Background information: my boyfriend dumped me online 2 months ago, but we stayed friends. My best friend helped convince me that getting revenge was a good idea, and came up with ways of getting revenge.
I just found out that a week before we split, she was talking to someone about how we were on the verge of breaking up.
I didn't know anything about this at the time. However, she knew I was going to be dumped. She knew it would upset me. She knew all along and she convinced me to get revenge.
I feel totally betrayed - what should I do?
Reesespieces022 answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:38 am: Don't jump to conclusions before you talk to her. You said she was talking to someone about how "you were on the verge of breaking up." that doesn't absolutely mean that she knew he was gonna break up with you- it could mean that as your best friend, she knew your relationship wasn't going so well, and had a feeling it was going to end. consider all the possibiltites. and then if you still feel like you need to know what really happened, talk to her. but be careful- most likely- she was just being a concerned friend. [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
ToddnDesBffeNe answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:11 am: if i were you i would just try to talk to your friend. because she knew and didnt tell you then you should feel betrayed, i would too! but just talk to her about it. ask her why she didnt tell you. because you would have liked to know that he was going to break up with you.
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