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My friends did the challenge but we didn't know we had to say charlie charlie can we stop? before we could stop playing! Are we all going to be haunted until we die or just the person who first asked to summon the demon?
SCARED PLEASE HELP! (link)
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the challenge is not real it is made up you will be fine.
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So I'm 17/f and im in a relationship with this incredible guy. He treats me better than any other guy has ever did. He tells me how much he loves me all the time and all the details as to why and hes always there to help and support me. Hes amazing. But ever since we got into a relationship a month ago, I feel trapped. Before we started going out I already felt as if we belonged to each other and we talked everyday and it felt great and everything. But now I feel like all I do is think about being with other guys.. and how sad it is that it didnt work out with other guys I really liked. Its absolutely awful and theres no reason for the way im feeling. I think it might be an immaturity thing? Or I have committment issues possibly? Im not sure. For the past week or so I feel like its been getting worse. I was on the phone with him one day and he was going on and on about something and I was just getting so annoyed and fed up. I kept thinking, I could just hang up and never call him back..it could be that easy. And this guy who Ive liked the last two years has been out of school for a while and he just started coming to school recently, the day after my boyfriend and I got together. And ive been so sad seeing him around and thinking how that never worked out and how it wouldnt anyway and how its the end of my senior year and I probably wont see him after high school and its just been devastating me. And I just feel so bad because I know I shouldnt be thinking about other guys like that. Ah I dont know what to do. The way this relationship happened with my bf was so weird, i just know ot was meant to be. And I know he loves me more than anything so I dont know why I feel like I iust want to be free from him. Its really stupid and awful and I just want to get myself out of this funk so I can be committed and happy in my relationship. And hes been noticing that ive been feeling down and thats somethings bothering me but I cant tell him why because itll hurt him and because im hoping this is fixable and that itll pass. But not being able to tell him has been upsetting him because all he wants to do is listen to what im feeling and help me.. so its just been blah. And I just need help so I can fix this problem because I really want this to work. So please help! Thank you. (link)
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just because someone treats you well and loves you doesnt mean you need to be with them. you should be with someone you are excited about and where the love is mutual, dont settle for someone who you are second guessing and still thinking about other guys, with the right person you shoudnt feel trapped or regretful of other relationships that didnt work out, dont feel like you need to stay with this guy just because he likes you. that being said, only end things if this is something you have been feeling for a while because if its just recently and you were very into him before it could just be you being scared.
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Is it normal, when you are making a new same sex friend, particularly someone you look up to, to always have them on your mind and feel sad when you have to leave them? I don't mean in a romantic or sexual way; no physical attraction, just emotional. I'm not writing this because I'm worried that I'm gay or anything. I just worry that I'm overly vulnerable and get too emotionally attached to people I'm in the beginning stages of a close friendship with. The thing is, I'm pretty reserved and hold back in showing someone how much I like them because I'm worried about becoming clingy or whatever. This happened to me once or twice before and every time, it's a girl friend who's older or more experienced in life and I find myself wanting to be her, and becoming extremely envious of her life experience, beauty, social skills, etc. Anyone experience this before? (link)
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dont know if this helps but know exactly what you are talking about, went through this once with a friend a few years ago and honestly was an incredibly weird expereince being so attached to someone and very very hurtful when our friendship ended. if it helps i did eventyally get over it and now will see her every once in a while and dont feel sad about it anymore, just takes time, these really intense friendships are hard to maintain tho so just be careful and try to keep it a healthy friendship so you dont get hurt.
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Alright, So there is this boy, he's super cute, athletic and funny. We have had a thing going on for a while now but he has a girlfriend and they just recently started dating. Her and I are 2 way different people and honestly I think he's doing to make me jealous. We still talk and he's always saying that he remebers the little dates we had and how great it was when we kissed. I am completely in love with this boy and I know he's not good for me so how do I tell him how I feel? (link)
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firstly i think people dont honestly date people just to make other people jelous, they flirt with people maybe even kiss people but someone would be taking things a little too far to honestly go out with someone for a while just to make someone else jelous. he might hwoever still like you and just be dating this girl because she made herself more available or something. i would see where things go before you try to make yourself get over him, try to spend time with him, give him signs that your interested, and find a semi-joking way to let him say hes interested in you if he is. if after a while you see its not working try getting to know other guys honestly the easiest way to get over someone i find is to start distracting yourself with someone else.
