Member Since: November 7, 2014
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19,F.
I moved to a new city recently for university and I met a man there. We got on almost instantly and we started texting, calling and seeing each other regularly. He would come to spend time with me after work and I would go and see him after Uni.
this lead me to believe he liked me- calling for 4 hours at a time, texting all day..
I don't mind this and I don't find him annoying- i just don't understand what he wants, as he has a girlfriend that he is supposed to marry but hasn't yet due to family issues or something(i don't know the story well).. at first he referred to us as friends but carried on flirting with me and eventually kissed me. so the second time it happened I told him it would have to stop as it can't be an accident twice, and that i didnt want to develop feelings for him if he is going to go and get married to his girlfriend in the end and I be left with nothing.
he agreed,A week passed and we ended up seeing each other again but this time we slept together and it was absolutely perfect for me i could genuinely be with him as a boyfriend and am starting to develop stronger emotions toward him but i was left feeling confused and frustrated once again. I thought that contact would stop after we slept together and he had 'got what he wanted' but he still speaks to me every day, calls me and invites me out with him. I don't understand this because I would love to just go for it as i really really like him and can see myself being with him but do I really want to risk my emotions when hes got a girlfriend ? someone said he might be using me as a backup incase this planned marriage fails.. but I'm not sure. just cant stand this not knowing any longer- and I don't want to speak to him again about it since i already did ! (link)
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Okay so since your young go with what your gut says if you honest have feelings for this person then go for it and he couldn't have a girlfriend because he kissed and slept with you and is still talking to u so he obviously enjoys your company so just go for it and if you back fires so what your young you have plenty of time to be married and have kids I hope my advice helps you!!
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I'm 15/f. I have kissed 6 different people before over the course of many years. Um, there's this one guy that I really really like and he likes me a lot too and it's scary because we both went to a party and I got drunk and so did he and some people said we kissed but others said we didn't wnd I don't think we did.. So I'm really nervous for tomorrow because we are hanging out and he said he wanted to kiss me to make it a for sure thing. I'm nervous as hell and my anxiety has been crazy. I need ways to calm myself? (link)
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Hey umm you don't have to be nervous because if you guys really like each other it'll be perfect and special so just go for it!
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