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im in love with my step brother, does he feel the same too?
so I've started developing feelings for my step bro,our age gap is 6 years and he's in army now while I'm still a student. it all started on a plane flight last year. he sat with me and i was by the windows. i tried leaning against him but he pushed me away however in the middle of the flight, i woke up lying on his chest. moments later, he stood up and went to the washroom but before that he placed a pillow near my head, [ps he didn't actually knew that he woke me up]when he was back. i tried leaning against him again and my hair was all in my face and he gentlyplace it behind my ear.few hours later,i woke up & requested if i could lie on his lap and there was no objection from him and so i. i lied on and tried to shift to a better position however i applied a little too much pressure. soon, he told me to get up as he needs to use the bathroom again. when he was back his hand was blocking his crotch and sat down placing a pillow above it. i was curious but didnt ask much and laid down however it wasn't really comfortable thus i removed the cushion, it might be a little gross to say this but i could actually feel his penis standing upright.just to state that he have no girlfriends before despite living for 18 years.
we reached our destination and we sat beside each other throughout the whole journey, i would say. in one of the days, we were visiting a tourist attraction, i was cold and he offered me his winter jacket. next day, he fell sick. however like i mentioned he sat with me throughout the whole journey, he was so sick that he cuddled himself like a ball sitting beside the window, all of a sudden he just played on my lap and started sleeping. i took out my jacket and placed it over him, he tossed around and he was sooooooo adorable. soon when he recovered, he didn't really lie on my lap however for fun, its my turn... I'm a pretty photogenic person but he's not and he hardly takes pictures and never helps to take pictures even if his biological siblings requested him too however for this time without pleading,he agreed in a second and boast how photogenic he is haha .
however when we were back from our holidays, things get a little different over time, whenever the sisters are around he will not really respond to me however when they are away for something he would answer all my questions that i was curious about...
few weeks later... he's entering army and before he left i reminded him to get a red box from my room, in it , it contains 263 notes for him to read every weekend as he will not be able to bring it into camp. few months later, we are having a family gathering (having bbq) which was held 2 days ago, our cousins were all there and were chatting while eating when he suddenly asked if i want to compete skate boarding with him and of course i agreed. after eating we want up to their houses to chill and we were all discussing about the latest pop drama's main character song joong ki hahaha.. just to say that I've told my cousin's girlfriend who is the same age as him about our issues and she kept it a secret but tried to help, she told me to move in closer to him because there were no more seats and the area was very cramp, i looked into her eyes for a moment and my step bro waved his hand and told me to move in,my friend who was the same age was him showed him some ladies photos, he leaned in towards me with his cap touching my face. However he did not compliment any of them.. sooner or later all our cousins were in a room when we realised that we were the only ones outside the living room with our parents and a few adults. we then moved in and sat down, we were having body contacts and all.. if you are reading this, thanks for spending so much time, please share with me your opinion and it really matters a lot to me.
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Hi honey,
Your story looks like it was taken out of a shoujo manga since I read romantic manga. 😍😍😍
Anyways be careful though because he might just be kind with you so don't get your hopes up or dont pour all of yourself on him.
Studies first dear but if you manage to be a good student then it s okay as long as you dont forget your studies 😆
😸😸😸😸😸😸😸😸
Grinning Cheshire
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The age gap and fact he is a step brother doesnt factor in here. This is a simple girl likes boy and doesn't know if he likes her back. So are these signs he might be interested back?
As an outside person, not being there to see what was in his eyes, tone of his voice or to feel the vibes coming off him to see if things were otherwise, just the facts you mentioned, I would have to say sound all innocent and plausible as just him being nice as a brother and a gentleman. The fact his body reacted with a hard penis doesnt mean that he automatically desires you. My own brother reacted when he saw my sis and I modeling the new nightgowns Mom got us for Christmas, something about nipples showing through, which made us aware how easy a males body can react even without his heart and mind engaged. On the other hand, as men get older, their penis doesn't necessarily react so quick even if he is very interested and turned on, his penis may not be hard yet or at all, but it doesnt mean they aren't aroused. So I wouldn't pin any hope of a particular interest in you based on what the penis is doing. I am sure the kind of interest you want is in the total you, not just for sex.
Not saying he isn't interested in you that way but if he is, he may be thinking the same thing that many people might, that it is wrong since you grew up together as sister and brother. Some may even go as far as saying it is incest.
The only concern and real reason for marrying close blood relations was medical problems that came from inbreeding. You two are not blood related so that wouldn't even apply. So the best thing is to go about this thinking as if he wasnt a step brother. How do you start conversations wiht other guys where you steer the convo in the direction of how much you enjoy them? At some point after getting to know them, a step you can jump past cus you already know each other fairly well, one person needs to tell the other they are starting to have romantic feelings for the other and see how they react. This is the only way you're going to find out for sure. But stating it as it isn't a fully blown fact yet, your feelings, it doesnt make the other feel awkward or put on the spot if they dont feel the same. He either has to say he could never see you as anything but a sister, or he'd need to be willing to give his mind time to get around the fact that you are related by parents marriage and realize that since you're not blood kin, there's no medical reason for not pairing up to the point of having kids someday. You can't expect him to be any braver than you here so if you dont want to go on your whole life just wondering or feeling the hurt if and when he marries someone, not knowing if it could have worked between you, the best way is for you to broach the subject with him.
Good luck dear.
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