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I have a crush on a girl and I want to get close to her but i don't know how.I reckon that She indirectly show that she has feelings for me but i want to verify them.We hang out and play together.
In addition, I want to get close to her and indirectly verify if she has also some feelings for me too but I don't know how.Another problem is that I think a friend of mine has also some feelings for her too and i want to make out with her before he does.
Taking everything into consideration, i would like to give me some advice about my thorny issue.I appreciate any advice you give me.
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if your friend hasnt said anything about liking her then i dont think you need to hold back because of him. in terms of how to know if shes interested, pay attention to how she acts when you two are together, does she face you with her body, angle her hips at you? does she make sure to say bye and hug you when you leave eachother? does she tell you things she doesnt tell everyone? offer you things she doesnt offer everyone? try having a mutual friend as her subtly if shes interested., or bring up the conversation slowly so you can see how she reacts before you say anything.
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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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hey would love to help you with this but im not christain so not sure what the christian view is on how to go about this. but i commend you for wanting to do this and goodluck!
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how will i know if i cumm having sex
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You will know when it happens, if you are unsure it didn't happen.
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hey, so I've been dating this girl, long distance. I love her, but I am not old enough to drive yet (14). I just want to do something nice, sweet to her, to show her that I love her, something sweeter than posting on Instagram. any ideas on what I could do? (link)
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Send her flowers? Send her a letter? Have one of her friends buy her a cupcake and put it in her room or her locker with a note from you?
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i'm 12 and my bf is 13. my bf is more experienced than i am and he wants me to do stuff that i dont think i should cuz of my age and i'm not really ready for. i need help to know how to tell him that i'm not ready for that stuff. pleez and thank u if u can help (link)
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You are definitely too young to do whatever it is you are talking about, maybe tell him that it's because he's older you aren't as ready as him and you want to wait, tell him it's not because you don't like him. Also if he is not ok with waiting he is a bad boyfriend anyways and you shouldn't go out with him
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I'm a 22 year old male college student in California, (won't specify where) and for the longest time, I've been feeling very trapped in this college environment. I go to a school where they focus on casual sex, partying, etc. a lot, and as an introvert, I've always felt left out and actually a bit angry about the people around me. Especially since I haven't even kissed a girl for over four years.
However, just recently last week, I hooked up with a random girl from a club. Even though she was pretty, and I seemingly got what I wanted after all this time, I STILL feel unfulfilled, unhappy, and empty. I still feel the same way about the town I live in. I just want to move out of the state someone a little colder, more personal, and more genuine. Even after hooking up with a girl, I don't feel anything, I still feel lost, empty, and a bit sad. Why is this? (link)
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There is definitely not something wrong with you and I think a lot o people feel unfulfilled by this kind of empty pleasure and honestly I personally never understood people who could be content living such shallow lives. That being said, I know that kind of lifestyle really does exist in almost all colleges, however the upside is that almost all colleges also have a lot of other options of lifestyles, they are just a little harde to seek out. I would start looking for things to get involved in other than partying etc, join some clubs, find hobbies or student groups projects to get involved with volunteering working etc and meet people no do things other than party and wi that comes girls who are looking for something more satisfying.
