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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM
If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.
:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).
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im at a really confusing stage of life right now. i gave up my best friend for my boyfriend. now i cant see my boyfriend for a month because he is grounded. what do i do? i cant have either of the people i love most in the world. i feel like heck, and i think i made the worst decision in the world, even though i truly love my boyfriend more than my friend.
Okay, if you ruined a firendship with a guy, then you're not the best friend in the world. Do you really love someone that you met and will probably not end up marrying and go out for eh couple of months MORE THAN a friend that's been there for you and will always be there for you because you she is your best friend?
I suggest that while you have this time away from him, go talk to your friend. Try to make it up to her somehow and remember friendship is much better than boyfriends.
Okay so im on this major calorie cut diet.
And i drink water all day long
but i try not to eat past 7 but i get these cravings for something other than WATER! so i drink like 1 0r 2 DIET cokes, is that okay??
or is it gonna ruin my diet.
Im actaully extremly good with nutrition and health but i just never thought of it like this since it has so much carbonation.
Um, anything that says "Sugar free or Diet" is really really bad for your health. It contains a substance in there that is toxic and has caused cancer if consumed too much. And yes, Diet Coke, Gingerale, Dr. Pepper, etc are all bad.
Soda also has a substance in there that is bad for the bones and make them weak and brittle over a period of time.
When you have cravings, wait it out for 10min. If you still have cravings, eat celery or fruits or some sort of veggies. They aren't bad for you and rather good for you with all those uneccessary artificial flavorings and such.
Also, eat a normal size dinner and don't go on a crash diet of something
A regular teenage girl needs at least 2200 calories consumed everyday. If you don't, you'll feel dizzy, tired, exhausted, cranky, and what not. Also, enough calories must be consumed in order to have your body burn fat instead of store them.
Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...?
How's she treating you like crap? She may be doing this without knowing it or you may be the only one feeling this way.
There are several reasons for this to happen
1. Going into high/middle school
2. Different classes and no classes together
3. Growing older and apart
4. Meeting new people
What the advicenator said below me about the in-crowd may possibly be true but don't always look at it that way. If she has different classes with new people and not you, it's possible that you guys are drifting apart
Remember that friendships get lost over time unless it's been a really strong one for several years (When I say several, not 1 or 2 but rather 5-10yrs)
Instead of clinging onto her, why don't you go out and make some new friends too?
so this guy and i have been dateing for a month, we see eachother at school and stuff but we have only hung out after school once. i want to be with him more then just at school. what should i do besides saying ask me to hang out!
some of mi friends said give it time and maybe we'll start to more but it's been a month! and i think if he and i dont start to hang out more we will stop likeing eachother.
help?
Well, if you guys have been dating, go to see a movie together or go to a carnival (if you have one) together...go bowling, shopping, lazer tag, parties, etc.
Where ever you go, have him come to and vice versa but don't go or invite him to every one of your events
i have sorta bad acne on my forhead and what not i use proactive, some morning burst stuff, and another face wash but its not really working is there anything thats gunna work really really well ??
Hm, I'm sorry but I'll have to disagree with those guys below there.
Not all products work on everyone and almost all the perscriptions the dermotologists give you, proactive, products they sell at stores
They never work. They take away moisture, make your skin red and blotchy and irritated and dry.
Try food. I'm serious. Cut down on greasy foods like fries. Start eating organic HEALTHY foods. Water is always a plus. Lay off sodas and junk food of such type.
Also, do not ever use lemon juice or anything with acid in it & apply it to your face. You'll just get burned really bad.
Use Cetaphil morning and night. And everynight, make green tea (water and tea only. No sugar or anything--preferrably organic) put it in the fridge and make it cold. Splash it onto ur face after u've washed your face every night and you should see results in no time. =D
hey my friend is 4'9 and she only weighs 85 pounds she eats alot and everything but she wont gain weight. this is a really big problem for her and shes been really sad about it. what are some HEALTHY ways 4 her to gain weight.
tnakyou
p.s dont say to pig out
Go to this site. It's really helpful.
