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I have a crush and don't know if he likes me I am a girl and I am 13 and I really have a crush on this boy named Corey but he's the popular one and I don't know if he likes me! Although he was dating my best friend so I don't know what to do should I tell him or no! I really don't know what to do so please help and I wanna date him and we always hang out and I don't know if I should tell him or no and it's ok if it gets serious so please just help me
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Maybe just to be careful since he was dating your friend, have someone else tell him that you like him and ask if he likes you, and that way if he says no or something they can say they were just kidding ]
If he's not dating your friend anymore, them you should ask. The worst he can do is say no, right. If you decide to ask him just be sure to be calm, and ask him the way you feel is right. Good luck, hoped my advice helped! :) ]
If he's not with your friend anymore you should be OK. Can't guarantee she won't have a brief bit of envy (if she was rather they were still together, and he ended things) but it's not usually a friendship-wrecking thing because she'll realise you are NOT keeping them apart. And he wouldn't be dating her even if you weren't around. Give it a shot mate. Might hit, might miss. But I gurantee you one thing. You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take! Good luck. ]
If he's no longer dating your best friend and he and you are hanging out together as friends anyhow, its only a short step to dating from there.
Lets put it this way: Do you pay attention to or try to hang out with guys that you don't find attractive at all, perhaps even repulsed by them? No you don't, for fear they may read it as you having an interest in them and asking you out. Guys are pretty much the same. If they are attracted enough to a girl to enjoy hanging out with her as a friend, there's always a chance they might like you as more than a friend is they get to know you better.
Heres a way to mention it without it being awkward for you or him. "Hey (insert his name), I know I enjoy hanging out with you as friends and it seems you do too. So I was just wondering if we might have enough in common to be more than friends. Do you think we should try it, dating?
This way you leave him an out if he for sure doesn't have any romantic feelings towards you, only friendship ones. If he does feel the same, he'll grab at the opportunity to agree to try dating, this way he does have to point blank ask you and risk being rejected. You by just proposing this idea to him have let him know in an offhand way that you are interested enough that you would welcome it. Dont be upset if he says no. Its a matter of having different chemistry due to the pheremones your body makes and thats something you can't change. You're born with the ones you have. Pheremones are responsible for things like a kiss with one guy being so romantic and wonderful and from another, feeling like your kid brother just kissed you on the lips. Yuck!
It doesn't mean that there is anything lacking in you, personality or looks wise, just t
So ask away in the way I mentioned and Good Luck! ]
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