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I am a girl and I am 13 and I really have a crush on this boy named Corey but he's the popular one and I don't know if he likes me! Although he was dating my best friend so I don't know what to do should I tell him or no! I really don't know what to do so please help and I wanna date him and we always hang out and I don't know if I should tell him or no and it's ok if it gets serious so please just help me
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Maybe just to be careful since he was dating your friend, have someone else tell him that you like him and ask if he likes you, and that way if he says no or something they can say they were just kidding
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My girlfriend wants me to finger her, but I don't know how to transition from kissing to start touching her. (link)
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I don't think it needs to be such a distinct thing of now we are kissing and now I am going to finger you. It's not the same as hand jobs or anything for boys where there is a clear switch from when you are doing it and when your not and when you are done doing it would suggest surprising her since she already asked you to do it and said that she wants it, while you guys are kissing just slowly start touching her you can start with touching her butt and over her underwear or pants in the front but gently and do it a little then move your hands back to her stomach or boobs or wherever else and keep doing that for a bit getting closer each time then eventually go insider her underwear or take it off depending on how she is reacting . You can also go out again and then start again a few minutes, also goes without saying but just in case: don't stop kissing hear just because your fingering her. You should be still making out or at least kissing her neck or semthing while it's happening. Best of luck
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I told my friend I liked him and although he said he didn't like me as a crush, we agreed to still be friends. It's been about three months now and I want to get over him. Therefore I don't message him first anymore now but do respond and talk when he does. He used to message me first but for the last week he doesn't and at school even it seems like we don't talk much anymore. Even though I know I want to get over him, it is kinda heartbreaking when he doesn't message now. Should I message first? Why does it seem like he is kind of avoiding me? How can I get over him as a crush but still have him as a friend? I'm a 11th grade girl if that helps. (link)
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I really don't suggest that you message him first, if he said he wasn't into you then he probably is avoiding you somewhat because he thinks it's unfair to keep talking to you after knowing how you feel and doesn't want to lead you on. As much as you want to speak to him the best idea for you to get over him probably is to not speak to him and especially not for you o text him first because that will just be a recipe for you to be hurt if he doesn't respond the way you want to. The only thing you can do really is to not speak to him and maybe hell miss you and start messaging you again or start having feelings for you
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I'm a sixteen year old female and have never been on a date in my life. My parents keep me in home most the time and I don't really have the chance to socialize much. My best friend has had sex and so has her sister, and it makes me feel weird because I've never even had a boyfriend before. My dad is strict about who I date, so I'm worried whether or not I'll ever be able to have one. I've thought about going to a teen dating site to try to find someone, but my dad would blow the roof If he found out. He doesn't even like the idea of Facebook, but online dating may be my only hope. Please give me advice. Preferably from teens please (link)
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You are way too young to do online dating, that is a recipe for something very dangerous at yor age. I know right now it may seem like you should be so much more experienced by now and that things will never change but let me assure you that they will. I am 19 and never dated anyone until this year and all of a sudden have dated 6 boys this year. The only thing that changed is I moved to a new school. Your situation seems to be very much caused by your surroundings and is nothing for you to feel personally responsible for or self conscious about, you can try to talk to your dad calmly about letting you go out more, maybe not neccisarily that you want a boyfriend because that will scare him but just to go out and meet people and at least increase the chances ht you will meet someone who something will come of with, but also kow that you will inevitably be in a different setting soon and somewhere where your dad will have less control and you have more opportunities to Matt people and things will pick it. Goodluck
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About a year ago I met the most amazing guy. We clicked immediately, and he asked me out. We dated for several months, but broke up when he had to change states for his job. We considered doing long distance, but ultimately decided against it (I could tell he didn't really want to).
We remained friends - with benefits. We've been visiting each other every few months or so. We discussed getting back together if we ever found ourselves in the same city. Then, he mentioned that although he had strong feelings for me, he didn't know if he could ever love me, and didn't want to break my heart again. He eventually confessed that he never had feelings for me; which makes very little sense to me because he really seemed like he did like me. He claims that he loves spending time with me, but that's it.
He is a very emotionally distant person. He has trouble opening up and dislikes talking about his feelings. I know he's been hurt in the past; every girl he has had real feelings for has hurt him, but he claims to "get over it" very quickly. He does not attach emotionally to anything.