Hmm I wish I wouldn't gain weight like that...lol
http://diet.ivillage.com/measure/mweight/0,,1d6,00.html
Hello. I am 14. I need help, because I just started a relationship with this kid that I really liked last weekend, and I am really confused. We've been going out for a week and a half now..and I really like him. The thing is, I liked to be single. But I don't wnat to break his heart..or mine...and I don't wnat anything to be different between us either. I just liked being single. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Boy Troubles
Haha, same thing happened to me!!! I went out with this guy for 2 weeks tops =P and I broke up with him because I didn't want to be tied down so don't feel bad.
If you continue on with this "relationship" you're just leading him on and that's going to be a bad factor that will play when you later on break up with me (trust me...been there)
So you're obviously having big doubts so break it off with him. Make sure that you guys can still be good friends.
:Hey, im a m/16 virgin, Junior in High School
-i have never had a serious relationship, at all. When i was in 8th/9th grade or so i had a few "intimate" moments but nothing worth mentioning. Right now im quite lonely. betrayed by a few of my close friends (not really there fault, just time takes it toll) I tend to be a "friend" of many people. never have I once gotten sexually close or even talked about this to anyone.
At this point I am deperate for a sincere relationship. I am the type of person that would ask a girl out, as long as it was a 50% chance or higher I would get a "yes". But at this point I am pretty sure that not one girl would even consider me.
I'm not amazingly attractive, nor do I have the IQ of a genious. But I'm kind, smart, and caring.
I tend to question alot about life, and If a girl or friend in general cant hold there own ground, I may just lose that person from my life because I'm to damn annoying.
What should I do? I know alot of people as "friends". Not one would consider even going on a few dates with me to get to know me. I am a bit lonely and I feel that if I dont find someone soon, to at least raise me up a little higher, I might become depressed, or extremly lonely.
Since I'm a Junior I have a little more pressure/respect for my decision and I can justify what I do/am (Single/Not -Single)
How can i get what i want, a serious relationship with a great girl that will understand me. and someone who i can take an intrest in and help too (Im not selfish ^_^)
any advice at all would be great!
You're only 16...don't say you're going to become depressed or anything because it sounds pitiful, depression is a wrong term for this matter, not having a girl is nothing to get "depressed" about.
There is always someone out there for someone and in time you two will mett together sooner or later. You still have timein high school and college and basically life so just wait for time to bring you that person. Since you're only 16, I imagine you are looking for 14-16 year old girls? Anywhos, all I have to say is that not everyone is looking for such a commited relationship already and you need to loosen up about it.
And if you want to find someone you think you can share the same interest with, join a club/activity that you're interested in and you'll find someone that you can really get a long with.
Well, not me, this friend of mine. She has been screwing her life for years now and I kept being her friend for so long even though she was draggin me under. When i was with her, I was sad, she called me and spoiled my day. She was soooo dump and she would not let her real friends help. She went to a psyxhiatrist that of course could not help her but only take her money and act all profesional and stuff.
Point is, that I do not want to be her friend, she treats me like shit and I could be talking about situations for hours, the advicenators does not have enough bandwidth for all that shit. She sold me out thousands of times, she pushed all of her real friends away including me.
This is the only time in my life I am happy something like this happened. I dont miss her, no longer want to be with her, I dont want to have the slightest relatioship with her. She actually did me a favour by sending me away and I was kind of looking forward to it.Very convenient if you know what I mean. I felt as if I was the only person who cared for her when eveybody left her including her parents. I know I was the only solid thing she had in her life only she did not quite aprociate it at the time.
Anyways, the problem is that after 8 months or so she started calling me again. It is not of my character not to answer a phone when I see who is calling but I have forgiven her so many times in the past and it turned out not that good. I just dont want to anymore and that makes me feel as an evil person. I always try to be a good person, always try to help people around me, always try to do the good thing only this time, I feel it is just a basket case. I know she is in worst condition now and she aint getting any better. So the point is...I am definatelly going back to her but I just cant help but feel guilty for being a bad friend especially when she calls me. I dont want to tell her anything at all. I dont want to tell her I am no longer willing to be yourfriend I dont wnt to write a letter to her I dont want nothing. I do have so much inside of me to tell her but I dont want to.
I just want to say (dont ever call here again bye) and hang up, but do you think that makes me an evil person? I know she will never change and I dont care even though after the past we shared together.
