Dragonflymagic answered Saturday November 7 2015, 7:34 pm: The tingly feeling is just the start. Its something being done that feels good enough to tingle but may not be the exact sensation or stimulation you need to get to an orgasm. Once you've had an orgasm, there's never a question again whether you;re having one. Women need a lot more prep time to get aroused enough for having an orgasm or for penetration than men need to be ready. No one told me what one felt like so when I had my first by masturbating, it scared me so bad thinking I was having a heart attack. LOL
An orgasm comes after your pleasure levels have increased to a point where its like waves on the shore, waves of pleasure rippling through your whole body. Some hold their breath at that point without thinking, some find it hard to breath, as if theyd been running a 10k race, an especially strong orgasm or two can make you feel relaxed, make you unable to move your body for a few minutes and your legs to feel like limp noodles but its not what everyone feels the first time or two. And also depending on your bodys mood you may need a different touch the next time to achieve same results. So just keep in mind to be vocal and communicate with a partner. Let him know when something feels good and you want more of that. If you don't like something, instead of making him feel bad by saying so, ask him to switch to something he was doing earlier or "I have an idea, could you try..." You may want the touch faster, slower, harder or softer, or even with split second breaks of the touching so you dont get desensitized, use lots of lube and reapply because depending on the brand, lubes can get sucked up by your skin and leave you dry again after a while. Hope this helps you dear. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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