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how to now if im cuming or when i cum
how will i know if i cumm having sex
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You will know when it happens, if you are unsure it didn't happen.
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Well, I'd have to know if by cum, you mean have an orgasm, or have an ejaculation?
Yes, it usally occurs at same time. And people call that cumming when they see their fluid eject.
If you're a guy:
Some guys who practice and train themselves, can learn to become multi orgasmic by holding off the actual ejaculation, letting the sensitivity of being close to ejaculation die down a bit before proceeding again and can in time learn to have many orgasms before finally allowing themselves to cum or ejaculate. Once a male ejaculates, there is a time period he must wait before being able to get hard and do it all again.
If you're a girl:
For females, they can have orgasms without any show of liquid other than some natural lubrication in the vagina. All women ejaculate, it's not just a male thing. Thing is, with some women, the ejaculate of their orgasm either empties into their bladder or those with a connecting duct that not all women have, will have theirs empty out of the urethra in what is called gushing or squirting. There are females capable of doing this external ejaculation but haven't learned how. It happens most often the first times due to g spot stimulation. the g spot is a spongey area on the top wall of vagina on the belly button side of you, right in front of your urethra. The g-spot grows and engorges with blood, same as the mans penis does. Therefore, when the urethra is stimulated as a result of gspot being worked, it can feel like the urge to pee. But if bladder is empties before having sex, you can know that there is no pee to expell, then you learn to relax those muscles that hold back urination during the sexual stimulation and the result is not only a greater orgasm but the female version of ejaculation.
So a guy cannot know ahead of his girl can ejaculate or not, and absence of fluid doesnt mean she didn't orgasm. He should be able to feel her vaginal muscles contract around his penis with an orgasm. Hope this helps answer for you. If there's anything else, let me know by asking on my column.
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