Well, since she really does have problems and she's not faking any of this stuff, she's for real. You should feel glad that someone so insecure would open up to you and rely on you so much. You may be tired and fed up with it but think of it this way: what if you had no one but one person to rely on and talk to? What would you do? You'd definately go on for hours to them, right?
Just understand her and try to help her out as much as you can. I'm open to talking with her so you can give her my sn or something. I don't care. But you should always definately be there for her because I know that even thought I'm to a lesser degree of what you just described above, I have no one to talk to that I trust and it's really frustrating.
It doesn't make you a bad person for thinking these thoughts. I would understand b/c I have a friend who is just a scene and she needs all the attention in the world altho she is SPOILED like woah and she rambles to me on and on and on about how her life sucks when actually she has the freedome to do everything.
Well, anyways, just support her, introduce her to advicenators (sorry, I didn't quite get what you were saying above about this site), if she has myyearbook, I have a group on there called Advice Center and there are many people on there that can help. She can feel free to IM/Email me any time.
Also another thing: introduce her to a journal or diary! Whenever she's feeling down, have her write it down, sing/listen to music, draw and etc.
Hi.
I am throwing a Halloween party and I really need ideas. (10-11 year olds there) i need ideas for tose age levels and like decorationsm food, etc. I really have no idea what to do. PLease help. :(
-YOLIV
Hellos...
Try setting up a haunted house thing where your friends can get dressed up as vampire, mummy, ghost, etc and just out of closets. Read up on scary stories =D If you have a bunch of costumes, play dress up or something like that =P
Oh yesh, you need food =D CANDY!!! eh hem. And cookies too with all the prettyful designs on them =] Rent a scary movie--but maybe not to scary and not too long.
I don't know what this game is called but:
Write the name of each girls/boys names on a piece of paper, fold it, mix it in a hat and have each kid pick out a paper. Don't have them reveal whose name they have. Whose ever name they have, they have to get but in a silent way(Like a light tap on their shoulder). When one gets their person, that person is out but no one knows that fact other than the person who got them. Anywhos, moving on. The last person that is still alive is the winner.
And there is also a game that I love called Goodmorning Judge. Have a chair set up and a kid you pick randomly gets to sit in the chair with his/her facing the wall and the back to the rest of the kids. Pick one kid randomly without saying their name and that kid not making any sound. The kid will then go up to the judge and say "Goodmorning Judge" (Or say trick or treat or fit something into Halloween theme)in a disguised voice. The kid then goes back to join the rest of the kdis (Make sure they aren't giving it away by laughing or something) and then have the judge turn around and try and guess who it was. If he/ she guesses right, let the kid stay and repeat the process (If the kid is really good, just switch) & if the kid guesses the wrong person, have the person who diguised his or her voice be the judge =]
Um, I would suggest doing a ouija board but I don't think the kid's parents will be to happy with that..=/
haha. Have fun with these game and don't scare them too much that they pee in their pants =P
14/m
ok so i met this girl a while ago, and she's now my girlfriend. the only thing is that she lives about a forty-five minute drive away, and when you're fourteen and gas costs as much, its hard to do anything.
advice on how to overcome this would be nice
thnx
hmm. sorry to break your dreams but long distance things like that rarely work out. I say save the trouble for later and just end it and stay friends. I had a friend who's bf lived 30min away (yes she was 14 too.) and it didn't work out and the same applies to me.
If you still want to carry on this "relationship" i guess you can call it.. then takl to her on aim, email, the infamous myspace, phone, and whatever. meet half way in b/w at like a mall or something every weekends or every other weekends and erm yeah.
Since yesterday morning i have been sneezing. Ive probly sneezed over 120times. Its drving me insane. Its like after i sneeze them inside of my nose starts itching then i sneeze and then all over again. Ive never had allergy problems so i dont understand why im sneezing so much.
Im being serious so dont take me as one of those stupid that ask stupid questions..
thank you
There are tons of allegries out there and most people don't know they even have it. And a lot of people develope allergies they thought they didn't have over time.
Try taking Claritin every morning and see if that helps. If it doesn't, go see a doctor
my brother and i were in car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. my brother told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i had only had my licnese for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing. should i tell my parents the truth or just let it be?
iffy. okay, well obviously you have the awesome-est brother ever if he took such a big blame.
