:.Hey x3
My name is Emily and blah blah blah.

:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.

:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.

:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.

:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.

:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.

If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM

If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.

:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).


(Rating: 5) Thank you! Your encouragement really helped me to see things in perspective. I hadn't even considered re-locating so I was only sending resumes locally... you saved my life.
(Rating: 5) thanks thats pretty much what i needed
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! Goodness I can really see what you are saying, I really like Dave and I think you are completely right about how Dave meant that comment to sound. You really know how to take boy-logic and explain it to girls dont you? Well thank you again, I can finally stop worrying about it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you soo much that really helped :)
(Rating: 5) thank you! ^^
(Rating: 5) thanks! lol i think i just might dance around like a maniac lol =]]
(Rating: 5) Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) good to know about the judges. thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks for your timee. that really helped. ill to stick with it :)
(Rating: 5) thanks. your advice was great!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the input!
(Rating: 4) i wasnt exactly hoping for a website but i just might try it. thanx for answering!!
(Rating: 5) thanksss=]
(Rating: 5) oh my gosh! you're amazing thank you(=
(Rating: 5) LOL...yes i know when i type fats i tend 2 mess up but im good w/ all that junk n i know i have 2 type well in writin thnx! ill fix that....:D
(Rating: 5) I REALLY appreciate it. Thank you :) I was completely lost with the time and how many times per week or whatever. Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thank you!!
(Rating: 5) thanks alot<3 haha i love playing computer games.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!!!
(Rating: 5) thankss
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) thank you, Rick is responsible, but he really doesn't care that much, We are going to move out after the lease is over.
(Rating: 5) LOL!!!!!!!! WOW! Thanks, I love your advice the way you are so up-front about it. But the innocent thing wouldn't work at my school because it is completely ghetto. Not only that but all the girl are mad at me because all their boyfriends think that I am sexy, or in the words of Crystal 'cause I have absolutely no idea why they would, and they think that I will take their bf. Which is so stupid because I am not that mean.
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) this is cool ! thanks!
(Rating: 3) Thanks but how do i stop?
(Rating: 5) thats good thanks but hes making better friends with my friends that are girls and he always used to be afraid of them
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I'll get some green tea (I hate coffee) and stay away from bananas. :)
(Rating: 5) thanXx so much. i know we're the same age, but do you take medicine...would you suggest it? i have the same problem with my mom, sometimes she even makes fun of me for it and uses it against me, who do you trust with this kind of thing??
(Rating: 5) thanks.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much.
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) hey thanks alot for the adivcce==]] so good!! haha just lettin u kno fasting is accually a good thing cause in our religion we fast cause it teaches us pattience =] but we all have a opinions anyway thanks for the advice ima read more and more thank u hun bye
(Rating: 5) thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Thanks! :D
(Rating: 5) thanks =D I guess i was just overreacting a bit... how do you ignore them though? I lived in the city so I was never used to it and now I get it alot and its like, I also get really mad when they make fun of Rhodri (thats the guy) and its hard to ignore it. How do you do it?
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks =]
(Rating: 4) Rating changed by L2 moderator. Emily's forum is amazing, and has a selection of really useful info. This question definitely deserved a high rating.
(Rating: 5) hey thnxs so much
(Rating: 3) cant find it
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thanks! :)
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(Rating: 5) thanks. [: i'm thinking about getting it behind my parent's back, too, that's why i wanted to know.
(Rating: 5) thnk you soo much !! i told her and shes furious but yah i understand i have to put my saftey first
(Rating: 5) thank you :)
(Rating: 5) I didnt know my mom called the vet and we went. She has pravo bc they didnt tell us she needed more shots for pravo. They give us IV's and everything.. Thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks.
(Rating: 5) haha your answer was funny & truthful. thanks!
(Rating: 5) thank you, i love your forum but i havent seen it since around noonish time =]] i love all your articles, keep up the good work =]]]
(Rating: 5) haha, i had read that like, right after i'd posted this. it's amazing; very good :)
(Rating: 5) thanks emily. Just so you know- none of the links in "Losing Weight" work :[
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) hahaha. thanks. i appreciate. :D i have taken that into slight thought. haha. its a couple years away. so i have some time to think it a little more thoroughly. :D i also dont really care if they are common or not. i just think they will look good. not meaning to sound snobbish at all. :D once again. thanks for input.
(Rating: 5) ok thx, and i hope hes alright to, mcr is not the same without mikey :)
(Rating: 5) yaa i've tottaly nocticed that haha yay go evolution lol
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! You were a big help!
(Rating: 5) Whoa, I love the sites you provided! Thanks!
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU!!!!
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU!!!!
(Rating: 5) Haha thank you
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your help and the 300 thing was jus an exxageration to show how serious i was..Wasnt gona be able to do it even if i wanted to lol
(Rating: 5) Thank you for teh advice :]
(Rating: 5) haha. i know, i usually cook for myself too. which isnt always fun. :p
(Rating: 5) thanks; yeah you're right
(Rating: 5) lol. thanks
(Rating: 5) yeh industrial is the top part connected in two places isn't it? idk, if this goes well I'm going to get like 10 on each side... and gauge the lobes.. not big but just a lil bit... lol, I'm not sure what the tragus or any of that is, but I'll check it out, thanx!
(Rating: 5) thanks alot that helps. :)
(Rating: 5) lol thanks so much! hey hook me up with some of ur awesome friends lol im kidding but seriously though.. thanks!
(Rating: 5) thanks, and yeah its not that im telling them not to be friends with her. its that they are saying that to me and like we all talk about it all the time. and then i got in a fight with her adn they were all tehre back me up saying all this stuff for me to tell her and then two days later there all biff's again. but thank you.
(Rating: 5) Lol tankyou. I've just been emotional lately most probably mood swings but yeah i feel better now.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much that helps!
(Rating: 4) thank you that helps alot i mean it.. but not only is she/was my friend i just found out shes in love with me..a nd thats why shes mad because im with another girl and she thinks its niot far.. but she is dating my girlfreinds ex so i really dont know you know? so confused
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 3) i have lil baby fat =p lol and i already got abs growing buh like i want to lose this fat first ='[
(Rating: 5) thank you
(Rating: 5) hey thnaks so much
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much!
(Rating: 5) i like that quote.
(Rating: 5) thnaks so much. you helped alott
(Rating: 1) UH. I HATE when people tell me that. Ok we've been together for 2 years. hes not just goign to say somthign to get into my pants. And he didn't even say it we read it somewhere. w/e
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) we did and its now over were to nervous
(Rating: 5) awesome advice and that last bit was what i was affriad about, the regreting not spending time part an all :/ but yeh thanks alot i'll give it a go today i'm seeing her some time
(Rating: 5) Your choices are excellent! I am a vegetarian too. :)
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(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) my sister had to ask a question aha she doesn't have one since she isn't old enough yet
(Rating: 5) Rating changed by L2 moderator. -hailebop
(Rating: 5) thank you :)
(Rating: 4) Heh, not exactaly the nicest thing, but alright =]
(Rating: 5) I'm going to tell him sooner or later. I'll keep you posted.
(Rating: 5) You really were helpful and a lot less rude than te first advice giver.
(Rating: 5) umm ok? all i wore was blush which was bare minerals and mascara which isnt a big deal..
(Rating: 5) thank u
(Rating: 5) thank you so much

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