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I want to make out with a girl that I know!!
I have a crush on a girl and I want to get close to her but i don't know how.I reckon that She indirectly show that she has feelings for me but i want to verify them.We hang out and play together.
In addition, I want to get close to her and indirectly verify if she has also some feelings for me too but I don't know how.Another problem is that I think a friend of mine has also some feelings for her too and i want to make out with her before he does.
Taking everything into consideration, i would like to give me some advice about my thorny issue.I appreciate any advice you give me.
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In my opinion. C'mon man think! That is not how things work! what do you mean by you want to make out with her first before he does?? Are you treating this girl like someone you just want to use once? then your friend can have him after?? dude that's very disrespectful and a stupid plan ( sorry for being blunt) For me women should be treated as they should be, with love. I advise you to not continue with this so your friendship with her will not be in jeopardy. Be the better man and treat her with respect. If she HAS feelings for you then triple your respect for her more. relationships are for people that can love their significant other.
Better be careful of your decisions my friend. Hope this helps.
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I agree with avatar on this one. Be her best friend, treat her like a good friend and make it so that she knows you and her can talk to each other about anything. Even if she says "ok can i ask you something??" and ALWAYS ANSWER, "you know you can ask me anythinggg come onNNnn" and smile.
Really try to bring it home that you two are close at every chance you get, do kind things but dont cross the line and do stuff i boyfriend would do.
Joke about things with her alot, be sarcastic with your jokes so they cant be taken the wrong way and if they are just say "ohhh im sorry i was honestly just joking really i wasnt serious."
If things get to the point where the straight up asks you if you could see each other as a REAL couple, then you can simply reply, "you know i DID think about that but i didnt want to cross a line if that wasnt something you were down for"
It neutral, its sweet and kind, and shows that you want to respect her boundaries always. ; )
If you manage to become a couple THEN you can lay it on thicker with flowers and a box of live butterflies as a gift to release as a present at the park one day. you know, things like that. Just be the one guy she can trust and she'll figure it out soon after that. If she hasnt then it actually means she not that into you, and youll have to slowly ease yourself away from her. This will spare YOUR heart and let HER know that you'll always care but that you have to move on and find someone that IS interested in you.
make sense??
good luck ; )
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if your friend hasnt said anything about liking her then i dont think you need to hold back because of him. in terms of how to know if shes interested, pay attention to how she acts when you two are together, does she face you with her body, angle her hips at you? does she make sure to say bye and hug you when you leave eachother? does she tell you things she doesnt tell everyone? offer you things she doesnt offer everyone? try having a mutual friend as her subtly if shes interested., or bring up the conversation slowly so you can see how she reacts before you say anything.
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I've had the same problem, twice now actually, the first girl I liked moved out of the country so yeah, she's gone forever *tears. The second girl is now my girlfriend, here's how I did it. You should NEVER consider your feelings for her. Dont treat her like someone who could break your heart, instead of wanting her to be your girlfriend, try to make her your friend, then bestfriend, then admit your feelings when you two are at that level. It's not guaranteed, but since you've been her bestfriend, she'll know better than to dump you. If she doesn't like you, then just know that you still have her as a bestfriend, you're closer than anyone around her. As a bonus, you'll get to see her true self, which might help you decide whether you truly like her or not.
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