Since you're asking this question, you obviously (thank god) have guilt in this whole situation. If you do tell your parents, you will probably suffer more concenquences then your bro since 1. you let him take the blame and 2 you actually caused the accident. Your brother may also get in a little bit of trouble since he lied and covered up for you--but then I don't know your parents so I don't know. But that is probably the worse that can happen.
I say talk to your brother about it first. If he doesn't mind you telling the truth, go ahead. If he does mind, ask why and try to reason with things and no yelling or interrupting ... If it was me, I would totally take all the blame as fast as possible and not put it off since the truth will be found out sooner or later and whenever its found out, it will probably stack up the punishment level =/
ok. for school we have this club kind of thing, where we get to talk about bills and pass or fail them and stuff. [[it's really funner and cooler than it sounds]] well, we're gonna practice making bills and i was wondering if anybody had good ideas for bills that can better states and stuff. it can be about practically any topic. mostly about judiciary, education, health, economic, agriculture, and transportation problems. so any ideas would be REALLY helpful!
Abortion, Animal testing, animal cruelty, whether or not pits should be put to sleep or not (I heard in cali they may kill on the pits cuz they're vicious)
Then there is uniforms or no uniforms, healhty vs. sugary snacks for lunch
etc.
My grandmother died a little while ago (last Monday, actually) and I was very close to her. Although I seem to be handling well on the outside, I'm really torn up. I can't concentrate on anything and nothing seems worth it anymore. I am usually a very good student, I took last week off and now I'm back to school. The catch up work alone is overwhelming, I have assgnments piling on top of one another. Even if I could focus on my work, which I can't, I would still have a very difficult time catching up. With my lack of motivation as a result of my grandmother's death trying to finish all my assignments seems almost impossible. Is there anything I can do to try to get back on track? Thank you in advance.
Well, I'd tell you to listen to Helena by MCR. But if you don't want to, you don't have to.
Losing a close one is very hard...I've lost my uncle because of cancer and I loved him to death. I couldn't function anymore but somehow I came around to the thought of this: at least your grandmother lived her life joyfuly and (I don't know what the cause of her death or what medical problems she had) is out of her misery with all ther physically illnesses. She's moved on and death is a natural part of life. And what about reincarnation? I think that actually happens. I bet you that a baby girl was born somewhere the exact moment your grandmother passed away. Think of her as your angel watching over you =]
As for the assigments, organize it by putting the ones you have to turn in the earliest to the ones that you can delay for a while. Take it one step at a time instead of piling it all up because that will overwhelm you and gets nothing accomplished. Do the ones that are due tomorrow tonight. The ones due the day after tomorrow--tomorrow and be a=efficent with no distractions. Although that may be hard, concentrate. Your grandmother would've loved you to carry on with your life instead of her passing away effct your life in a negative way...
I am getting obssesed with the idea of commiting suicide. I am not a teenage girl by the way, I am a 40 year old bysiness man. I take pills so that I can sleep at night but i just wont help but anyways I dont want to bitch about my life. I just dont want to think about killing myself anymore.it is always there, the thought. Crazy thoughts, how to do it, will it hurt, make a big fuss and....that is all.
I think also that if I start doing heavy drugs things will get better.
I'm a teenage girl and you probably don't wanna read this but please do so. I've already tried to commit suicide more than once and not once did it work. I thought that I had no one and nothing to live for but I was wrong when the people that loved me stopped me.
Think about your past, your childhood. What were the happy highlights? What is your favortie past time memory...just think happy thoughts and be with the ones you care for. Think about who and what you'll be leaving behind. Don't say no one or nothing because there is always someone out there that cares about you.
