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I have just brought a puppy staf and was wondering what the best was to build her up is. Can you help? (link)
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I'd ask my sister but she's showing dog's out of town this weekend.If you still need info by tuesday drop one in my in box and i'll find out for you. She know's everthing doggie! Me, I like da mutts. :)
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ok ..here goes i have this really sweet boyfriend , me and him have been going out for a little over 5 months! i love him so much ! but,the thing is , that there is this boy at my church who really seems to like me and every time i look at him i can't help but smile for some reason , i don't know why but for some odd reson i think i might sort of like him! even though i hadn't even talked to him yet ! after church he waits for me to talk to me and for the last 5 weeks i have done a pretty good job of avoiding him even though i want too talk to him so bad!!!
for some odd reason i think it might be better with him because he is closer to my age and my boyfriend is about to graduate! but i only see that dude at my church once a week! and i am not saying that i want to break up with my boyfriend !
what are my feelings saying to me?
-twisted in too (link)
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Don't go "steady" with either. Date them both.
You may love the boyfriend but, you aren't "in love" with him or you wouldn't consider looking at another guy. So just date them both.:)
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ok this is gonna be long but i need advice i cant hold this feelings anymore...ok this guy moved in lik 2 years ago...lets call him N....well he has been my friend and all he is sweet and is always joking around..well last year he would occasionally ask me out but since he always jokes around i didnt take it seriously he kept asking me but i kept not taking it seriously..anyways he went out with my friend thats a girl lets call her M well i got jealous and thought he picked her because she is prettier but the other day like to 3 days ago my friend came over lets call her Sally ok so Sally met the guy and i told her that he was going out with M and all that..well Sally out of nowhere ask N why wasnt he going out with me instead of M..well N said that he asked me out but i rejected him or said no...and i told him i would've said yes if he didnt joke around alot cuz i thought he was joking and he said he wasnt after that i felt guilty for not paying attention to the signs he was hinting at me that he liked me....now i want him back i want another chance because i really do like him even after 2 years of misery of seeing him with M..i still have feelings for him..i really want him..he broke up with his g/f 2 days ago..i want another chance..what should i do? Do i get over him or what?
P.S SORRY IT WAS LONG
OH HE IS 16/m and im 14/f! (link)
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I think you'd better go call him and ask him out.
Right now before someone else get's their hook's in him. Good luck! :)
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Background information: my boyfriend dumped me online 2 months ago, but we stayed friends. My best friend helped convince me that getting revenge was a good idea, and came up with ways of getting revenge.
I just found out that a week before we split, she was talking to someone about how we were on the verge of breaking up.
I didn't know anything about this at the time. However, she knew I was going to be dumped. She knew it would upset me. She knew all along and she convinced me to get revenge.
I feel totally betrayed - what should I do? (link)
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Sorry but she isn't a friend i'd want. It's almost like she was in on it isn't it.
And dumping you online? What a girlie man!
Forget them both you can do better than those backstabbers.
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this boy named jerry is unbeleiveable.. i mean he's claming he has feelings for me but im unsure.. he's in 10th grade and im in 8th next year we will both go to high school its exciting.. well anyways.. his friends complain and write me advice notes asking how they can get their buddy jerry back because he talks n spends his time thinkin all around me (cute huh) well he doesn't want to start a relationship now because we did before but we can never find the time to work it out.. so i don't know if even though i really like jerry i should play the waiting game.. or if i should just go on and find other men.. untill the 9th grade...? thanks for your help (link)
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If you like him you'll both just have to make time for each other. That's just part of any relationship. I wouldn't wait.
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ok so i have this friend joe.. me and him are the people in our group of friends who dont go out with somebody.. hes met alot of girls from different schools on the internet and we were talking about how we want to go out with people from different schools.. he told me hed hook me up with this one guy so this guy IMs me and asks for a pic.. i give him one and he says "wow.. damn" so i say can i have yours now and he takes a long time to answer and just goes i have to find one.. youll laugh at me anyways.. then he says can i just give you it tomorrow.. and well its the next day and he hasnt talked to me.. should i just leave it alone or should i ask him again for it? .. my friend says he has a nice build and hes mixed.. he cant be that bad.. any opinions? (link)
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He must have thought you were pretty. Probably think's you'd never go for a guy like him. So, if you enjoyed his conversation be sure you give him a shot...even if he isn't want you expect at first.
I would ask again for a picture or just have him meet you somewhere.:)
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I want him and I love him so much but I'll never really have him. He has a gf and doesn't see me as ever being material. But I want him and he's a player so he would. So should I enjoy him?
And say "screw his gf" and just do whatever I want with him, cause I really really want him!!! (link)
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If you want to stoop to that level go for it.