He calls me his best friend. We talk daily. He encourages me to date and meet other guys, and it hurts. He talks about his future, and I'm not in it. I'm a little hurt because I'm blindsided; we seem to have the perfect recipe for a wonderful relationship. I want to be with him and he thinks he can't love me - I don't understand how someone could even come to that conclusion, especially when we are best friends and are sexually involved.
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Honestly don't know what to tell you I'm only responding to tell you that the same thing just happened to me if it makes you feel any better to know your not the other one with this issue. Best of luck
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Okay , so I'm starting off by saying that i met this girl exactly six months ago and we started off as friends and we got close like i know her life she knows mine and we just care about each other soo much and we don't let people break up our friendship and keep in mind were friends and we never did anything never kissed (etc) but recently on thursday we kissed for the first time and we were just hanging out and then we started making out and then at random times we stopped and then ill be on my phone texting my friends and then she moves my chin to her lips and we started making out again and then after of an hour of making out and messing around we was leaving so i put on my shoes and she was on the bed just sitting and i had to check the bus app and i had my hand on her lap and i was sitting on a desk chair and then out of nowhere she pulled me back and started making out with me and then after that i went to go get my skateboard and leave she grabbed me back and then started making out with me. Then later on the phone she said us making out was "whatever" and mean while we were kissing we kept saying i love you and Promise you won't leave and stuff and later on she keeps saying its whatever and i think that she doesn't care we maked out does she like me or not or is she trying to hide her emotions ? (link)
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The making out I think almost forsure garunteers that she wants more than a friendship unless she is just the type to hook up with everyone. But even more so the saying I love you pretty much garunteers it. I think it's definitely worth it to talk to her about it and just be like did the other night chance anything for you, if. You guys are so close then if the answers no you can go back to normal but I feel like these things don't just happen without it meaning anything and things will be complicated between you two having these over your heads all he time if you never talk about it.
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so about a month ago i was hooking up with the hottest guy at my university. i've always had a crush on him but i could live without him. it didn't bother me that he had a girlfriend last year i just thought he was cute. this year he broke up with his girlfriend and i knew it was my chance. our mutual friend told me he was interested in hooking up with me and therefore i did. i had sex with him twice and did everything else a bunch of times. this went on for three weeks. it was only 3 weeks but it was the best 3 weeks of my life. i remember the first time i ever saw him. and the first time he held me in his arms in his bed was so surreal. he ended things because he wanted to hook up with other people too, not because there was anything wrong with us. i respected him doing so and not dueling me and another so i let it him go do his thing. i was devastated but hid it.
you see, he thinks all i wanted to do was hook up with him. i guess we were friends with benefits. i never got the chance to tell him i really liked him. i wonder if i said anything, if he would've moved on from me to se other women? i feel like right now he's doing his own thing because he's enjoying being single, but let me tell you, i felt it with him. idk what "it" is, but i know thats how i want to feel with the man i marry someday. that "it" feeling is what keeps me holding onto him.
one month later and he has been with 2 other girls after me. i'm hurt yes, but i haven't showed any signs of it and when he ended things with me i acted like i wanted the same thing and to see other men. he has no idea i'm so wrapped up about him. i want to tell him but i also don't wanna scare him away from any potential chances i still have to hook up with him. please help me. what do i do? i miss him. (link)
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If right now you guys are nothing then you don't have much to lose by trying to fix things as long as you don't do anything to really embarrass yourself. I would first try running into him somewhere if you can arrange it to seem like a coincidence then maybe pull him aside and say something to suggest that u guys hang out again then take it from there. Try to be like I know we said we'd stop to let us hook up with other people but kind of miss hooking up with you, then once that's established you can feel it out and maybe after u guys hook up suggest that you make it more and see what he thinks, don't make it seem like a commitment neccisarily or that the discussion is about becoming exclusive more just about adding feelings into the equation meanwhile still allowing it to be casual for now. If you can't organize a casual run in then try texting him but keep it brief over text and jus say like I want a see you don't have this whole conversation on text.
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