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I am gonna have sex for the first time ever, this week and I wanted to know what it feels like? What should I expect?
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it can hurt a little , be careful relax , and make sure u buy lubricated condoms so dey dont break on you and ur boyfriend. alot of women feels pain when cheery popped but i didnt feel it .
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First of all, most people who are asked to remember their first time having sex do not have good things to say, no memorable things about it. It can be wonderful for some but that depends on who your partner is. That makes the biggest difference on whether it is bad or fairly good even if neither have much prior experience.
The best thing is to not have any expectations and let the rest of your life be a learning experience as far as sex is concerned. I am in my fifties and still, there are new things I find myself experiencing that I haven't before. One cant know it all before starting.
If sex is with a person where both have strong feelings for each other and they are similar in their pheremone make up, it can be great. Sometimes the excitement one feels is due to the newness, of doing something you havent before. So if after a few weeks or couple months you dont like sex with your partner, most likely you were running on new experience, or new relationship energy where the excitement fades pretty quickly. If its the real thing and both of you plan to do all you can to please each other, then both will hopefully experience orgasms. As to just clinically speaking what the stages are, there is the period of time to arouse each other, women take longer and need more interaction than men but that doesnt mean males dont like their errogenous zones stroked. Everywhere there is skin and nerve endings is a possible errogenous zone for you and your partner. It differs as to how much pleasure a person gets from that. Kissing is a good way to get aroused too. Taking ones time is important too. Generally, people feel more excited, their heartbeat picks up, you can feel like your heart or stomach is doing somersaults and you feel a throbbing in your sexual parts. The strength of the pleasure and excitement builds to a peak at which point there is the release/ejaculation. Women ejaculate too, although some only have their ejaculate travel into their bladder while others either dribble or spray out their cum. Women who may feel the sensation to pee, if they allow theirself to relax can have great orgasms. Other than that, theres nothing else one can tell you, it must be experienced. However I suggest you use condoms and if you want this to become a regular thing, have the female on birth control. If you have questions regarding getting on birth control and are young,, let me know.
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