I suggest you go see a doctor or some professionaly help before you decide to carry on with these thoughts
hello. :] well i have a boyfriend, matthew. we've been dating for a little over three months. we're perfect for eachother. we're pretty much unsepertable. sometimes we fight though, we wanna make this relationship perfect because our love is so high. we're both just extremly jealous people, when there's no reason to be. i understand he loves me, and he knowns i love him. uh. what should we do? i love him so much, i just don't wanna fight.:]
my dear, don't be so clingy saying i love him so much.
if you guys are both jealous people, you guys will have to deal with it your own ways. no one can tell you what to do to make a perfect relationship because really, there is no such thing called a perfect relationship. each ones going to have to have little kinks in there and each couples going to have to learn how to deal with them. and if they can't deal with it without breaking up or having CONSTANT fights about it, they should jsut break up and save the trouble
since you guys only fight oh so rarely (i think), try and work this out. tell him that instead of yelling and screaming and accusing each other of something, talk it out. and if you guys go one for like 3 days without talking or something, it probably won't work out. srry
Here's the sitch. We went on a date 2 weeks ago with this guy I met online. We went to the park talked a little, mostly my fault because I was so shy, and then went to Starbucks. We had frappucinos and become more lively. Then we went back to the park, hung out talked some more and we laid on the bench looking into each other's eyes. He asked me what I was thinking... and me being really shy, I was like uhmm nothing hehe. He said, well to be honest, I'm thinking about sex. And don't get me wrong, it was coursing through my head as well. Then we kissed he initiated, and then we just made out for a while. After like 30 minutes of making out, we decide to go to my car and well mess around. So we're messing around and blah blah, we end early because well i was feeling uncomfortable not because of him but because well the car was small, so we decide to just call it a night. I take him home we talk a little and he says, "I don't want to leave because the second I get out of this car, the rest of my night is going to be boring..." So I was like awhh then don't haha, but then you know he had to leave so then he left his shirt in my car and I was like wait, you left your shirt. He was like well... maybe I should leave it in there just so that I know that we can go on a 2nd date I was like awwhhh okay. So then I drive home and call him and tell him that I made it home safe and yadada. Then I ask him how he thought the date went, because truth be told it was his first date with another guy. Yes, i'm gay. Anyway, He was like it was really fun and blah blah, I really think he was lying. Well anyway, it got all serious and he was like, what are you looking for? I said, well i'm looking for a relationship to be honest.. and it doesn't have to be a strict relationship, like it can be open (I was lying because I didn't want to like freak him out). So then he said, yeah I'm looking for an open relationship as well because you know, i'm 18 and my sex/social life has only just begun, he's a senior in high school and i'm a junior. So anyway I was like yeah... coool.... Well a couple days later, we're talking on the phone, the reason why is because he lives 45 minutes away. Anyway I call him sometime later and ask him to go to homecoming with me, and he was really excited and was like "yes!@!@" So i'm all happy floating on clouds and what not. Then I call him the Friday after our first date, and wanted to see what's up? Well, some other guy picked up and said, "Michael's busy right now, he'll call you later *hangup*" Now, haha this transitions to any type of relationship... but I thought he was cheating on me and I know that we're not official and that we're not going out, but a couple days before he said that he "liked me." So I felt like shit and that I was being cheated on... I'm with my friends and decide well hmmm let's see if he's just trying to ignore me. So I use their phones and call him, no response so i'm like okay well maybe he really is busy... well for the rest of the night i'm with my friends... and it happens. He calls all of their cell phones back, except for mine. This seems to be a BIG indicator that something is wrong... So a day goes by and i'm pissed at him... I call him and ask him what he was doing on that Friday and he told me that he was at a birthday party and that everyone was getting drunk and blah blah so I buy the story and am like okay fine i'll take that... I ask him if he wants to hang out the next weekend and he's like sure. So then the week goes by, he doesn't talk to me or call me like he used to he rarely text messages me and never responds when I respond so then i'm thinking... well you know what I'm going to ignore him and see if you know he ends up calling me and all that stuff. So then the weekend comes by and I call him to see if I can come and pick him up, well on the day that I called him he's like Oh yeah sure it'll be lots of fun. Then I call him the day we planned to go out and he was like, "I REALLLY want to hang out with you.... but can I take a raincheck?" So then I ask, "well why?" And he goes, " well I just don't really want to leave town right now... so i'm like well that's fine i'll just come over and hang out in your town then... he's like naw... I don't want you to drive all the way out here..." I'm like hmm... then he asks, "are you mad at me?" I go, "no, i'm just really disappointed because you seemed enthusiastic about it yesterday." He goes, "well I promise i'll make it up to you!" I was like... "fine... talk to you later." then a couple days go by and I really decide to just not call him or text him or anything just to see if he you know longs for me or something. So after two days, he texts me saying "good morning, how are you?" I text him back and of course he never texts me back until the later afternoon saying, "What's up?" so I mean I'm really confused... I don't know what is his problem I mean he has a myspace, and i'm his number one, but when I look at his gay friends myspaces, I see that he comments them all the time saying things like, "Why haven't you called me?? Are you ignorning my calls???" and these are guys that live far far away but he sees them once a year and all. So I mean I know i'm probably over reacting and am acting REALLY Clingy, but I just think he's avoiding me and doesn't really see me as anything else but maybe a simple booty call... and I know I haven't asked him directly what is going on between us, but I figure... If you like someone, wouldn't you call them all the time, or at least get on AIM and have an IM conversation as much as you could?? I just need some help as to what I should do... I mean my birthday is this Friday, and I figure if he doesn't at least call me on my birthday, then it's a big indicator that he doesn't like me as much as he said he does. and I have told him it's my birthday. I know this is a REALLLLLY long question but the background info really helps when trying to help me out... and Please give good thorough advice.
