't talk to my friends or my girlfriend anymore, and it's really hurting me. I try to talk to him, but all he does in response is not listen and make fun of me. I really need someone's help right now... v.v
I am a 13/F (link)
Yo dude sorry I didn't answer earlier but if you only talk to her virtually and not face to face its not real love. But if you feel like you love her what you do is tell your dad in a nice and gentle manner that I have met someone I really like and the main way I communicate with her is through social media. I know he'll be like but your on it all day and then you tell him because I think I actually have feelings for her and he'll understand and give you a talk about how he met your mom and he felt the same but he had no social media to hide behind. What I'm saying is say what I said and improvise if you must.




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