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Boy Troubles!!


Question Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 5:00 pm

Hello. I am 14. I need help, because I just started a relationship with this kid that I really liked last weekend, and I am really confused. We've been going out for a week and a half now..and I really like him. The thing is, I liked to be single. But I don't wnat to break his heart..or mine...and I don't wnat anything to be different between us either. I just liked being single. What should I do?

Sincerely,
Boy Troubles


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Bonney34 answered Thursday October 19 2006, 6:42 pm:
its totally normal for you to feel uncomfortable in your first week of a new relationship especially if you have been single for a long time before that. Things wil settle down after a while you need to give it time and adjust to the new lifestyle. if you havent adjusted within a mionth then he is not the boy for you huni xx

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ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 9:21 pm:
Haha, same thing happened to me!!! I went out with this guy for 2 weeks tops =P and I broke up with him because I didn't want to be tied down so don't feel bad.

If you continue on with this "relationship" you're just leading him on and that's going to be a bad factor that will play when you later on break up with me (trust me...been there)

So you're obviously having big doubts so break it off with him. Make sure that you guys can still be good friends.

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happychicka answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:45 pm:
ok since you were single it is going to take a while to get use to having a bf. That is what happened with me, i was single for forever and i liked it because i could flirt with anyone i wanted but then i started going out with my friend Dylan and i really liked him and after awhile i got use to having him with me and flirting with him all the time. See the thing is if you really like him it will just take a while to adjust to having a bf but after awhile it will all be kewl. Hope i helped

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god-smusgrove answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:17 pm:
friends with benifits.

you too become great friends, and still kiss and do stuff that regular bf/gf's do while being single.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:16 pm:
if you really like him stay with him try to make it work. your not used to being taken that is what it is. i would say give it about anohter two week and see what happens. if you still dont see a change then leave him.

♥ Steph

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dulce8nina answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 7:53 pm:
UU qiRL DATZ DA SAME SHiT WiT ME!!!
FA`SERi0 iZ LiKE i LiKE BEiN SiNqLE N BEiN ABLE 2 FLiRT WiT ERRY CUTE qUY HAHA
BUT if I was you i would probably like break up with him because it is not fair 4 him nor 4 you.maybe friends with benefits would be good or tell him NO COMMITMENT you know=]
qirl you needa lettme know wut happens!!hah

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