I think messing with someone who obviously is involved elsewhere and doesn't see you in that way would be making yourself look a little foolish and desperate but hey, I'm weird.
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My(used to be)best friend meghan who now I don't like anymore is flirting with my other friend Alex (who I used to go out with but now he's a really big crush)and she knows I like him alot and if I talked to her about it she would just take it he wrong way like she did last time I tried and I don't know how to get her to stop cuz it really upsets me and I think she knows why I'm mad at her but she just i/ms me asking why I'm mad and pretends like she doesn't know and I think her and my friend Julie were talking about it and meghan asked her to ask me what was wrong and that made me mad too! And I don't wanna be meghan's friend for so many reasons but I just can't deal with her flirting with Alex then denying she likes him and saying she likes this other kid. What should I do? (link)
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I'll be the bad guy.
If you are no longer dating Alex, you really have no say in who does or doesn't flirt with him or date him. If you want to get back together with him then you need to approach him about it.
If he say's no then he's free game. Sorry, that's the way it is.
I don't approve of the way your friend is acting, but she really isn't doing anything wrong. Sorry, had to be said.
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Alright, so. Here I am agian,15 Adrianna Rose Brugnoni lost agian. Ok so heres the deal, I am like once agian inlove with this my best friend Kurt. We previously dated for seven months. But after a while he made me really annoyed and started acting so stupid. And in between him and our maybe next relationship I dated John. Who I really enjoyed dating but, he ended up being a little bit too clingy and after only two months he told me he was inlove with me. After we broke ( Its been 3 months) he still says hes inlove with me and everytime he sees me with someone else he gets very jelous and very hurt. So back to kurt, I really really want to date him agian, but the problem is not only will John be completely depressed, but my mom really doesnt like him. And to me Kurt is amazingly good looking, but too my mom she thinks he looks weird, and im afriad that so would my family too. So please help me out. What should I do???
Thank you sooo much. Adi (link)
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If you want to go out with Kurt then go out with him. Unfortunatley mom isn't going to like every boy you date. It would be great if so but she probably won't. So,just do it.
Now about John. If you are no longer dating him he really has no say so either right? Don't let other's make the decisions for you. He will get over it. It might actually help him get over it because he must be holding out hope that you two will get back together.
If you want to date both, well that's perfectly acceptable too. No since tying yourself down if you don't have to. :)
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ok theres this guy i like. hes a friend of mine but i want to be more than friends. he likes another girl. the other girl didnt like him at first but when she found out he likes her she miraculously started liking him. i feel like the only reason she likes him is because she is desperate and wants to go out with someone, so since he likes her, she likes him. i like him too and i want to tell him how i feel but he really likes her. i dont want to break his heart and the other girl is my friend too. so i dont know what to do. i feel like shes using him but i dont want to ruin my relationship with either of them. what do i do? (link)
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I think you should just stay out of it all together and just let it play itself out.
If you go to him with it he may just think you're trying to ruin it for him with the girl he likes. Then you'd ruin anything that you could have with him in the future.
If she's just using him he will figure it out sooner or later. Better to be the one to pick up the pieces for him later than be the one to break them up. Even if he doesn't think that's what you're trying to do......he will probably blame you. So just wait, and when they break up make your move.
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Okay, well I have been talking to this guy for over a year. We get together almost every weekend. We tell each other everything. Here's the problem ..lol I like him ALOT and he knows it. He tells me he loves me and we talk on the phone everday we can't see each other. (he lives in a diff. city like 30 min. away) He tells his friends he likes me. But then again we fight a lot. But they never last long and we are cool again within a few min.(the fighting has stopped now unless we are joking around)He has turned down other girls because we are *talking*. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Do you think he will or am I wasting my time?
p.s.-a week ago he told someone he was thinking about asking me out...but a week has gone by and he hasnt but we still talk ALL the time? What do you think is going to happen? What do you think he is thinking?
I am 14
He is 14 (link)
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All you can do is just keep talking and hope for the best.Wish I could read his mind for ya but I can't!
I'm sure he will get around to it eventually.He has to work up the nerve to do it same as you would.Believe it or not guy's are human too....though they would like you to think otherwise sometimes.:)
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OMG I soo totally Love hard rock!..my favorite band in the whole world is Dirturbed and I love every one of their songs and i know the words to all of them and i listen to them 24/7...but i am a christian i like other music too but hard rocks my favorite....is listening to it a sin?? and do they worship the devil??? thnx for any help (link)
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I don't think listening to music is any more of a sin than reading a book. It's a story just set to music....am I right? Some are good some not so good.
I love hard rock myself, don't know a bunch of the new stuff though.
