Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...?
xoMarisox answered Saturday October 21 2006, 10:16 pm: She doesn't seem like a true friend. Maybe she is just using you. You never know. Sit her down and ask her why she is nice to you only but leaves you out with other people. She might not even notice she is doing it!
If it continues after you talk to her, hang out with some other freinds more. There is nothing wrong with that. And sometimes, freinds just drift away, it happens to all of us. [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Saturday October 21 2006, 9:23 pm: I don't think she's your friend... not if she treats you like crap. First, I would talk to her and tell her how you feel. See what she says, and go from there. Personally, I wouldn't even worry about it and just move on to better friends. But that's only my opinion. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
Bellaitaliana311 answered Saturday October 21 2006, 6:42 pm: as i always say, "twos company threes a crowd." my best friends do that to me too. someone is always left out. I just tend to hang out with one at a time. or 4. Just tell her how you feel and hopefully she will understand how you feel and make sure she includes you on things she does. [ Bellaitaliana311's advice column | Ask Bellaitaliana311 A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Saturday October 21 2006, 3:44 pm: How's she treating you like crap? She may be doing this without knowing it or you may be the only one feeling this way.
There are several reasons for this to happen
1. Going into high/middle school
2. Different classes and no classes together
3. Growing older and apart
4. Meeting new people
What the advicenator said below me about the in-crowd may possibly be true but don't always look at it that way. If she has different classes with new people and not you, it's possible that you guys are drifting apart
Remember that friendships get lost over time unless it's been a really strong one for several years (When I say several, not 1 or 2 but rather 5-10yrs)
yoliv answered Saturday October 21 2006, 11:50 am: Hi.
I once felt the same way. Anyways, she may be doing this do be with the 'in' crowd. Since I don't know her what-so-ever, I don't know. Try talking to her about how you feel. If this doesnt work, then maybe you might want to try doing that to her, and then if she approches you, you can then explain how you feel, and that she is doing the same to you.
Hop I helped!!! :) Good Luck!
-YOLIV [ yoliv's advice column | Ask yoliv A Question ]
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