teehee. don't worry. i have like 3 gay friends and the talking never stops so i'm used to the longness of the stories. anywhos, erm it seems to me that this guy isn't looking for a full commitment or a boyfriend but rather wants to just flirt and such.
and you're probably freakin him out just a tad there with all the contacting him in any way possible 24/7 so lay off that for a while. seriously.
just IM him/text/ call him tomorrow asking hey, what's up..blah blah. wanna come to my birthday party or something like that. and if he ditches or does something along the lines of that, screw him. go find other guys that are better than him. and happy almost birthday yo =D
snapples. i wanna talk to you now XD
15//female.
practically ALL of my friends have a boyfriend//girlfriend. and I have been single.. forever.. literally.. ive never had a boyfriend.
ims so depressing for me to always see them together and all happy.. especially when we leave school and its always like "love you, bye" and then they kiss.
i mean, its incredibly awkward, and i dont know what to do because i feel so lonely.
i dont know what its like to be happy like that and i just wish i did.
there are a few people i like but im too afraid to say anything, and only one of my friends [[who has a boyfriend]] is the only one that knows.. i just dont know what to do.
sorry this was long :x :/
Honey, don't worry about it. You're only 15. So that leaves 3 or 4 years of high school left? Then there is college. Then LIFE. You have forever to find a boyfriend. Just because your friends have bf's doesn't mean that you're lame or something. Having a boyfriend doesn't always seem like what you expected. You don't need a guy to make you happy. You have your friends, family, and anyone else out there that supports and loves you.
How sad does this sound? "I don't have a bf. Never had. I'm depressed." I think it sounds pathetic. You my dear need to gain confidence in yourself and change your attitude towards life.
can i loose weight by not eating but one time a day or not eating at all or will that make me sick i really wanna loose 20 pounds by november plzzzzzz help me give me some advice?
honey, becoming or trying to be anorexic, bulemic, creating disorders are definately not the way. Trust me. I was bulemic for a while and the effects of it were getting constantly sick, having no energy, losing a lot of my friends because of my mood swings and attitude toward life, my body was aching a lot, etc. You can even faint if you don't put enough nutrients and fat in your body. Also, by skipping meals, you are decreasing your metabolism and by doing this for a certain period of time, your body will start to save the fat instead of using it since the body doesn't know when the next meal is going to come in
You are setting unrealistic goals by wanting to lost 20 pounds in 20 days. That's almost a pound per day! If you want to lose wieght, do it the right way.
Exercise everyday no matter how much you dispise it. If you can't fit in 20min of exercise everyday, try doing (gradually increasing the amount) 100 crunches everyday. It only takes what, less then 5 min? Don't start off at 100. Start off maybe 20--10 in the morning 10 at night--then 30, then 40. Etc. Eat healthy. Instead of reaching for seconds, eat slowly so your brain gets the messege that you're full (it takes at least 20min) eat proportioned meals. Lay off fatty stuff like butter, mayo, penut butter, candy, junk food, sodas (even diet ones and sugar free ones)Eat veggies everyday and eat 3 porportioned meals and 2 snacks in b/w meals to help you from over piling your plate. etc.