Question Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:15 pm
hello. :] well i have a boyfriend, matthew. we've been dating for a little over three months. we're perfect for eachother. we're pretty much unsepertable. sometimes we fight though, we wanna make this relationship perfect because our love is so high. we're both just extremly jealous people, when there's no reason to be. i understand he loves me, and he knowns i love him. uh. what should we do? i love him so much, i just don't wanna fight.:]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? WingsOfAButterfly answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:38 pm: Well dear, me and my g/f have this same problem,we've been together for over a year.She basically freaks out about any girl who talk to me or if i say someones hot shell scream and argue.Yah this is guna cause arguments,neither of you can change how u feel or change who you are.the jealousy will always be there,you cant help it besides makeing the best of your relashionship.Me and my g/f cant be together beacuse of issues with her mom and me even though we still love each other and i miss her more then anything so what i have to say to you is this:Value each other beacuse you never know when that last fight could end it or something you say couldnt be taken back or that last kiss is the last make it known that hes yours and you his and live hapily everafter.the end. [ WingsOfAButterfly's advice column | Ask WingsOfAButterfly A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:19 pm: Well first of all, I'm trying to sound pesstimistic here or anything, but no relationship can be absolutely perfect. It's going to have it's ups, it's going to have it's downs that's what makes it so great ; the outcoming result of you two sticking through whatever happens.
But anyways. Whenever you two find yourselves beginning to fight, just control yourselves and speak in calmer, nicer tones to eachother and don't yell it out ; talk it out. Since you two love eachother, I'm sure you both'll be able to make a great effort at this, and there'll be less fighting amongst you two. You guys just have to think about how much you care for eachother whenever you feel you're getting testy and want to argue, and like I said, instead replace it with talking about it and trying to resolve it.
ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:55 pm: my dear, don't be so clingy saying i love him so much.
if you guys are both jealous people, you guys will have to deal with it your own ways. no one can tell you what to do to make a perfect relationship because really, there is no such thing called a perfect relationship. each ones going to have to have little kinks in there and each couples going to have to learn how to deal with them. and if they can't deal with it without breaking up or having CONSTANT fights about it, they should jsut break up and save the trouble
since you guys only fight oh so rarely (i think), try and work this out. tell him that instead of yelling and screaming and accusing each other of something, talk it out. and if you guys go one for like 3 days without talking or something, it probably won't work out. srry [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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