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so, I have been friends with tracy for 15+ yrs and thought our friendship was a close one. ( she lived with my family for over a year when I was over the road truck driving). her daughter is getting married in july and dress fitting is this week. tracy and I haven't been talking lately and im chalking it up to her boyfriend.
you see, tracys boyfriend jeff wants to go to her daughters wedding. seeing jeff up close and personal and dealing with him for a week at another vacation we had taken. I really don't think this is the guy for her. he is an alcoholic and talks to tracy like crap whenever he drinks too much. I don't like it and wont put up with that at her daughters wedding. I don't know if I even want to go knowing he is going to be there and up tracys ass the whole time. she wants to introduce him to her parents ( dad recovering alcoholic from many moons ago). I don't think this is a smart decision. what to do (link)
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This a problem that needs to be talked about with Tracy. If he is not acting appropriately then I see no reason he should go as you do. How does Tracy feel about this whole thing? You have evidence that this is not a smart decision so I recommend confronting Tracy and solving this problem together.
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Ok so I'm sorry of this sounds confusing but bare with me because this is the first time in actually getting this out in some way
Ok so I'm 14 and I just started high school everyone knows that your clique when you were in middle school never stays together and I'm not the type of person to be in denial about that stuff I know it happens
So 2 of my friends I've known since the 4th grade and my other friend I've knowed since 7th grade I'm very quiet but I observe alot of things so it's kinda hard to make new friends for me but lately I've been depressed because I feel that I'm the most unliked in the group and since I'm so quiet and shy that it's really hard to make new friends the reason why I feel the most unliked is because little things like my friends not telling me that my other friend was in a wheel chair we have a group message thing and no one ever reply to me sometime they will read it and not reply they say that they love me and there is no one like me but it really hard for me to believe them and I know this well enough that most of you guys are gunna say just sit down and talk to your friends but I can't it's really hard for me to tell people how I feel
My questions am I being overly sensitive and should I just leave it alone or should I suck it up and try and make new friends either way it's gunna be hard for me (link)
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Hello,
These kind of things happen but obviously something is not working with you and you're friends. Ask you're self, are these really the people you want to hang out with? If yes, It doesn't hurt to get new friends too, are you into art? Theater? Sports? Join in, find a club or something that you enjoy. Some of the best friends in life come from sharing a passion. This of course doesn't have to mean losing those friends entirely, but having some variety should help even out things. Hang in there! And remember why fit in if you were born to stand out?
Hope this helps
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