ok this is gonna be long but i need advice i cant hold this feelings anymore...ok this guy moved in lik 2 years ago...lets call him N....well he has been my friend and all he is sweet and is always joking around..well last year he would occasionally ask me out but since he always jokes around i didnt take it seriously he kept asking me but i kept not taking it seriously..anyways he went out with my friend thats a girl lets call her M well i got jealous and thought he picked her because she is prettier but the other day like to 3 days ago my friend came over lets call her Sally ok so Sally met the guy and i told her that he was going out with M and all that..well Sally out of nowhere ask N why wasnt he going out with me instead of M..well N said that he asked me out but i rejected him or said no...and i told him i would've said yes if he didnt joke around alot cuz i thought he was joking and he said he wasnt after that i felt guilty for not paying attention to the signs he was hinting at me that he liked me....now i want him back i want another chance because i really do like him even after 2 years of misery of seeing him with M..i still have feelings for him..i really want him..he broke up with his g/f 2 days ago..i want another chance..what should i do? Do i get over him or what?
karenR answered Saturday April 2 2005, 2:15 pm: I think you'd better go call him and ask him out.
Right now before someone else get's their hook's in him. Good luck! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
sparta answered Saturday April 2 2005, 3:28 am: hey,
First if you really care about this person you have to stop thinking of yourself for right now. He needs support and someone to talk to more than anything. So try and be there for him. Once he see that you care, and a little time has passed you should bring up the topic that you realy care for him. Then ask him if he feels the same way. And things will probably go on from there. Good luck. Don't push him, and hang in there! [ sparta's advice column | Ask sparta A Question ]
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