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i wanna give my boyfriend an insanely good blowjob since its his birthday tomorrow. What position should I be in and live what should I do with my mouth? He is not curcumsized.
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The most important thing in giving an insanely good blowjob is good communication. You won't be able to feel what he is feeling in sensations. You can feel him grow larger or jerk in your mouth but thats if what you are doing is just right. Using my husband for an example, there are a few things I do that he especially likes, and I know this because I ask for some of the basics. Then I warn him I am going to try something new and when I do it, stop and ask if he likes it, wants more, softer, suck harder, faster, more circling the tip or slit, use hand and mouth, hand on the base or grasping scrotum or even if he knows where his g spot is. Other than what you do with your mouth or tongue, there are a few things you can do to change the environment for him. What I mean is your sucking a strong breath mint right before blowjob and the sting of mint sometimes is felt by the man. Same goes for you sucking an icecube and bringing down the temp of your mouth and taking sips of an as hot as you can stand beverage so he feels the heat. Position for us is always a matter of how much stress it puts on ones neck. You want to be comfortable so try several positions. He can be seated and you kneeling in front, or laying in bed, you between his legs or kneeling and going from his side or even sitting on his torso, giving him a nice view of your rear while you work on him, or use a pillow for your head and both of you lay on your sides. In trying all the differeent ways you both will discover what works best for him to achieve the most pleasure this way. The same works in reverse if he were to give you oral sex or finger you, there needs to be communication, like if what you're doing at any given moment is bringing him closer to climax, you'll likely hear "Don't stop!" or 'keep doing that' and do just that, don't change a thing as it may interrupt the climb to orgasm and you'll have to start over. So keep the speed at that point and pressure just the same. He's not expecting you to know how to be an ace already at a blowjob. I know you may want to surprise him. The surprise will be your willingness and asking him to strip to receive his birthday present, a blow job. From that point, dont attempt to surprise him by pretending to be experienced. I am in my fifties and every time I've had a new partner, the learning process starts all over with getting to know what each partner likes. The basic mechanics of kissing, touching, oral sex and intercourse are the same moves but its how its done or delivered that work for one person and don't work for another from my experience. If you want it to be a memorable experience for him, don't guess at what to do, ask him and communicate. Non circumcised should make no difference in his enjoying the blowjob. Just ask him to show you what he does with the extra skin covering. He'll show you.
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