:.Hey x3
My name is Emily and blah blah blah.

:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.

:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.

:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.

:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.

:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.

If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM

If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.

:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).


What do guys find attractive in a female not only in the way she looks but also the way we act what kind of personality and what kind of personalities do lots of men dislike?

I'm not a guy, and I hate to tell you but not a lot of guys on here will answer this question simply because there is no one answer to this question.

I conducted a survey not long ago to guys of all age groups and they all had different answers. Some said they preferred looks vs intelligence, some said they preferred intelligence. Some said they like shy and quiet girls while others like loud and bold girls. Some like introverts, some like extroverts. Some want hot/sexy girls while some wanted cute/innocent looking girls.

As you can see, all guys have different preferences in females. Or what kind of a world would this be? All the guys would want one type of girl and all the girls would be one type and vice versa.

We can't say that most guys like this and don't like this because 1)it can be seen as sexist, 2)we can't clump guys into one interest, and 3)it'll be unfair to say this and that.

So what I'm saying is that if you're eyeing a guy, get to know him. If he likes you, he likes you and that's great. If he doesn't, well too bad. You're not going to form yourself into a girl that the guy you like (that doesn't like you) then the guy will only be liking you for the mask you've created yourself, not your true self, and I can tell you right now that relationships like that won't go on a remotely long ride.


(Rating: 5) Thanks for the input!

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