My mom and I had an argument over braces the last week and she got really mad. I'm going to get them anyway and she won't talk to me. It's been almost a week and she always ignores me..and doesn't tell me wen it's time to eat or anything.. PLEASE don't tell me to sit her down and have a talk..we don't have that kind of relationship..and I can't wait it out! Please don't critisize..I rate!
DolphinLuver510 answered Sunday April 3 2005, 12:25 pm: Ok, your mom sounds like the kind that will hold a big grudge. If you don't have that kind of relationship, then get braces, and when ur done getting them on, smile at her and say it isn't that bad, even if it hurts real bad. It will get u out of the fight, but you'll have to big strong, which I'm positive you'll be. [ DolphinLuver510's advice column | Ask DolphinLuver510 A Question ]
ThatSparkle answered Sunday April 3 2005, 1:32 am: I won't tell you to sit down and talk, because I know exactly how you feel. I don't have that type of relationship with my mother either.
If she ignores you, don't say or do anything that she can ignore. Make your own food and don't offer any, so you don't have to eat hers. Don't tell her when you're going places, because then she'll get mad and actually talk to you. I think it's kind of immature that your MOM ignores you. Usually for me, it's the other way around.
karenR answered Saturday April 2 2005, 1:45 am: Does your mom get her way a lot? No offense intended but she's kinda pouting.
She will get over it. If she want's to ignore you, ignore her right back like it doesn't even phase you. She's just letting you know her feeling's are hurt because you went and got braces anyway. She'll break down and talk when she see's you aren't going to baby her.:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Friday April 1 2005, 8:06 pm: Maybe write her a letter to tell her how you feel. Set up a meeting for the two of you because you do need to talk. Maybe you really need to hear her reasoning on why she's mad. If you need anything else, just IM me or send me something. ♥ Kristen [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Friday April 1 2005, 7:54 pm: i dunno if this will help... but maybe you should just casually start talking to her again... like be like "hi mom, how are you?" or something like that... and if your dads around... maybe you can ask him to talk to her for you... you should try building a relationship with her because she's your mom and inside she really loves you... you can also talk to a counselor at school if you need to just get all your problems out,... make some time for yourself at night where you just relax and listen to music. hope i helped [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
iNdEeD2isBaK answered Friday April 1 2005, 7:25 pm: theres lke only one way to get her to speak wiwth you is to speak to her...just be like mom this is so imature plzz tlk to me!
hope i helpes
♥ indeed2 [ iNdEeD2isBaK's advice column | Ask iNdEeD2isBaK A Question ]
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