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I feel really left out
Ok so I'm sorry of this sounds confusing but bare with me because this is the first time in actually getting this out in some way
Ok so I'm 14 and I just started high school everyone knows that your clique when you were in middle school never stays together and I'm not the type of person to be in denial about that stuff I know it happens
So 2 of my friends I've known since the 4th grade and my other friend I've knowed since 7th grade I'm very quiet but I observe alot of things so it's kinda hard to make new friends for me but lately I've been depressed because I feel that I'm the most unliked in the group and since I'm so quiet and shy that it's really hard to make new friends the reason why I feel the most unliked is because little things like my friends not telling me that my other friend was in a wheel chair we have a group message thing and no one ever reply to me sometime they will read it and not reply they say that they love me and there is no one like me but it really hard for me to believe them and I know this well enough that most of you guys are gunna say just sit down and talk to your friends but I can't it's really hard for me to tell people how I feel
My questions am I being overly sensitive and should I just leave it alone or should I suck it up and try and make new friends either way it's gunna be hard for me
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Hello,
These kind of things happen but obviously something is not working with you and you're friends. Ask you're self, are these really the people you want to hang out with? If yes, It doesn't hurt to get new friends too, are you into art? Theater? Sports? Join in, find a club or something that you enjoy. Some of the best friends in life come from sharing a passion. This of course doesn't have to mean losing those friends entirely, but having some variety should help even out things. Hang in there! And remember why fit in if you were born to stand out?
Hope this helps
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I definitely remember feeling like the odd one out at your age too. My ideal answer would be to speak to them, but I know you said you're shy, so I would ignore them and let them come to you. If they don't come to you or care, then maybe they weren't true friends. However, if they come to you, let them know. By the way, it's okay to feel how you feel. You shouldn't be worried or shy to express your emotions. You are allowed and entitled to feel how you wish!
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Hi, I think I have an answer. Just tell them how you feel, but if you are too shy, just ignore them and see how they feel. Maybe an answer to your prayer will appear, you just have to look for it.
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I agree with the other adviser. You shouldn't be depressed over friends.
You already know friends come and go when you grow up.
I'm quiet also so I understand how difficult it can be to make friends.
You already know what you need to do. Life is hard and there are some things we just need to do in order to be happy.
So talk to your friends and let them know how you feel. You don't want to lose them over something that might just all be in your head.
And be open to meet to people and make new friends. Just because you're quiet, doesn't mean you can't make friends. I have tons of friends. Just be open and if someone talks to you, listen, and you'll have something to say.
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You're all young kids. You're still getting into your personalities, your cliques, and stuff like that. You shouldn't try and make new friends, you should just try to talk with your friends more. I know it's hard cause you're shy, you just gotta tell yourself you're gonna do it.
You're 14, it's not worth being depressed over friends. It's not worth being depressed over anything. I'm not saying you're weak, I'm saying you can get the strength to be more open and talkative.
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