I do have one for you to try. It is an older group but I think they still have cd's. Have you heard Strypper? They are a christian metal band and they are very good. Let me know what you think of them.
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I have a large and painful canker sore in my mouth that won't seem to go away. I've tried salt water and o-zone water (water that has anti-bacterial purposes). Are there any other remedies that'll help that I don't need to go and buy stuff for? (link)
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Hey, you know what will work fast?
It won't taste good but works very well.
ALUM. It is a pickling spice and can be found in any grocery in the spice section (if you don't have any). It is extremely sour, so don't go putting a ton in there. Just wet your finger a little, dip in in the alum and put on the canker sore. will stop hurting and shrivel up to nothing, probably by the next day. I kid you not it works very well! Cost is small and will last forever.:)
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hi, i just recently turned 13 and im in the 6th grade. my mom doesnt know thati sahve my legs. i've een using her razor for about 2 months. i had to just do it because everyone else was doing it! i was the only one! all the girls stared at me and it was really embarassing. me and my family are going on a cruise very soon and my legs will be showing most of the time. if she notices i dont know what to do. if she says something about it what should i say! i dont wanna say like,"well, i've been using ur razor because everyone else at shools been doing it!" shed hav this grudge. i know this is long but i'll rate. pleeeaaase help me out! i need really goos advice! i dont think i could just talk to her..i have a pretty bad relationship with her. help help! (link)
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Did she say you couldn't shave your leg's?
Just tell her now. Say i'm kinda being made fun of for having hairy legs. A friend gave me a razor so I could shave them, do you think you could maybe get me one of my own. I'm sure she will understand.:)
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ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?! (link)
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For now go out with the one who asked you. If the other guy ask's you then go out with him.
Going out together doen't make you someones sole property ya know. You can date them both.:)
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so ive liked this guy forever-since the begining of the year..but he had a girlfriend until recently. hes liked me too but he had a really serious girlfriend (for a year!!) and then when he was single i had a boyfriend. now we are both single and weve been hanging out ALOT. weve kissed and held hands and he is soo sweet. hes always like callin me babe and stuff. and he told me to listen to some songs that remind him of me. hes just so sweet. well he told me he really likes me..but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now so we can be "close friends". what does this mean? hes not using me because hes just not like that..hes soo sweet. and i really like him. and we go to the same school. also, his ex recently started talking to me...and shes soo nice and still likes him...shes like making me feel bad for hangin out with him. but i dont know...what do i do? (link)
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He probably means what he says.Close friends doesen't have to mean sex.
The ex, well she's using you to get to him. She may be very nice but that is what's going on. Just tell her that he's your friend and you don't want to get in the middle of it.(might make him mad).Tell her you won't give him messages and you don't want to discuss their relationship etc. If she still want's to be friends with you after that then it's up to you. My guess is she will disappear.
Maybe once he is over her he will ask you out. Give him time, and don't get involved with his ex.
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Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!! (link)
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I don't know if you can bring razors on planes or not. Maybe not these day's.
Just by a cheap pack of disposible ones when you get where you're going. Don't forget to pitch them before the plane ride home again.:)
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My mom and I had an argument over braces the last week and she got really mad. I'm going to get them anyway and she won't talk to me. It's been almost a week and she always ignores me..and doesn't tell me wen it's time to eat or anything.. PLEASE don't tell me to sit her down and have a talk..we don't have that kind of relationship..and I can't wait it out! Please don't critisize..I rate! (link)
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Does your mom get her way a lot? No offense intended but she's kinda pouting.
She will get over it. If she want's to ignore you, ignore her right back like it doesn't even phase you. She's just letting you know her feeling's are hurt because you went and got braces anyway. She'll break down and talk when she see's you aren't going to baby her.:)
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I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks. (link)
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I think it would be best if you went somewhere else. Why take the chance. Not to mention if you did get carried away and someone should walk in on you unexpected....it can happen! You would be just totally embarrassed. Better not to tempt fate I think.:)
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Well, my friend and i always try to plan going to citywalk, and every time SHE cancels it. I never canceled it. I'm not sure if she really has a reason to cancel it every time, or if she just doesnt want to go with me. If she didn't want to go with me I wish she would just tell me, and I would rather her do that then expect her to go there with me. I'm not sure if I should still try to plan it with her or what. I mean I hope it's just because she has a reasonable explanation. Because I don't think that i'm that bad of a friend, I don't do anything to be mean, and I like to have fun. If you know whats going on, or if you have a idea please help me. I'm totally confused. (link)
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Just tell her from the start. I want to go on this walk. If you want to come okay, but don't back out at the last minute. It's ok if you don't want to go just say so.:)
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