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Need boyfriend
I'm a sixteen year old female and have never been on a date in my life. My parents keep me in home most the time and I don't really have the chance to socialize much. My best friend has had sex and so has her sister, and it makes me feel weird because I've never even had a boyfriend before. My dad is strict about who I date, so I'm worried whether or not I'll ever be able to have one. I've thought about going to a teen dating site to try to find someone, but my dad would blow the roof If he found out. He doesn't even like the idea of Facebook, but online dating may be my only hope. Please give me advice. Preferably from teens please
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You are way too young to do online dating, that is a recipe for something very dangerous at yor age. I know right now it may seem like you should be so much more experienced by now and that things will never change but let me assure you that they will. I am 19 and never dated anyone until this year and all of a sudden have dated 6 boys this year. The only thing that changed is I moved to a new school. Your situation seems to be very much caused by your surroundings and is nothing for you to feel personally responsible for or self conscious about, you can try to talk to your dad calmly about letting you go out more, maybe not neccisarily that you want a boyfriend because that will scare him but just to go out and meet people and at least increase the chances ht you will meet someone who something will come of with, but also kow that you will inevitably be in a different setting soon and somewhere where your dad will have less control and you have more opportunities to Matt people and things will pick it. Goodluck
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Hey, I can totally relate to you needing a boyfriend or wanting to go on dates because those around you are in relationships and you feel left out. You are young and you want to have fun and socialise but going on dating sites really isn't the answer, especially at your age. There are so many dangers with it and to be honest you will never truly know who is on the other end of the conversation.
Honestly what I think, is that you WANT a boyfriend, every girl does but you don't NEED a boyfriend. You don't NEED a boyfriend to make you happy or to fit in. Like I said earlier, you are young and want to have fun, so just enjoy life being the age you are. Many opportunities will be thrown your way and if you meet someone along the way then take your time to get to know them. There is no rush in growing up, you have your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy who you are and what you have, good things come to those who wait.
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Well if you come across the opportunity in person, I suggest go for it whether it is behind your parent's back or not. You could online date, but coming from someone who has online dated since she was 11, it is Hell most of the time. If you can online date locally like on Tinder or something, that might not be as bad, but if it is any kind of long distance, DO NOT DO IT. it is not worth it. Also with online dating you can get catfished So easily, it's not even funny. So I highly suggest an old fashioned in-the-flesh relationship, but it is up to you. You probably will have t
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