LOL, I probably give the worst advice ever, sorry guys...
E-mail: salemcorey@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: Writer
Age: 18
Member Since: November 7, 2014
Answers: 3
Last Update: November 7, 2014
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I've been with a girl for about 6 months and she has a daughter that's almost 2. She works a lot of overtime of provide for her (she's very low income), and has pointed out that the baby daddy never wanted her and didn't do anything to help support her when they were together. She left the baby daddy shortly after her daughter was born when she lived in his state and moved back here. He has not visited his daughter since or paid barely any child support. According to her, he has never even had a job, but has an associates degree. She says she is trying to sue him for child support. Is it wrong that she still is friends with him on Facebook then? She even responds and laughs at some posts he puts up to be funny. He asks how they are doing once a week through there but doesn't make any efforts to do anything else. He doesn't call or visit. She told me he wouldn't sign over his parental rights since he wants to leave it open to come back into their life since "part of him still loves" my girlfriend. I'm having a hard time accepting how she wants to have any relationship with him, despite him not visiting or providing support. Is she just going easy on him or is this a bigger red flag? Do I have to accept how friendly they are, even though he's not there for them? (link)
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Wow, well first off, she's probably attached to him, as he did father her child. That's a big part of her life, obviously. Second, maybe she wants to keep in contact and be friendly with him so maybe he'd come visit his daughter. My mother still remembers good things about my father, (whom she divorced 12 years ago, and who was very abusive and mean) she's been remarried now for 10 years. She doesn't want to be with my father, it's just she wants to remember the few good times they had together. If that makes any sense. As I've never had a baby, or a baby daddy I can't give much input on this. If she starts distancing herself from you and acting strange, then you should be worried. She's doing this stuff out in the open, "facebook" If she starts hiding things from you, or you're catching her in lies, you'd better watch out. :)
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I'm really really pissed! This relationship is long distance.
The man I ''Love'' I have to use it loosely,seems to not want to talk to me,and also there's a few other things I just dont like!
First off,he never calls me,we dont talk much!
He spends time going out to party,watching movies,hanging out with friends,going here,going there. And he barely pays any attention to me.
Its breaking my heart more and more and more.I don't know how much longer I can do this baloney!
Second.He is always liking sexy photos of models and women on his Instagram! I'm pretty too.I take sexy shots also.I give him enough attention.
I try my best........I give him all that I can.Im doing the best that I can.But it hurts me. Whedre am I in his life??
Am I some kind of virus that I dont count? What about me?? I should count! I should fucking matter! But I dont. I try to talk to him about him about it.No dice.But hey,I love you honey.I love you baby. Baloney! All of it is just a lie! And I hate him for that!
Here is what I look like.
http://instagram.com/p/u_OoCPSBYp/?modal=true
Am I so darn hideous or watever that Im not worth a phone call?? Hmmm??
Please my heart is breaking.Its become too much for me.......... (link)
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Oh boy, long distance relationships are so darn hard. I feel for you. My bf and I are also like this. Me dedicating every spare second I have to just sit by the computer screen hoping he'll message but he hardly ever does. He's always with friends, or working. It's really hard to deal with. Most of the time guys don't see the effort girls go to, or how attached we are to them. I don't know him, or how he feels about you, but honestly, if he doesn't make time for you, that's probably because he doesn't want to, simple as that. Sorry if I'm being harsh. You are very beautiful, I wish I looked like you :) Has it been like this your entire relationship or has he just started distancing himself from you? As for the Instagram pics he's liking, if you've told him you don't like it, and he keeps doing it, then something is clearly wrong, for him to take the time to like other girls pictures, when he wont even spend that time with you.(Not trying to be harsh) I really hope things get better between you two, :)
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hey, am an 18 years old highschool senior girl, am not confortable with the way i look i mean i know am not ugly and many people told me am beautiful as well but thats not the issue am worried about i am very slim girl. and all my friends are all bigger and curvier than me, they always makes fun of me well they don't mean it in a bad way its just a joke to zem, but it makes me feel bad about my self and the boys as well see me as some skinny girl, so they don't respect me as a girl and i have seen many boys after my friends but not after me ; well i searched on the internet and i found out i need to work out, build muscle,but thats not what i want i don't want to be muscley girl i just want to weight normal, and look normal am just tired of being called the thin and baby face girl always,even 14 years old cousin looks bigger than me i don't really know what to do about it p/s i need help/advice!! (link)
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Honey, the way you look is perfect. Don't let anyone tell you it isn't. Hardly anyone likes the way they look, some think they are too big, or too pale, or too tall. Maybe your friends tease you because secretly they wish they looked like you. I know I wish I was slim. Just be yourself, be who you want to be. A guy will come along, trust me. :)
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