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Age: 18
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I've never had my period come consistently- it's always skipped every other month but this time it's been 3 months and I wouldn't say I'm anxious, but I am a bit concerned. Could this relate back to my health in some way? Does it mean something? Is it common?

I just turned 18 and sometimes still irregularly get my period. Stress can really mess with your period, as it upsets so many cycles in your body. If you are highly concerned, go to the doctor. However, if you are in your teens or even still in your younger 20's, I've heard that it is okay. Try some natural things to bring about your period! Such as some natural vitamins and fish oil pills. You can get them from natural organic stores and other health stores, I presume. My friend is 19 and is really irregular and that helps to naturally bring about her period. It's a much better alternative to birth control!

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Ok so I'm sorry of this sounds confusing but bare with me because this is the first time in actually getting this out in some way

Ok so I'm 14 and I just started high school everyone knows that your clique when you were in middle school never stays together and I'm not the type of person to be in denial about that stuff I know it happens

So 2 of my friends I've known since the 4th grade and my other friend I've knowed since 7th grade I'm very quiet but I observe alot of things so it's kinda hard to make new friends for me but lately I've been depressed because I feel that I'm the most unliked in the group and since I'm so quiet and shy that it's really hard to make new friends the reason why I feel the most unliked is because little things like my friends not telling me that my other friend was in a wheel chair we have a group message thing and no one ever reply to me sometime they will read it and not reply they say that they love me and there is no one like me but it really hard for me to believe them and I know this well enough that most of you guys are gunna say just sit down and talk to your friends but I can't it's really hard for me to tell people how I feel

My questions am I being overly sensitive and should I just leave it alone or should I suck it up and try and make new friends either way it's gunna be hard for me

I definitely remember feeling like the odd one out at your age too. My ideal answer would be to speak to them, but I know you said you're shy, so I would ignore them and let them come to you. If they don't come to you or care, then maybe they weren't true friends. However, if they come to you, let them know. By the way, it's okay to feel how you feel. You shouldn't be worried or shy to express your emotions. You are allowed and entitled to feel how you wish!

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Hey , um I'm 18 years old , next year im supposed to be in college and i don't know which major ill be in , When i 5 i started using computers and i loved computers.As i grew up , i became a Graphic designer through home experience (Photoshop,Maya,max,flash 8,unity3D), its my passion.Where i from , only 4 or 3 private(VERY EXPENSIVE!) universities offer computer graphics major.When i turned 14 i began to like computer science and coding , though I'm not good at it as much as computer graphics.A lot of colleges here offer Computer science , i like it and all but its pretty difficult plus i never tried programming before.So what should i go for Computer science or computer graphics ?? Thank you

Try to apply for some financial aid or loans, wherever you are from! (I hope they offer it)
You could also maybe look into come classes, not particularly college, that can help build your skill level, so maybe you can be self-employed? THe great thing about the computer is that there are so many opportunities. You should look into some local classes or workshops and use that as a cheaper alternative, for right now. Get your feet wet, try to be self-employed and maybe design some ads and such, build up some money, and then maybe try to go to college later? If you want it bad enough, you will always find a solution!

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Hi, so this past month I notcied this guy looking at me a lot, and he is 2 years older than me. When I mean a lot, I mean a lot, like he'll stare at me. On Thursday, I was leaving the library and he was there and he looked at me, as if checking me out or something, with his mouth opened. And one of these days, we were in the same class, and he was literally staring at me. When I looked up to catch his eye, he quickly turned away, as always. On Friday, I'd always catch him looking in my direction. We were eating and he was passing and we glanced at each other and that happened repeatedly. Yesterday, however, I got to talk to him more than I usually do. We actually had a conversation and I got to stand really close to him and it was awesome. Later, we sat in a circle with other people and whenever somebody was talking, we'd always make eye contact. But I'm still not sure if he does like me because before (exception of yesterday) he always seemed either shy around me or he'd look at me as if I was perhaps pissing him off or something whenever I'd try to talk to him. Like last week, I was asking his friend about something but I by accident interrupted their conversation, but I really didn't mean to and he literally just stared at me. Does he like me or no? If so, what can I do to get closer to him??

If he's stealing glances, it could definitely be a possibility. I would definitely try to keep talking to him, and see how it goes. He might have just been interested in what you were saying, when you accidentally interrupted the convo. Just keep trying and keep trying to talk to him. Guys, as well as girls, can be very confusing. He might be wondering the exact same about you right now! Why not try to get some of his social media, that's usually a good ice breaker, and then you can learn some more of his interests and such. However, if you aren't shy, try to score his number!

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